Ibinzana elithi "umntwana" liguqulelwe ngokuthi "simahla kubantwana". Ngaphaya koko, iChayddffrey inokuba njengabantu abakhethe nje ukungabi nabuthathaka kubantwana kwaye bangazihlanganisi ebomini bokwenyani kunye nabo babelana ngeembono zabo kunye namaqela anezimvo zabo, okanye kwiiforamu kwi-Intanethi. Iqela lesibini labantu, njengomthetho, lisenza ngobukrakra, limisela iliso labo lehlabathi kunye nemdelelo malunga nabo bonke abantwana.
Nangona kunjalo, sagqiba kwelokuba sithethe ngohlobo lokuqala - abantu abaye bazenza lula ukhetho lwabo kwaye abazami kwicala labo lokuphumla.
Abantwana kufuneka banikele bonke ubomi babo
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Zeziphi izizathu zokuba umntu angafuni kuqalisa abantwana?
Abantu banokugqiba kwelokuba ukwala ubumama kunye nolwalamano ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, enye inokuba:
-Ulwalamano olungathandekiyo kwintsapho yakho.
-Iimpawu zomntu.
-Impembelelo yoluntu.
Xa indoda ibonakalisa ukhathalelo olugqithisileyo ebuntwaneni, wayengasetyenziswanga ukuba weza ngelixesha xa kufuneka enyamekele omnye umntu. Akaboni nje ngale ndlela kwaye akasiqondi isizathu sokuba ayisebenzile.
Xa umntwana ebuntwaneni akathanga jongile, akabonisi iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo, inokubangela ukuba kungabikho mnqweno wokuqalisa umntwana wakho.
Kwenzeka ukuba oomama abakhutheleyo banoxanduva lokukhathalela abantwana abancinci kubadala, nangona abantwana bengafanele banakekele abanye abantwana, kuba olu luxanduva lukamama. Abantwana abakhulele kwiintsapho ezinjalo, baqhele ukuphakamisa imeko efanayo kwintsapho yabo, kwaye bayala ukuqhubeka nohlobo.
Rhoqo abantwana abadala bayahamba bajonga umncinci
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Ngokubhekisele kuluntu, yonke intombazana esencinci ivile kummelwane / intombi kamama, ukuba "ulutsha alinabuNaphakade", njl njl. Uluntu olubi alunangqondo luyala ulonwabo lomama, ngamanye amaxesha lwenza kakubi kuphela, hayi uluntu olunye. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde, ukwala emntwaneni ngenxa yakho okanye uzame ukubonisa into eqhelekileyo.
Yintoni umahluko phakathi komntwana ovela kumntwana
Umlingane wenza i-99% yeeforamu ze-chayldfrey. Umntu ongafuni ukuba nabantwana akazigqali kunyanzelekile ukuba ahlale kwi-Intanethi kwaye kwakhona angqina enye into kwabanye, kuba olu luphawu lomntu wonke. Enye into kuxa abantu bafuna ukuguqulela umsindo wabo, apho babhaliswa kwiiforamu ezinjalo, zimanyene ekuhlaleni. Aba bantu abananto yakwenza namantwana, ukuba uninzi lwabo aba ngabantwana besikolo abazama ukuzichaza kwaye ngokomgaqo ekuseni kusekusasa ukucinga abantwana.
Njengommiselo, imithi inesidima ngenxa ye-hey, yona ngokwazo ayinabungozi kwaye ayihambelani naphi na.
Cinga ukuba ungamnika umntwana wakho
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Njani ukufumanisa ukhetho?
Ungazimisela ngokuzimela uqinisekile ukuba ungumntwana okanye awunguye. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uphendule imibuzo embalwa:
1. Ngaba uzibona njengonina okanye ufuna ukuchitha ubomi ekuziphucweni?
2. Ngaba kufuneka uqhubeke nohlobo?
3. Unokufumana ntoni emntwaneni?
4. Bantwana babutshintsha ubomi bakho, ngaba ukulungele ukunikela kwelinye umntu?
5. Ngaba unethemba lokuba kwihlabathi lakho kuya kubakho indawo yobomi obutsha?
Ukuba uphendule ubuncinci imibuzo embalwa ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakukwazi ukuzibiza ngokuba ungumntwana. Nangona kunjalo, esi asisosizathu sokuqala ukubaleka kwaye siqale umntwana, cinga ukuba unayo yonke imicimbi yokuzalwa kwakhe nokukhula kwakhe, kuba kusanele uthando, kufuneka unike ubomi obufanelekileyo ngendoda encinci.