Isenokubonakala ingaqhelekanga, kodwa abantu abadala abaninzi boyika abantwana abancinci. Ingabonakala, le yoyike phi le nto, kuba umntwana akanakusenzakalisa. Nangona kunjalo, kuyinto yokuba umntu ziingxaki ezingathandekiyo apho umntwana anokuzisa umntwana omncinci. Yiyo loo nto ukungathandi. Kwaye inokwenzeka nakubantu abanabantwana babo.
Ngubani igama lePhobia elifanayo?
Uloyiko lunegama lalo-pedophobia. Abantu abahlangabezana nesi sifo kunzima ukujoyina nawuphi na unxibelelwano nabantwana: Nxibelelana, badlale okanye baphakamise. Kuza kwinqanaba lokuba abantu baqalise ukugcina iidosi zifana nabantwana abancinci.
Eyona ngxaki ibalulekileyo apho abantu bajamelana nayo kukungakwazi ukwenza usapho lwabo. Ngapha koko, unobangela woloyiko kusenokuba ungaqondakali kumntu: usenokungakhululeki ukuba kwigumbi elinye nomntwana.
Nditsho nokuphosa amagama ambalwa kunye nomntwana emi kunye neenzame zabo ezinkulu, kwaye ekugqibeleni kwemozulu izakugqiba: umntu uyacaphukisa, i-hysteria inokwenzeka kuye.
nemidlalo nabantwana banokuqhuba umntu ngoxinzelelo
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Uqaliswa phi uloyiko?
Unobangela ophambili we-pedophobia yingozi yengqondo ukusuka ebuntwaneni. Rhoqo, oku kuyenzeka nabantu abavela kwiintsapho kubantwana abaliqela: abazali banokunikela ingqalelo ngakumbi komnye wabantwana kunolunye. Kungoko okona kuphantsi kobukrwada. Kubonakala ngathi ngumntu ukuba nawuphi na umntwana kukhuphiswano lwakhe. I-psyche yabantwana ithethwe kakhulu kuzo zonke iintlobo zoxinzelelo kunye ne-sumili, ke nayiphi na ingqumbo yexesha elide ihleli kwimemori yomntu omdala.
Enye inketho: Abazali bazama ukunganxibelelani nomntwana ophelelwe ngamatyala, ukuze bona bangafumani idosi, oko kukuthi, baphephe iingxaki. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana okwintsapho enjalo uyabalawuleka, okukhokelela ekwotshisweni okukhulu ngakumbi kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana nabazali, kwaye unegalelo ekoyikini yoloyiko lwabantwana.
Zama ukusebenzela ingxaki nge-psychologist
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Ibonakala njani iPhobia?
Ukuba awunguye ugqirha wezengqondo, kunzima ukumisela i-pedophoba, unokuqikelela kuphela malunga nale miqondiso ilandelayo:
-Umphindi uyabiza;
-Ukuphefumla ukuphefumla;
-Uxinzelelo luyakhasa;
-Intloko iqala ukujikeleza;
-Izintambo zomnye;
-i-stipor;
-Ukulahleka okunokwenzeka kwengqondo.
Abantwana ngokuyingozi ngokungakhathali
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Yintoni enokukhokelela kwePeddophobia?
Umfazi unokushiya umntwana kwisibhedlele sokwamama.
Ukunqongophala kokuthatha inxaxheba ekukhuliseni komntwana.
Umntu uyeka ukunxibelelana nabantu abaqhelekileyo nabahlobo abanabantwana.
Njengoko uqonde, iPedophobia ayinakubizwa ngokuba yi-PATAL, ikhokelela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ezingathandekiyo, kwaye ke kufuneka isokola i-psychologist.
Ungayikhulisa njani le nto uloyiko?
Kwiimeko ezilula, kunokwenzeka ukuba ujamelane nalo loyike, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uziva ngathi imeko iphuma kulawulo, nxibelelana nogqirha wezengqondo. Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuqala, ukuthoba kwaye uzame ukujonga le meko kwesinye isitshixo. Abantwana bexesha lokuba - zizilwanyana ezingenabungozi. Rhoqo, babonisa uloyiko lwabantu abadala, ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo akunakukothuka emehlweni omntwana.