Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ubukho bomntwana okanye indawo ephezulu ngokuzenzekelayo isenza sibe ngabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, omabini uMama akanatyala kwaye umsebenzi onzulu awuchaphazeli ukwenziwa kwethu ngaphakathi. Kukho imiqondiso ethile onokuthi ubale umntu ayingqinelani, masiyifumane.
Unxibelelwano ezimbini nabantu abangathandekiyo kuwe
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Indoda eqolileyo ayizami ukuphinda ithathe abanye
Umntu oqondayo ukuba ngamnye wethu uneembono zayo, okufanele ukuhlonipha. Xa umntu ezama ukusibeka ecaleni kwakhe, kwaye ayinamsebenzi ukuba unjani, uthetha ngokungazinzi.
Ngokwesiqhelo, ukuba awuyithandi into kwabanye abantu, awunakunxibelelana nje, kwaye ukuba awuvumelanga iimeko, emva koko unike unxibelelwano ubuncinci.
Ayixhomekeki ekujikelezisweni
Indoda eqolileyo ngokwakhe ilawula ubomi bakhe kwaye ayilindelanga ukuba izalamane nabahlobo baya kuthatha isigqibo ngalo. Njengoko ungatshintshi abanye, ungavumeli ukuphumla, ungakuvumeli ukuba ufike, kwaye ube ngqiqweni, ukuba uxele kwaye umbono wakho okanye umbono wakho awulunganga. Aba bantu ababambi, batsho ukuba banokuyeka ukuncokola nawe nangaliphi na ixesha, kodwa awuzukutshintsha kakhulu.
Kwaye ngokubanzi, ukuba umntu omdala ufuna iBhunga, uhlala ebuza, kwaye akanyamezeli incoko kwithoni exhotyisiweyo.
Yiba noxanduva kwizisombululo zakho.
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Wonke umntu uyaphoswa
Musa ukuvumela abanye ukuba bakugwebe ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle ezingabuchaphazeli ubomi babo ngqo. Wonke umntu unempazamo, kuquka nabantu obaqhelileyo, kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Indoda eqolileyo iyabuqonda lonke ubuthathaka, ngenxa yoko ibhekisa kubo ngokuzolileyo.
Xa siphosakele, sifumana amava ongezelelweyo ukuba kufuneka uhlalutye kwaye uqhubeke ukuzama ukuphepha iimeko ezinjalo.
Nceda ngoncedo lwakho
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Indoda eqolileyo iyazi indlela yokwala ukungabi nangqondo
Uninzi lwezihlobo eziqhelekileyo, ngakumbi izihlobo, uthando luyaqhatha, ngokungazithembi kwimvakalelo yokuziva unetyala. Nangona kunjalo, akufuneki uphile ubomi bomnye umntu, onayo owakho ongenakulinda. Ewe kunjalo, njengoko kufuneka, kufuneka uxhase kwaye unike uncedo, kodwa ungaphazamisi ixesha lethu kunye nezixhobo. Oku akuthethi ukuba ungugqirha ogqityiweyo, uyazixabisa nje kwaye wenze yonke into esemandleni akho.
Indoda eqolileyo ihlala inoxanduva ngezenzo zakhe
Kulutsha kuphela onokwenza ishishini, kwaye ukhalaza kubazali kwaye unethemba lokuba baya kuthatha isigqibo. Ukuba uzijonga njengomntu okhulileyo, kwaye ke kunokwenzeka ukuba apho, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuphendula ngayo nayiphi na izenzo. Ugqibe kwelokuba lo msebenzi nomntwana, kwaye wafumana uvavanyo olungonelisekanga? Vuma le nyaniso, kwaye uzame ukuyenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo, kwaye ungalahleli ityala kutitshala. Kwaye ke yenza yonke into.