Xa ufika kwintsapho entsha, akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho nomamazala busenokuba buhlungu kunye nonyana wakhe. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba nexhala malunga noku - ibali lindala njengehlabathi. Umntu akaqondanga kwangoko, ngelixa abanye bajamelana neengxaki noMkhwekazi sele bekwinkqubo yokwakha usapho kunye nendoda. Mhlawumbi, umntu ongumkhwenyana ngamnye wafumana ingxaki - umyeni kaMama unika ingcebiso apho umntu okokuqala akafuni, kodwa akafuni kuzama ukungqubana okuvulekileyo. Kodwa wenze ntoni? Vumela ukuba uphathelele ebomini bakho? Akunjalongo noko. Siza kuxela indlela yokwenza kwimeko enjalo.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka ukungahoyi
Sinethemba lokuba unemithambo eyomeleleyo, kungenjalo kuya kuba nzima ukujongana nalo msebenzi. Eli nyathelo lilungile ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba imeko ifikelele kubaluleke kakhulu xa impikiswano sele ipholile. Ukukhwaza okugqithisileyo kunye nokuzingisa komkhwents kuya kwenza konke oku kukuzisela eluhlokayo, eyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyenza kukunikezela ekucaphukisweni. Ukuba uziva ngathi umama womyeni wakho uqalile, uqala ukuphefumla, wenze inzondo enzonzobileni aze atyebe iindlebe zakho, ezenza imicimbi yakho, okanye uhambe nje uhambe.
Funda ukwala
Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, amandla okuthi "hayi" ayinikwanga wonke umntu: Asizami ukukhusela imida yethu, esoyika ukukhubekisa umntu, ngenxa yabo bajamelana nabo kubo. Khumbula ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba umntu azithanda kwaye nceda wenze into kunxibelelwano nawe okanye awufuni into, uthi ". Eli ligama elincinci, kodwa eliyimpumelelo eliza kwenza ukuba umntu, kwimeko yethu, umkhwekazi, cinga ngokufumana enye indlela yokunxibelelana nawe, owamkelayo.
Zama ukungayi kwingxabano evulekileyo kunye nomama kamama
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Jonga kwimicimbi kunye nokudinwa
Kukho abantu abanjalo kuye kwaphela icebiso labo, iingcebiso kunye neengxoxo ezingenanto zinokuphazamisa umntu. Ukuba umkhwekazi wakho ngumntu onjalo, funda iqhinga elincinci, endaweni yokuthuka: Nje ukuba umntu obhinqileyo aqalise ukuthetha ngaphandle kokuma, ukuba acebise ngento ethile, kufuna ngokukhawuleza ukuba kufuneka Dibana nabantwana ezikolweni / hlamba ikati / yiya kwivenkile, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kwenze lula, ukuba umkhwekazi akanaxesha lokutshicela.
Ungahlekisa
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba i-joke akufuneki ikhubeke kakhulu, kungenjalo ungabiza impikiswano kunye nezikhalazo kuwe kunyana wakho, oko kukuthi, umyeni wakho. Masithi umkhwekazi wakho wenza intetho eqingqiweyo malunga nezakhono zakho zokuphendula, ukuphendula, unokumithana umntu enyula umfazi wakhe ngokomama wakhe. Nayo yonke into esenomoya onjalo. Ngoku uya kubona, ngokuthe ngcembe umfazi uyakuqonda ukuba kungcono ukunganxibelelani nawe.