Kutshanje, ithiyori yeelwimi ezintlanu zothando iyaqhubeka ithandwa, elinye lamagama. Oku ayingamabinzana athambileyo kuphela, kodwa nokukwazi ukuxhasa kunye nokunceda ubuxoki. Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba kubudlelwane bokuqonda malunga nokujonga indlebe omnye komnye udlala indima ebalulekileyo. Sixelela indlela yokufumana indlela yokufumana isiqingatha sesibini kwaye siphucule imo yakhe.
"Ndiyakuthandana"
Kungabonakala ngathi ibinzana elilula elichaza iimvakalelo zethu. Nangona kunjalo, enyanisweni, abantu abaninzi kunzima ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo - abanikeli ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kumagama abonisa ukuba baziva benjalo. Ukuba u "tering", ekunzima ukwabelana ngamava, ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo umntu amthandayo akafumani sigama saneleyo sekhalenda. Andikwazi ukuthetha-bhala iileta. Imiyalezo yothando echaza into oyithandayo kwaye uyayixabisa iqabane aliyi kushiya nabani na ongafundanga.
Zive ukhululekile kwiimvakalelo zakho
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"Ubonakala Undelekile"
Nokuba ungaphantsi komgangatho, umntu mnandi xa enikela ingqalelo kwinkangeleko yakhe. Ukuthetha ngentanda, nikela ingqalelo kwindlela akukhangela ngayo ngenkalipho, ubuhle bombala wamehlo kunye nenwele entle. Unokunikela ingqalelo kwifom yomzimba efanelekileyo kunye nemvakalelo efanelekileyo yesitayile. Akukho mntu ngaphandle kwakho uyazi izinto ezininzi ezintle zesiqingatha sakho sesibini.
"Wenziwe mkhulu"
Ngokutsho kwe-hierarchy yeZidingo, umntu ngamnye ufuna ukuqonda kuluntu. Uluvo lomntu othandekayo lubaluleke nangakumbi, kuba lusenziwa ngokwesiseko sendibaniselwano yolwazi olusisiseko kunye nenjongo. Lumka uye emsebenzini kwaye umdlalo wakho womyeni wakho: Musa ukugqobhoza, kodwa ungalibali ukuthetha malunga nento etsalela ingqalelo kakhulu. Umzekelo, isiqingatha sesibini sihlala rhoqo kwezemidlalo-yitsho ukuba uyayithanda ngenjongo, unyamezelo kunye nonyamezelo.
"Ungumyeni omangalisayo"
Xa ixesha lonke jikeleza ingqalelo, ayothusi ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha uyayeka. Ewe, umntu uyayinyamekela imvakalelo yakho kunye nokubaluleka kwakho kuba ibalulekile kuye, kodwa ungalibali ukugxila koku. Myeke indoda yakho yazi ukuba wonwabile ukuyinika izipho kunye neempawu ezincinci zokunikela ingqalelo. Uya kuvakalelwa kukuba ayiyonto ilize.
Idumise omnye komnye
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"Masithethe Nemiphefumlo"
Nangona amadoda ahlala engenamda kwaye azame ukufihla iingxaki zabo ezivela kubantu ababathandayo, kodwa bahlala bevuya kukwazi ukuba unomdla kubo. Ngobudlelwane kubalulekile ukuba ngabathandi kuphela, kodwa kunye nabahlobo abalungileyo. Mnike yena ukuba athethe ngendlela eya kuyo yonke imini, funda malunga nezicwangciso zempelaveki. Ngokuthe ngcembe, ungadlulisela isihloko kwincoko ngamava akhe kwaye oko kukhathazayo. Ukuthuthuzela ngokweemvakalelo yinto ebalulekileyo yolwalamano, ngoko ke zama ukwenza ubuninzi kwindalo yayo.
Yiba ngumhlobo weqabane
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