Asinakuyazi yonke into eyenzekayo kubomi babantwana bethu xa beshiya imida yendlu. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iimpawu zinokuqikelela ukuba kukho iingxaki ezithile. Ukuba ukrokrela, kufuneka wenze ngokukhawuleza ukumisa imeko eyingozi ngexesha.
Yeyiphi imiqondiso enokutyikitya iingxaki?
Imvelaphi yeqhina kunye ne-disguust isebenza njengealam
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Umntwana uba yimfihlo
Utshintsho olunjalo lokuziphatha lubonakale luphawuleka xa umntwana ehlala evulekile kwaye enobuhlobo. Inguqu ebukhali kwimood ibonisa iingxaki apho umntwana ayoyika okanye akafuni ukukunikela. Umntwana unokusoyika nje ukuba abazali baya kuphendula ngokungazenzisiyo.
Iingxaki ngokulala
Abantwana bahlala behlupha amaphupha amabi ngamaphupha, nangona kunjalo, xa kuba yinto eqhubekayo, oomama nootata bacinge ukuba bacingelwa ngaphandle, nokuba kwenzeke. Bukela umntwana wakho ukuba imeko iphindaphindwe kaninzi ngeveki, kufanelekile ukuba ufuna uncedo kwingcali, kodwa ngaphambi koko, athethe naye.
Umntwana uqala ukunxibelelana ngendlela eyahlukileyo yabantu abadala.
Isizathu sokuba inkxalabo inokuba ngumzuzu wokudibana nabantu abathile, phambi kokuba umntwana athumele ngequbuliso. Uninzi lwabantwana luneentloni, kodwa xa umntwana ebengagxothwa ngaphambili, kwaye ngoku ethe cwaka kwaye ethe cwaka kwaye ethanda abafowunelwa nabazali nabanye abantu, kufuneka unakho ingqalelo kuyo.
Ukuba ukukrokrela kwakho kuqinisekisiwe, kuqhagamshele ngokukhawuleza iiarhente zokunyanzelwa komthetho nakwingcali yengqondo. Ngokwethu, ngoko, yenza ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Abantwana kufuneka babethembi ngokungathembani
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Zama ukuqinisekisa umntwana ukuba ugcwele ukhuseleko ngelixa use nawe
Xoxa ngento eyenzekileyo kunzima kakhulu kumntwana kunye nomntu omdala, ngenxa yoko kufuneka uthethe kwindawo enjalo ukuze umntwana wakho avakalelwe kukhuseleko olupheleleyo. Kwenze oko, ukuba nabani na, ngaphandle kwenu, ebengekho egumbini lencoko. Kuphela kweli tyala, le nto ingangonwabisiyo, kodwa yingxoxo ebaluleke kakhulu. Akukho tyala musa ukugweba umntwana kwaye ungayiniki nkqo-ukuba akabekeki tyala ngayo nantoni na, kwaye akavuswanga emva kokuphendula kakubi kwakho.
Buza ngokuLula kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo
Injongo yakho kukufumanisa okwenzekileyo. Buza ngononophelo ukuba umntu wakhe omdala wazama kwezi ndawo apho kungafanele ukuba khona. Zama ukuphepha abantu abangabaziyo ukuba badideke umntwana.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukulala, ungavumeli imeko ikwi-Samoek
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Chaza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukuba uyazi
Phantse umntu osoloko ethandabuza ukuba ugonyamelo uya kumxelela umntwana ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo akufuneki yaziwe kwizalamane kwaye aziqhelene. Ukuba umntwana uyala ukuphendula, ukucacisa ukuthula kwemfihlakalo, uthi abantu abadala akufuneki batshintshiselane neemfihlo ngabantwana. Vumela umntwana ayazi ukuba akazukufumana naziphi na iingxaki ukuba uyabelana "emfihlo".
Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba unokuhlala enxibelelana nengcebiso okanye uncedo.
Abantwana boyika kakhulu ukugwetywa ngabantu abadala, yiyo le nto uninzi lweengxaki ezinkulu zihlala zingaziwayo ngenxa yeemvakalelo zabantwana zehlazo kunye nokungakhathali. Enye yemithetho ebaluleke kakhulu yemfundo-umntwana kufuneka akuthembele. Kule meko kuphela unokuqiniseka ukuba nangayiphi na imeko engaqondakaliyo okanye eyingozi, umntwana uya kuqhagamshela kuyo yonke into kuwe.