Yonke iqala ... ukusuka ekungabizi. Ngokwakho, iqabane, ubomi.
Emsebenzini wakhe wokuziqhelanisa nabathengi abafuna ukwenza ubudlelwane obonwabisayo kunye neqabane, ndabona utyekelo loku "ulibale" ukuba isondo yenye yezinto ezisisiseko kulo mbandela.
Ukuvavanya ukuba umthengi ulindele kubudlelwane obuzayo okanye ukuba unganika olu lwalamano, kuphela kwi-10% yamatyala abizwa ngokuba sisini esikumgangatho ophezulu. Ekuphumleni, akukhankanywa.
Xa unxibelelana ngokunxulumene neengxaki kunye neengxaki ezinamava ebhedini, umkhwa watyhilwa phambi kofakelo esivela kuthi, abafazi ukuba "abantu bakulungele kuphela", "" bonke abantu babelana ngesondo I-Manciya "," kufuneka kuqala ndicinge ngabantwana. " Kananjalo, abaninzi boyika ukukhululwa, "ngequbuliso andiyi kuqonda," "Ndinentloni, kuba andiziva ndingoyiki," kwaye intsingiselo yile Ukwenza lonto andivuyi? " njl.
Kukho esinye isizathu-"Ndinento eyoneleyo yokomoya, yonke enye into iqhagamshele kwaye ayinamsebenzi, eyona nto iphambili kukuba sithandane."
Ngelishwa, siphulukene nokuqonda ukubaluleka kwemfundo yezesondo kusapho. Abazali abayixeleli abantwana ngemfuneko yokhathalelo kunye neqabane labo lesondo, elikhokelela kwiimeko ezininzi ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, ukuphoxeka, ukuzithemba kunye nezinye iziphumo ezingenamsebenzi.
UMarina Alyasava, iingcali kubudlelwane, umbhali wencwadi "ungahambi, mantombazana, utshatile ..."
Kwenziwe ntoni? Ungayiphepha njani yonke le miqobo kwaye wonwabe ngokwenene kubudlelwane?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba intsapho elungileyo ifana nomfanekiso olungileyo, yonke into ekwindawo yayo: ipeyinti ekhethiweyo yepeyinti, i-thus, indawo yokuchukumisa i-picture ithanda ukwenziwa kwayo ngokubanzi. Akukho nto ibalaseleyo kuyo. Ndifuna ukujonga umfanekiso onjalo kwaye ndonwabe ubuhle bayo, ubunzulu nobunzulu bomculi. Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha, siyijonge, into entsha, ngaphambili ayinakubonwa, kodwa ayikho mhle.
Okwesibini, ndicebisa ukuba ndiqonde into yokuba kuphela abazali abonwabileyo bonke abonwabileyo omnye komnye banokwenza abantwana babo bonwabe ngokwenene.
Okwesithathu kuphela xa senza into ezonwabisayo, siphila ngenene ngovuyo.
Ke ngoko makhe sonwabe kuyo yonke into oyenzayo. Kwaye ayinamsebenzi - ngaba ulungiselela, ukhulisa abantwana okanye unxibelelane nomyeni wakho. Nokuba ungadibana nomntu omthandayo, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde indlela oyonwabe ngayo, kungenjalo kutheni?
Qalisa ubudlelwane bakho ngokunyaniseka, okokuqala, ngokunxulumene nawe kwaye, ngokunxulumene neqabane. Ukuba isondo ayikho endaweni yokuqala kuwe, akufuneki udibane nendoda ebiyeyona nto iphambili. Kungekudala, oku kuya kukhokelela kwingxaki yokungaqondi, kwaye amathuba aphezulu okubheja kunye nokwahlula kobuhlungu kuya kuvela.
Zivumele ubunewunewu njengokukwazi ukuthetha nomnye, ngakumbi kwimicimbi esondeleyo. Kuthembela kwaye uvule iqabane lakho, mamela ngokwakho - iimvakalelo zakho, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo. Ukuziqonda kuya kukunceda wakhe ubudlelwane obuhambelana noko kwaye bonwabele unxibelelwano olupheleleyo. Ukukhuthaza uvuyo kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi bakho kunye.
Kwaye khumbula, le ndoda inoyolo olukhulu xa ibhinqa lalo linandipha le nkqubo kunokuba libelwengulo lokumkholisa. Kwaye apha yonke into iphumelele - ongumfazi kunye nendoda, kunye nolwalamano. Yonwaba kwaye uthandane.