Into oyithandayo yayintle ebhedini ukuba udidekile kwinani lezithobeli, kwaye abamelwane babediniwe kukunkqonkqoza eludongeni? Ngaba Ndifanele Ndimbulele Iqabane?
Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba ayimkelekanga ukuba idumise indoda - akukho sini sihle nantoni na. Udumisa Lowo uvela phezulu: Intloko yomsulwa, umama womntwana. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokudumisa umntu, uya kufumana ukhetho ezintathu zokuphuhliswa kweziganeko. Inketho yeyokuqala: Uya kuqhawula rhabaxa, isitshetshe, uhlobo lomlilo. Inketho yesibini: Indoda iyakushiya. Kwangoko okanye hayi kwangoko, kodwa iya kuba yinto engathandekiyo kwindalo. Inketho yesithathu: Uya kufumana unyana ecaleni kwakho, ingenguye umntu, kodwa yinkwenkwe. Ewe, ewe, ayiyi kushiya naphi na, kodwa uya kubanjwa naye, kuba womelele, ulumkile, kunjalo.
Kwenziwe ntoni? Indoda kufuneka ithande, kuba ukuvuma akusosikhundla ngaphezulu, isikhundla silingana okanye sivela ezantsi - kodwa hayi ngaphezulu.
Ungamthanda njani umntu? Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ayisiyo fom, kodwa umxholo. Kuya kufuneka sifumane ukuncoma enyanisweni, ukuba kwimeko yokuthandwa, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, le fomu ayibalulekanga kangako. Kusenokuba kukujonga, kwaye uncumo, kunye namabinzana ambalwa ngokupheleleyo - ukuba uyakuvuyela, mayingayiqondi le ndoda, ukunconywa kuye nakweliphi na inyathelo elahlukileyo kwindoda. Ukuba awuthathi mntu, ke ngoko uthi, Yonke into iya kuba bubuxoki, kwaye umntu uya kuziva. Mhlawumbi ayisixesha lokuqala, hayi rhoqo, kodwa ayizukusebenza.
Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe? Ukuba ufuna ukubulela umntu, akufuneki usebenzise igama "kakhulu": "Esona sithandwa", yintoni enkulu. Kuba eli gama lithathwa ngamanye amadoda, kwaye uthelekise. Indoda iya kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuba kwimeko apho kuvavanywa khona kwaye kuthelekiswa nabanye. Kwaye ngokubanzi, akufuneki uthelekise, akufanele uthi "Ungoyena ulungileyo", "ungcono kunaye wonke umntu", njl njl. Kufuneka wasasaza ukuba ukuphela kwenu, yonke into enxulumene nokuthelekisa kufuneka ikhutshelwe ngaphandle.
Sukujonga uDick wakhe, ungamdumisi kwaye ubathande. Ilungu lendoda, zonke iintlobo zobunzima zinokuqhagamshelwa, kwaye kunzima ukuzicingela ukuba luhlobo olunjani lwezinto ezikhoyo. Ungathandaza ilungu kuphela ukuba ukwisibini iminyaka emininzi kwaye uziva kakuhle yonke imixholo, uyazi zonke izinto ezikhoyo, njl njl. Kubudlelwane butsha, kungcono ukudlela esi sihloko.
Kuya kufuneka sazi umlinganiso. Ukuthandwa kunye nombulelo banika amandla amahle kakhulu, kodwa ukuba basasazwa rhoqo kwaye ngomjelo oqinileyo, emva koko emva kwethuba baya kuba yimvelaphi enokubangela iimvakalelo. Okanye iya kwaziwa njengokuhlazisa: ngokungathi ufuna okuthile kuye kwaye ngenxa yoko ukuncoma.
Kulungile kakhulu ukuba ubonakalisa ukucaphuka kungekuphela nje, kodwa nangexesha lesini. Kwaye eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza ukuba kuthetha malunga neemvakalelo zakho. Ngenxa yoko, ngandlela, unokuhlawula irhafu kwilungu leqabane. "Yintoni enkulu yakho!", "Ndiyayithanda kakhulu!" -Iinkcazo ezingamkelekanga. Kodwa ungathi: "Ndiyayithanda i-dick yakho kakhulu!" Okanye "ndiyakuthanda ke xa usem!" Oko kukuthi, awuthethi malunga nelungu elinayo, kodwa malunga nento oziva ngayo ngokunxulumene nelungu lakhe, kwaye ayinakukhathazeka okanye icaphukiswe yinguqulelo yokuphumelela.
Kwaye ngokubanzi, zonke izincomo zingcono ukwenza "ndiphumelele:" Ndiyazithanda izandla zakho kakhulu "okanye" izandla zakho zindiva, kwaye ke awuxabisi kwaye hayi Ukuxoxa ngeqabane lakho.
Amadoda zizidalwa ezinokuzithemba okungazinzanga kakhulu, ngokwenene zifuna izincomo zakho, inkuthalo yakho, kwaye unako, gcina umlinganiso, makamnike inkqubela phambili. Oku kuyakuba negalelo ekukhuthazeni kwayo, ukukhula kwayo, kwaye kungekudala akuyi kuba njalo, kwaye kuya kuba yinto yokuba enyanisweni ikhoyo ebomini bakho. Kwakhona, amadoda abaluleke kakhulu ukuba afumane isiqinisekiso sokuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kwaye ke into yokuba uya kuvakalisa umbulelo kunye nombulelo uya kukhokelela kuphuhliso lwakho ngokubanzi nakwisiwa sesondo ngokukodwa.