Ndiqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu unoluvo lwalo ngalo mbuzo. Kubonakala ngathi liphupha- le yimveliso yethu engazi nto, kodwa kukho iintlanganiso ezimangalisayo ephupheni kunye nabantu esibathandayo. Umzekelo, sihlala sicinga ngomntu, into ayithathi umntu, musa ukuba nexesha lokuthetha. Ngaba iphupha linokusinceda ukuba sithethe nabantu ababizayo, senze into engakhange ithethe?
Nantsi eminye imizekelo yamaphupha anjalo.
"Intombi yam yayisele iza kuzala. Kuba sasikwizixeko ezahlukeneyo, abazange banxibelelane mihla le. Into ecacileyo, qho xa ndibuza: "Sele?" Kodwa umntwana wakhe wayengakhawulezi. Kwaye emva koko ndaphupha ngento esidibana nayo nayo, kwaye yayisele ingenasiswini. Kwaye ndaye ndabona ukuba ngoku wazala. Kwaye imvakalelo yayikukungcangcazela okunjalo, oko kunzima. Imvakalelo yovuyo olunyanisekileyo lomnye umntu. Ekuseni sizinyulile, ndaphupha ebusuku. Kwaye, nayo, kukho into eyonwabileyo, icocekile. Kwaye ngobusuku obulandelayo wazala. "
Okanye umzekelo, ngendlela, nakuba ukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa komntwana. Mhlawumbi kule meko yomzimba kunye nomphefumlo bhinqa ngoluhlobo lwamaphupha?
"Indintombi yam besiya esikhepheni - imidlalo ye-kayak. Sibeka ii-oars, kodwa umlambo usasomelela. Sidiliza ngamandla. Kwaye umlambo wasentabeni - kukho amanzi omjelo, ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Ndihlala phambili, usemva. Ndikhwaza: "Siza kuphemla ngoku!" Kwaye ngulo: "Thintela!" Kwaye emva koko, sisongele ukuba siphantsi kweempawu zelizwe liphela, kwaye uphi na umoya. Ingcinga yam yokugqibela: "Ndinochukumiso ngoku, ndifuna umoya!" Ndavuka ndothusa. Inyani yile yokuba le ntombi yam yayivela kwimihla ngemihla kwafuneka ibelekelwe. Ndizamile ukunxibelelana naye. Kangangeentsuku ezininzi, akazange aphendule, emva koko kwathi wayenomsebenzi onzima kwaye, esoyika into yokuba umntwana angaphezu komoya, wayeqhutywa. Ngendlela, kodwa yonke into imnandi kubo. "
Okanye ngaphezulu:
"Nonke ndisemsebenzini wakho. Kwaye intombi yam iza kum kwikhefu kwaye ithi: "Ndiza kuthini, siyahamba. Konke! Into endiyiqondayo ngoku ukuba ingakanani impilo yakhe inene! Siqala ukuthetha kakuhle, lusizi, hugging. Ndimxelele ukuba ndiza kumkhumbula nomyeni wakhe, ngamahlaya abo, ububi nobamba onyanisekileyo ebomini bam. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye vuya kwi-adventure yazo. Kwaye ndivuka ndinosizi zokwahlula kunye noloyiso lwento endiyibonayo isiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini babo ebomini. "
Ngendlela, andizithathi uluvo ngala maphupha. Zishiye njengento. Mhlawumbi nakumava akho kukho amaphupha, apho unxibelelwano kunye nemiphefumlo yabantu obathandayo yayiyinyani. Kude kufuphi kunento onokuthi uvakalelwe kwaye uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo.
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha amangalisayo ngawe? Ilinde kwaye iileta zakho ezinemizekelo yamaphupha! Thumela amabali akho ngeposi: [email protected]. Amaphupha aphantsi anomdla kakhulu!
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin