Enye yezona zinto zinamandla emhlabeni ngumbindi. Ngenxa yokhuseleko nokusinda kwenzala yakho, nawuphi na umama uya kwenza nantoni na. Ngokoqobo. Kuya kubonakala ngathi, ukujongana nokufakwa kwendalo kunzima kakhulu, nangona kunjalo kukho abafazi abafihla umdla wokuba nabantwana ngaphakathi, kwaye mhlawumbi ayinamava nje.
Ukuba awunabo abantwana, oko akunamsebenzi ukuba ubacwangcise na okanye hayi, uluntu luya kucela: "Ewe, baya kuzalisekisa umsebenzi wabo wasemhlabeni kwaye bazolile. Ukuba awukwazi ukuphendula kwingcikivo ongenakusabela kuyo, emva koko kwimeko yemibuzo evela kwindoda, kuya kufuneka iphikise inxenye yayo. Ukongeza, umyeni unokudibanisa nezihlobo ezikufutshane, kwaye apha awukwazi ukuphuma: kuya kufuneka uphendule- ukuba kutheni kwaye kutheni.
Nokuba isibini sanele imali eyaneleyo, ngokufika kweendleko zomntwana ziya kuba ngaphezulu
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Iingcali zengqondo zabela izizathu ezisixhenxe eziphambili zokushiywa kwabantwana. Masifumanise ukuba yintoni ingxaki.
Imeko yemali engazinzanga
Akukho mfuneko yobomi obungaphantsi komtshato wentlupheko, abantu banokudlala umtshato kwaye baphile kakuhle, kodwa umntwana unokuba yinxalenye yeendleko ezizukwabhabha. Esi sizathu asinathemba: Ungahlala uphucula isikhundla sakho ngokuzibhokoxa, ekhwela izitepsi zamakhondo omsebenzi.
Uloyiko oluphambi lokuzalwa komntwana luyathandwa kakhulu
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Ukunqongophala kweNdawo yoMama
Ewe, kwaye oku kuyenzeka. Iingcali zibalwa ukuba i-10% yabafazi ngokwemvelo ikwi-zero. Nangona kunjalo, loo mfazi unokuba nomyeni, ulwalamano oluhle kunye nazo zonke izihlobo, kunye nomfazi onokuthi adibane nabanye kakuhle. Igama eliphambili apha "elinye".
Umsebenzi
Ngokomthetho wokuthetha, umsebenzi ochumileyo uyahambelana nexesha elifanelekileyo lokuzalwa komntwana. Ixesha elide lo mfazi lilungisa inkqubo yokukhulelwa, kokukhona kuya kubakho kulo mkhwa, kwaye xa ekugqibeleni ethatha isigqibo sokuzalwa komzimba, kuya kufika emva kwexesha kwisicwangciso se-filology. Iziphumo, kunjalo, kodwa, kodwa umntwana unokuvela kuphela ngesiphumo, ngokuthatha umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho okanye umama.
Uloyiko lobunzima
Kubonakala ngathi ngumfazi ukuba akukho sizathu saneleyo sokuphakamisa umntwana, kwangaxeshanye abafuni ukumkhulisa, ngoko ke umfazi uthabathela ngokupheleleyo ukuba ngunina. Olu luphawu lobuxoki, kuba akukho mntu uzalelwa nguGuru ukukhulisa, kwaye nabantu abaye banikezela ngobomi bokufunda indlela yemfundo banokuvela kubunzima kwinqanaba elithile.
Uxinzelelo kufuneka luphathwe ngokuzimeleyo lwezicwangciso zokuba ngumama
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Uloyiko lwentlungu
Enye i-20% inkunkuma ngabom ukuba iboyika ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Kuba isoyikiso esimangalisayo ngamabali oqhelileyo kunye namabali kwiiforamu zabasetyhini zinokujika zibe yiPhobia, kubalulekile ukuba ungaphosi mzuzu kwaye ungazami ukuchaza umntu ombi, kungekho mntu wazala abantu abambalwa abantwana kwaye uqhubeke ukuphila ngokupheleleyo.
IQHELISI LEMPILO
Umfazi unokuphila nendoda iminyaka emininzi, kodwa ungaze azale umntwana kuye. Kwaye eli tyala lisenokungabi kwimeko yemzimba kuphela, endaweni yoko, ekunqongopheni. Akukho madoda maninzi bamenze intembelo, ukuba babe ngabamoyikhi nabaphumelelayo be-ge. Makabe ngumntu oyena mntu ubalaseleyo, indoda neqabane ebomini, kodwa ukuba ngutata wahluke ngokupheleleyo, hayi yonke indoda ilungele ukuba. Yile nto umntu obhinqileyo avakalelwa kukuba angavumi ukuba aqalise umntwana umntu.
Iingxaki zengqondo
Ukwala abantwana kunokunxulunyaniswa nokungonwabi kwangaphakathi. Xa umntu ebona uxolo kwiitoni ezingwevu, uyoyika ubomi kwaye udanile ngokubanzi kuhlobo lwabantu, luhlobo luni lwabantwana esinokuluthetha ngalo? Kule meko, kufanelekile ukuba unxibelelane nengcali- hayi ngenxa yokuba kufuneka eqiniseke ukuba uyakuqinisekisa, ubeke indlela yomntwana ongumntwana, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ilusizi emhlabeni, akunjalo?