Nje ukuba kubekho uloyiko. Wayephila - akazange adlule kwaye ezonwabisa ngendlela awayenokuthi angamothusa ngayo - boyike. Kwaye akufundayo ukoyikisa kangangokuba yena waqala ukoyika, wagqiba kwelokuba kwanele ukuchitha ixesha elililili kwaye lixesha lokuba aqonde ukuba kutheni esenziwa sonke. Kwaye uloyiko lwahamba ngendlela.
Emva kwexesha elithile, wadibana nendoda eyayimi phezu kwentaba ende, eza kutsiba ematyeni. Uloyiko lwagqiba kwelokuba ndidibane, kwaye nje ukuba umntu akwazi ukoyika, amehlo akhe agcwele ngenxa yokoyika ngenxa yokuba wayevukile ekufeni. Kwaye iphinde yabuyela emphethweni wentaba.
Kwaye ke uloyiko lwavuyela. Wayewuqonda - inkonzo yakhe ukunceda ukubandakanya ubunyani bokuzikhusela, ukusinda nokhuseleko.
Ukususela ngoko uloyiko luliqabane lazo zonke izinto eziphila emhlabeni.
UMarina Alyasava, iingcali kubudlelwane, umbhali wencwadi "ungahambi, mantombazana, utshatile ..."
Ke yintoni eyoyiki? Kwaye kufuneka umnxibelelane naye?
Ngapha koko, uloyiko yimvakalelo yethu esisiseko, inkqubo yendlela yokuzalwa esilumkisa ngengozi yokwenyani okanye yokucinga. Kwaye kufuneka simxelele ukuba uyabulela. Ngapha koko, ndiyabulela kuwe!
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uloyiko luphazamisa, ukuvusa kwelona xesha lingenakungezela. Ngamanye amaxesha siyamoyisa, ngamanye amaxesha uloyiko luyasifumana. Kodwa uloyiko yimvakalelo yethu yomthonyama, kwaye kuyavela ukuba sisokola ngokwakho. Kwaye kumlo wokulwa nawe, njengoko uyazi, omnye udiniwe, omnye - olahlekileyo.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Ndicebisa ukuba ndenze abahlobo naye. Njani? Ngokulula!
Okokuqala, yithabathe inyani yokuba uloyiko luphawu olukhulu olubaluleke kakhulu lokufunda indlela yokusebenzisa.
Okwesibini, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba loyiko lusoyika ntoni? Ngamanye amaxesha uyoyika ukutshintsha indlela eqhelekileyo yobomi. Kwenzeka ntoni ngalo mzuzu?
Intshukumo entsha yenza inethiwekhi enesifo esithi "Ukukhumbula ubuchule" bokuziphatha. Kwaye ukutshintsha into, ukudalwa kwenethiwekhi entsha yenethiwekhi kuyadingeka, kwaye ukwenzela ukuba isuswe nantoni na, intshabalalo yakudala iyafuneka. Kwaye kuthatha ixesha kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, amandla. Ke ngoko, kulo naluphi na utshintsho olutsha, ingqondo yethu iphendula ngomzimba njengoxinzelelo, kwaye sifumana uloyiko.
Lungiselwa njani enye into eyoyikekayo? Ngoncedo lwengcinga yethu, akukho nto yenzekayo, kwaye sele sicinga ngemovie eyoyikisayo. Kwaye le thungelwano eyakhiweyo eyakhiwe iba yimo yoloyiko. Kwaye amava ethu adlulileyo esiveliswa kuwo uFiasco.
Yintoni omele uyenze xa uziva uloyiko?
Into yokuqala endikufumanisa kuyo iyayiqonda into ayoyike.
Okwesibini-Fumana umthombo wolo loyiko emzimbeni kwaye uyicinge le ngohlobo lwe-tangle. Ijijekile njani? Ungayifaka ephepheni, unokuvelisa kwakhona ukujikeleza kwakhe ngomnwe wakho. Fumana isiphelo sentambo kwaye uqalise ukungavumi. Njengokungavumi, uloyiko luya kuba ngaphantsi. Phinda kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ukuze ingqondo yakho idala inethiwekhi entsha.
Ukukhusela isiphumo, unokudibanisa "kule ntambo, umzekelo, verge. Yibize, kwaye uya kukukhusela kwimizuzu eyahlukeneyo yobomi bakho: uncedo, umzekelo, ukwakha ubume beentetho zikawonke-wonke ngendlela owazi ngayo "izithuba" kwaye ungazisusa ngexesha. Xa unxibelelana nabantu abatsha-funda ukumamela kwaye uve umnxibelelanisi kwaye ungabonakalisi iingcinga ezingakhathaliyo ezinokwenzakalisa okanye inkqubo yothetha-thethano. Ngomzuzu obalulekileyo wobomi bakho, thatha isisombululo sokuqaqamba kunye nendalo. Kubudlelwane obulumkele ukulumka, uya kukusindisa kwiingxabano kunye nezityholo ezingeyomfuneko.
Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha usazithethele ngokwakho ngokuzinyamekela, kwaye uloyiko lwakho - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukukhathalele ukhuseleko lwakho. Kwaye ke umzabalazo woloyiko luya kuba ngumdlalo onomdla apho uyibeka khona imigaqo.