Ngaba kufuneka ubuze kwivenkile enkulu, ebiza kakhulu, ngaba abayithengisi? Ngokucacileyo, hayi. Abavelisi abanobuchule abazibandakanyi ukuphikisana, bathandabuza ubunyani beempahla ezifanelekileyo kwiivenkile ezincinci nakwibhulukhwe yesitrato.
Nceda ucebise "ivumba elibizayo" lesipho libeka umthengisi kwindawo enzima. Ayisiyo malunga nexabiso lebhotile, kodwa malunga nokuqonda umntu ngamnye. Ingcinga yobunewunewu, eboniswe kwivumba, yahlukile, unokwenza ntoni apha?
Omnye umbuzo awuyi kufumana impendulo. Uvakala ngolu hlobo: "Kwaye ezi ziqholo-ze zemvelo okanye zezazisi?" Ewe kunjalo, kukho ii-niche, ekwenzeni kwayo ezisetyenziselwa kuphela izinto zendalo kuphela. Kodwa zithengiswa kwiiphammu kunye nokuma imali entle (ukuya kuthi ga kwiwaka leedola). Kwivenkile ivenkile imakethi yesininzi, apho abantu bahlala beza kufumana iziqholo ezintsha, uya kunikelwa sisiqholo, esinezinto zendalo, kunye nezemichiza - le yenziwa njani iziqholo (i-rands eyaziwayo) zenziwa njani.
Kwakhona, akufuneki ube nomdla apho kufuneka khona imimoya. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo ethandwayo, iincasa azihlule ngokwabantu nebhinqa. Eyona nto iphambili endiyithandayo iqhumiso kwaye sasondela kumniniyo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, bambalwa abantu abaphendula umbuzo, nokuba iphunga liyamelana na? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuxhomekeke, ngakumbi, kwipropathi yesikhumba sakho. Ewe, abanye abavelisi benza inqaku elikhethekileyo lokuba ivumba elinevumba liphethe iiyure ezili-12. Kodwa uninzi lwendlela kuphela yindawo yokuthengisa kuphela. Abathengisi akunakulindeleka ukuba bakwazi ukuphendula ngalo mbuzo ngokuqinisekileyo.