Lo mzuzu uyenzeka xa sihlukane neqabane- inokuba neminyaka engama-20 ubudala, kuba kudlulile uthando, kwaye akukho mbalelwano kwi-20 emva kokungaqondakali. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi asinakufumana elinye iqabane, kuba bengaphambili behleli entlokweni yam, okanye, behamba ngemihla, siyaqonda ukuba ndiyayithanda i-ex yakho. Idlulisela iinyanga ezimbalwa, kwaye uphinde uqale ukunxibelelana, kwaye ke ufuna ukuzama kwakhona. Ngaba iya kusebenza?
Sukuphinda iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo
Imeko ephambili kunye neyesangaphambili kukuba ukhumbule iimpazamo zayo kwaye ungaziphinde okwesibini. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ujonge ubudlelwane bakho. Akukho meko akufuneki ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bube yinto entle kwincwadana yemilingo. Khumbula ukuba eyona nto iphambili kwimeko yakho kukuba ngumsebenzi osisigxina kuwe. Akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubudlelwane, ukukhumbula iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo kunye nengqumbo. Kuyimfuneko ukuxoxa ngayo yonke imiqobo ngaphambi kwexesha, ngenxa yokuba unokuthi ungabi ziimeko ezingathandekiyo okanye iingxabano. Kuya kufuneka uyeke yonke into ebingaphambi kwaye ujonge phambili. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ukuba ujonga ubuyela ebomini bokugqibela, emva koko jikelele kwintsika yetyuwa, njengomfazi kaSodom ovela kwiSodom.
Imeko ephambili yokudibana kwakhona kunye ne-wangaphambili kukukhumbula iimpazamo zabo kwaye ungaziphindezeli okwesibini
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Zithathe izisombululo
Sukumfudumeza, cinga kakuhle zonke izigqibo zakho ngelixa unobuhlobo kunye nezangaphambili. Hlala uzolile nakweyiphi na imeko kwaye ungayikhupheli, nokuba ungumfazi oshushu kakhulu, kwitrafi. Khumbula oku kwaye uzigcine ezandleni zakho, unganiki meko kunye neemvakalelo zokukuthatha. Abanye abantu abatshatayo badibana namaxesha ngamaxesha esini. Ngekhe sikucebise ukuba senze. Ngale ndlela, kunokwenzeka ukuba buhlungu iimvakalelo zakhe - obu bubudlelwane obunganyanisekanga.
Asikucebisi ukuba uza kudibana ngaphambili amaxesha ngamaxesha
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Umnqweno kufuneka ubekhona
Enye yeempawu ezibalulekileyo onokuzama ukwakha uthando ukuba nina nobabini bafuna ukumisela yonke into. Ukuba umntu lomnye wamaqabane, olu asilophawu oluhle kakhulu. Ukuba ixesha elaneleyo lihambile, ukwazile ukucinga ngononophelo kubahlobo bakho kwaye waqonda ukuba ngaphandle kwayo yonke into ofuna ukuba nayo kunye, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uzame kwakhona. Ukuba, emva kwekhefu, ubunolwalamano lothando kunye nomnye umntu, ukuhlangana kwakhona nowasesa ngaphambili unokusebenza. Inyani yile yokuba uzuze amava omnye umntu, kwaye waqonda imeko eluthando lwakho lokwenyani.
Dare! Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka unyathele kwi-rake yesibini yexesha lesibini ukuze uchithe ngokuchanekileyo isifundo sobomi.