Sonke sasibandakanyeka kuyo ... sixelwe ngomhla wokuqala, engazange sanele intloko kwaye iminyaka emininzi ibamba intloko, bathetha nentombazana yakhe, eyafundwayo ukuba iqhube inqwelo made, kunye nomphathi we-5 Iiprojekthi ngaxeshanye aziyongxaki ngaxeshanye. Sonke sikhohlisane ukuya kwisidanga esinye okanye kwenye. Siyabaxaka, sijonge phantsi, okanye ixesha elingaqhelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, kutheni siyenza?
Ukunyaniseka Ukuphulukana nexabiso
Nokuba kupholile kangakanani, nokunyaniseka koluntu kwanamhlanje akuxabisekanga. Kutheni le nto utsale into ebunzi emntwini, unxibe incoko engathandekiyo okanye ungquzulwano, ukuba ungabhenela kumaqhinga kunye nokuqhekeza kwaye ufumane into oyifunayo? Kwiishelfu zeevenkile zencwadi, uza kubona amakhulu eencwadi kwi-psychology ngesi sihloko. Wena, ngokungathi ngaphandle koxinzelelo ngokuthe ngqo kwengqondo, ifuthe umntu kwaye ufumane into oyifunayo. Abanye oochwephesha bezengqondo bafuna ukubiza ezo ndlela "zokunxibelelana". Kodwa ngaba iyahlonela enye?
Singaxoka ukuba sizolile
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Zeziphi iingcali zengqondo
I-Discieting Guimpalos Ngokunxulumene nabani lo? Okokuqala, lo yintsapho yethu-abantwana, abazali. Singabazi kakuhle kwaye, sihlala singazi ukuba, ibaphazamise rhoqo. Sisexesha lokuzola. Umhlobo wakho ufuna umsebenzi, wacela ukuba afumanise ukuba akukho zindawo zasimahla kwinkampani yakho. Uthembisile ukuba ufumanise kwisebe labasebenzi, kodwa ugobe kwaye ulibale. Kwaye ngoku intombi iyabiza: "Ewe, kungenzeki njani?" Kwaye uthi babuze emsebenzini, kodwa akukho mpendulo okwangoku, njengoko kuneentloni zokuvuma ukuba ulibele ukufezekisa isicelo. Kungcono ukuba kuthetha ukuba akukho phulo kule veki kwaye kwakungekho xesha lokubuza, kodwa uya kucela isicelo kungekudala.
Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, oochwephesha bengqondo baqala ukubiza "Indlela yonxibelelwano"
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Intlonelo inegalelo kubuxoki
Sinokukhohlisa umntu ovela kwithole. Intombi inxibe intlanganiso yengubo entsha, engafanelekanga ngokupheleleyo kuhlobo lwayo lwesimo. Awuwuthandi nyani lo mfanekiso, kodwa ingubo sele ithengiwe, ke uthi intombi ijongeka ngathi intle. Singaxoka ukuba sibukeka ngcono, siqinile, sinomtsalane emehlweni omntu. Umzekelo weklasikhi kwixesha lethu ukuphinda iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde kwaye ifoto yeefoto zabo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Asifuni ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nabantu obaziyo ukubona izangqa phantsi kwamehlo okanye kancinci zijikelezwe emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa sesisu esimnyama- kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Ucinga ntoni? Ngaba ukhathalela kangakanani na wena nabanye?