"Sihamba nomama ngaselunxwemeni, ecaleni kwendlela, yiya elwandle. Kwaye nditsho umama ngemvakalelo: "Mama, eli likhaya lam, yindawo yam! Ndiyayithanda apha, ndimangalisa apha! "Umama uphendula athi:" Uyedwa apha, awuyi kujongana nolwandle, nditsho ndicocekile, i Njengodaka! "Ndiyayithanda kolu lunxweme, ndithumela ikhaya laza ndabuya ndaya ebhankini. Ndibona indoda ekukhathaleleyo izilwanyana: Iikhiti, iTiger kunye nezinye iikati. Ndimcebisa ukuba ancede nge-nursery, kuyo yonke into axhaswa kuye kwaye athi ndifuna ukhuseleko kunye nokuhlawulwa komsebenzi wam. Uphendula ukuba yonke into ilungile ukuba ndiza kukhathalela i-kittens kwaye ndinokuhlala naye. "
UClarissa Pinki Pers, umnyango kaJungi obhale incwadi edumileyo "eneengcuka", wathetha ngemibhalo yakhe malunga nokuqalisa komfazi - oko kukuthi, ukuzahlulela kwebhinqa eliselula. Kwaye ifumana olu qalelo luvela kunina. Ngamanye amagama, intombazana eselula kufuneka ifumane intsikelelo evela kuMama kwizinto zokuba unobomi balo kangangokuba unelungelo leempazamo zakhe, usapho lwayo, amaphupha abo. Ukuba uqhekeze kangangokuba engasafuneki imiyalelo kamama, kodwa ifuna inkxaso yakhe kuphela.
Ukulala kule ntombazana ithi sele iphakame kakhulu ekuxeleleni unina, ukuba angaqhubeka nokuphila ngokwakhe ifumene ikhaya lakhe, njengokuphela koMcebisi. Udibana nomntu oya kuphakamisa abantwana bamxhase.
Ngapha koko, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba onke amabhinqa aselula ayakuphumelela inkqubo enjalo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukwahlukana okuphakathi konina akwenzeki. Oomama bayaqhubeka nokuphazamisa kubomi beentombi zabantu abadala, bakhulisa abantwana babo, bagxeka ubomi bentsapho yabo. Kwaye iintombi zabantu zabantu abadala azikwazi ukuzikhusela kule anyanion, njengamantombazana amancinci ayoyika ukuphoxeka okanye kumkhubekise umama.
Le nkqubo iphawuleka kuluntu lwethu. Ukwahlula-hlulwa kubazali akwenzeki, oko kuthetha ukuba olu qalelo lukhona. Ke ngoko, abasetyhini abadala bahlala baziphathe noomama abafana nabantwana abakhubekisayo.
Kodwa iphupha lethu libonakala lizisa i-ofisi efanelekileyo yobudlelwane nonina. Kwaye le yeyona nto ilungileyo inokuba yenzeka ngapha komtshato.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin