Kanye njengokuba izimvo malunga nefashoni ziyatshintsha, iimbono malunga nokwabelana ngesondo ziyaguquka. Umzi mveliso wefashoni ubuza imithetho yalo yomdlalo, baxhomekeke kuqoqosho, imeko yezopolitiko, imvakalelo yoluntu ngokubanzi. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqikelela ezona ndlela ziphambili- kuthetha ukuqondakala ezi ndawo.
Ngaphandle kokubuya kwemifanekiso yeHippie okanye i-90s, inesandi esitsha, sale mihla. I-fringe, ibhulukhwe-iglue, izixhobo zendalo, izihlangu zendalo "ezimbi", iziqwengana zebhulukhwe-kwelinye icala, i-minity kunye nothando lwembali, eziza kuthatha Phezulu ngaphezulu kwako konke okunikeza ngoku kwiivenkile. Nokuba yayiyintoni na kwincopho yokuthandwa, nokuba umfanekiso womfazi onqwenelekayo uchazwe, eyona nto iphambili yokwabelana ngesondo kukuzithemba, ukukhululeka nokuzola.
Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba ufanelekile ukuba zonke izinto ezilungileyo, ke awuyi kungqina ngazo abanye: Uya kwanele ukuzithemba kwakho koku, kwaye indawo esingqongileyo iya kukukholelwa kolu nxamnye nokuzithemba. Ukuba ucinga ngokwasetyhini, nayiphi na impahla iyakujonga. Isondo sokwabelana ngesondo sabasetyhini siqala ngengubo esifutshane, kodwa kwimvakalelo ngaphakathi. Ukwenza ngathi, unexhala, ivolthi, kwimeko enjalo kunzima ukuba nomtsalane.
Inokuchazwa Zimbini iindlela zokwabelana ngesondo:
-Ukubangela umnqweno wokusebenzisa;
-Ukubangela umnqweno wokufumana.
Nguwe kuphela othatha isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo lomfazi ofuna ukuba yiyo. Kwimeko yokuqala, ukhetho oluhle kakhulu luya kuba ziimpahla ezivulekileyo ezivulekileyo, eziya kuthi zixelele ngokumangalisa kweenjongo.
Kwimeko yesibini, uya kuba uphazamisa, unesitayile, unxibe incasa entle. Kule, iindleko eziphezulu zewadi akufuneki, azifuneki, zijonge nje ngokwakho kwaye uthathe eyona nto ilungele wena. Khetha umbala wakho, isitayile sakho, gxininisa ezikukhumbuleni, zilungiselele ukuma kunye nokuzithemba uziphethe ehlabathini.
Ukunxibelelana namadoda amadala aqhelekileyo ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-25 ukuya kwengama-40 yemeko eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, ndafumanisa ukuba umfazi onokuthi ungcungcuthekise ujonge ngakumbi umdla kakhulu kwaye ubangela inzala eshushu kakhulu. Ngokwabo, umfazi onjalo unomdla wokuqonda, ukusombulula, uloyiso olunjalo luya kuba lubaluleke ngakumbi. Amadoda atsala imfihlakalo kunye nemfihlakalo, ungayisebenzisa le nkanyo ngeenjongo zakho.
Abanye babatshintshi bexilozelo bavuma ukuba banomdla kwi-sperts emide kubafazi kwabo bahamba bahamba-ingezisa ukuba balandele ityhutyha kwaye bafune ukulandela umfazi onjalo; umntu uthanda amacici amade agxininisa intambo; Abanye bahlala ngaphandle kwamahlombe kunye ne-clavicle, i-curls ihla kwiinwele ... Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka ngakumbi, kuba, njengoko uyazi, bangaphi abantu, izimvo ezininzi. Yonke le nto ngumdlalo ngempahla yokunxiba, ngembonakalo, ngendlela yakho. Ungayifumana nakweyiphi na impahla.
Kwaye, ewe, umzimba onqunu utsala amehlo akhe, nangona kunjalo, ukuba babonakala ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza kwaye kuyanda.
Ndikunqwenelela ukuba undixabise, phuhlisa ukuzithemba, khetha ukuba iimpahla ezilungele wena, hlalani ubuntu, xelela ibali elincinci malunga nawe, emva koko ndifuna ukwazi ngakumbi.
Karina Efimova,
Ingcali ekudalweni kweWadi ye-Ward