Iimvakalelo ngunobutyebi onamandla umntu ngamnye kuthi. Kodwa kutheni ifuneka kwaye enze njani ukuba asebenze kuthi?
Njengomntwana, uninzi lwethu uthi: Musa ukulila, ungahlekanga kakhulu, ufuna, ungayifuneki kwaye hayi .... Iimfuno ezinjalo zihlala zikhokelela kwinto yokuba umntu eyeke ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe, ecinezela okanye ngokuchasene ne-vice. Kukho "amantombazana alungile" aqhelekileyo aqhele ukuba bonke abazali bazenzele isigqibo, kwaye kumadoda abantu abadala, akayiqondi le nto ayifunayo, kwaye kwinqanaba elingakumbi liqala ukuzisola. Kumadoda, ukuqonda okufanayo kweemvakalelo zabo kubaluleke ngakumbi kune-geniteb ebuthathaka. Ngoncedo lweemvakalelo, unokwenza ubukrelekrele obunamandla ozondlo eziya kunceda ukuba bazuze imali, balawule abantu kwaye bonwabe. Ukongeza, umhlaba weemvakalelo unxulumana ngokusondeleyo nengqondo yengqondo, kwaye ukuba uyacinezela iimvakalelo zakho, ayinakuchaphazela impilo. Imizimba yethu ivumelana nje nemvakalelo yethu, iingcinga zethu, iimvakalelo, kunye neemvakalelo ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Iziphumo zohlengahlengiso zihlala zivela ekuveleleni kwezifo ezahlukeneyo. I-Psychosomakis zizifo zamalungu angaphakathi kunye neenkqubo zezinto eziphuma kwimpembelelo zezinto zengqondo okanye zeemvakalelo. Izifo zengqondo zezifo zengqondo zezi-asthma, isifo se-ilchial yesisu kunye ne-duodenum, isifo seswekile, kunye nokuphazamiseka komjikelo wokuya esikhathini kwabasetyhini kunye nokuninzi. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba zonke ezi zifo zahlukile, kuzo iimpawu ezininzi. Ke ukuqala kwesi sifo kucaphukiswa yimiba yengqondo, isenzo esinokuthi sibe lithuba elincinci (ukusweleka komntu esimthandayo, ukudalwa komntu esimthandayo, ukudakumba), kudala (emsebenzini, isifo esithandwa) okanye ukunganyangeki (ubukho beengxaki ezingachananga ngenxa yeempawu zobuqu, ukungafezeki okungaphelelanga). Ezinye zezi sifo zinesifo. Uxinzelelo olufanayo lweemvakalelo lubangela ukuba nezinto ezahlukeneyo nezifo zabantu abohlukeneyo.
Lo mahluko uzimisele kubandakanya neempawu ze-charterological. Ukuba ubuntu bunokungabinamsebenzi, buyinto entle, bathabathela ekuphenduleni kwabo basebenza nzima kwaye banyanzelekile ukuba babanqamle kuso uxinzelelo lwegazi, loo mntu uneentloni, enobukhulu be-ulcerative. Umzabalazo wempilo wazo uya kunceda ukufundisisa nokulawulwa kweemvakalelo zabo.
Kodwa masibone isiqalo, yintoni imvakalelo? Kwaye ngokwayo le nkqubo yengqondo ibonisa isimo sengqondo sokuqonda kwiimeko ezikhoyo okanye ezinokubakho kunye noxolo. Imvakalelo yomthombo-ongenangqondo, kunye nemvakalelo inokuba bubuchule bokwazi. Iimvakalelo ziphakathi kwehlabathi liphela, kwaye imeko kuphela ebantwini. Ke uza kwenza ntoni kubo kunye nendlela yokuphinda ufunde ukuziqonda iimvakalelo zakho, ubalawule kwaye uzisebenzele? Le nkqubo inde yeyokomntu ngamnye. Kuya kufuneka uqale ngokulondolozwa kwidayari. Yonke imihla, ucwangcisa yonke imicimbi ebalulekileyo yemihla ngemihla, kwaye ubhale phantsi ukuba uziva ngexesha lomsitho nasemva kokugqitywa kwayo. Oku kukhokelela kutshintsho engqondweni yendlela yokucinga kunye nokuxolelwa ekuhlaleni ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nemikhwa.
Ukubeka iliso kwiteknoloji yayo eyahlukileyo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yobukrelekrele. Ingqondo yeemvakalelo kukulawula ukwazi iimvakalelo ngokutsha kwakhona kwemozulu kunye nokubeka esweni iimvakalelo ezilungileyo. Ukongeza, kuya kukunceda uzikhuthaze. Iimvakalelo ziya kuqala ukusebenza kuwe, kwimpilo yakho, umgangatho wobomi kunye nobutyebi bemali. Musa ukoyika iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, kufuneka ufunde ukuziqonda, ukhathazeka kwaye utshintsha, nantoni na eza kuphoswa.
Ukuziqonda, kulula ukuba uqonde abanye abantu abavela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kwaye babaphatha.
Ukuba uyinkokeli, kulula ukwakha iqela kwi-capital capital.
Umsebenzi wakho kuphela uya kunika isiphumo, khumbula ukuba iimvakalelo zakho, njengobomi bakho ezandleni zakho. Funda ukuguqula iimvakalelo zikrelekrele kwiimvakalelo, kwaye ufumane imali ngeli sakhono sokwenza imali, ukwamkelwa koluntu, uthando kunye nembeko kubantu ababalulekileyo.