Ukunxibelelana nabantu ofuna ukufumana into, nokuba lunyuke lwemivuzo okanye ngoncedo lwasekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba ungayibhengeze injongo yakho kuphela, kodwa nokusebenzisa iindlela ezithile zenkolelo. Bona, ngokutsho kwezengqondo, nceda ukufezekisa iziphumo ozifunayo kwaye ufumane into oyiphuphayo. Sixelela malunga neengcali ezisebenza ngokufanelekileyo.
Imigaqo yeTones elungileyo
Xa unxibelelana nomnye umntu, akufuneki ukuba uveze isikhundla sakho, kodwa unikele ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha - ithoni, ukuqengqa, ilizwi, ilizwi kunye nezinye. Thetha nesimo sengqondo esihle, uncume kwaye ungamoyiki ukuhlekisa. Ingxoxo enjalo iya kwaziwa ngumnxibelelanisi ongcono kunethoni yesitayile soMfundisi-ntsapho kwaye uza kunika iziphumo. Sukufuna ukuphakama kunomthendeleko-uya kuba nakho ukuva kwaye uphulaphule, mandikuyekelele ithoni yam, musa ukutshintsha ithoni yelizwi, ukutshintsha i-wiring ngentshukumo yezolo.
Lungiselela ukuba
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Impumelelo kwimizuzu emi-5 yokuqala
Iingcali zengqondo zithi kufuneka uqiniseke umntu kwilungelo labo kwimizuzu emi-5 yokuqala yencoko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngamnye kuthi ukhetha ukukhusela isikhundla sabo, kwaye ungatshintsheli uluvo ecaleni komdlalo umdlalo. Ukuba umntu uthe ngokucacileyo "Hayi", emva koko incoko ayinamsebenzi- uya kujonga uxolo kwaye uzame ukuzithethelela, kwaye ungathathi cala. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba ufaka iingcali ezininzi ukuze uqiniseke ukuba umnxibelelanisi, ukuze incoko iqhubekekayo inika iziphumo ozifunayo.
Iindlela zempikiswano
Kukholelwa ukuba kukho iindlela ezine zempikiswano. Abanye babale ngaphezulu, kubandakanya uluhlu lwezinto ezenziwayo, nangona eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu zincitshisiwe kwiindlela ezifanayo:
- Ukwamkelwa kwengxwabangxwaba. Kuya kufuneka ubeka umnxibelelanisi kubo nangayiphi na indlela. Oku kuchaphazeleka ngqo yinkangeleko yakho - igcinwe kakuhle, isitayile sempahla, i-hairstyle, i-faairstyle, i-Suleup, ukucoceka kwezihlangu kunye ne-manicoure. Abantu bakhetha ukuvumelana nabo banamathela kwisitayile esingqongqo kwaye sikhangeleka sicocekile, kunokuba sibe ne-collutical engacwangciswanga. Ungalibali ukuncuma kunye nokuhlekisa - kuyanceda ukukhupha imeko kwaye kusekwe unxibelelwano lwengqondo.
- Umzekeliso wokwamkelwa. Akukho mntu uthandayo xa umdlali-mboleko osasaza ingcinga emthini kunye neyure enamahlathi izama ukuchaza ingcinga ehambelana nesivakalisi esinye. Qala ngencoko esemgangathweni-Umsebenzi, usapho, izicwangciso. Ngexesha lonxibelelwano, zama ukubambelela kwisihloko esihambelana nesicelo sakho. Ukuxambulisana, sebenzisa imizekelo esebenzayo, imibuzo kunye nokuthelekisa.
Yenzakelisa amagama imizekelo
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- Ukwamkelwa kokuthatha inxaxheba. Abantu bayakuthanda ukucinga ukuba ngababhali onomdla- vumela umntu onxibelelana naye esiphelweni, eningenelo kuwe. Esebenzisa kuye, shiya i-isp yeoksijini: Buza imibuzo eya kuphendula kuyo. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, indima esebenzayo kwincoko ayiyi kumvumela ukuba akhathaze kwaye abone kuphela umchulumancoweyo- uya kuba nomdla kwisicelo sakho.
- Fumana incoko ebunzini. Enye indlela yenkolelo kukuchaza isikhundla kwaye ubize izizathu zengxoxo. Oku kusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba ufuna ukuxoxa ngenye yeengxaki ezingxamisekileyo kwiqela.
Hlawula, hayi igama
Phantse bonke abaphathi abanobuchule banesakhono sokuqiniseka kokuzalwa. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ndingathethi nje, kodwa nezokwenza. Ayinantsingiselo kakhulu ukucinga ukuba impendulo yengqinisiso sele ine-90% yempumelelo. Isindululo ngasinye singumsebenzi omninzi ofanele uyiqonde. Yakha umfanekiso wakho kwishishini, kwaye hayi amagama, emva koko isenzo siya kukuthetha ngawe-abantu baya kukufumanisa.