Sele yintombazana endala, uphile ngokwabazali bakho. Ukuba le i malunga nawe, uyayazi imeko xa abazali beyeka ukukuqonda. Basenokuziphatha ngendlela yokuba kunzima ukuba ubandezeleke, kodwa akufuneki ukuba ucaphuke kwaye uqhwaba umnyango, kwaye kufuneka ufunde ukubaqonda.
Kwaye hayi, i-Intanethi asisosixhobo esihle sokugcina ubudlelwane obufudumeleyo. Ngoku uninzi lwabazali luyayazi indlela yokusebenzisa ikhompyuter kwaye lisebenzisane ngenkuthalo inethiwekhi yentlalo, ngoko ke kuyabonakala ukuba kunokubakho iingxaki zonxibelelwano? Nangona kunjalo, ukongeza kwiimbono zeefoto zakho ukusuka kwiholide, banokubhalela into enje: "Uphumla apho, kwaye umakhulu wakho / uTata wakho uphumelele uxinzelelo. Kancinci kwi-ambulensi ayizanga! " Kwaye uqala ukuzibeka ityala ngenxa yokungabikho ebomini babo. Ngapha koko, abazali bafuna indlela yokuziphilisa kunye nawe, khange kuhlala khetha kakuhle indlela yokuxelela ngayo ngayo. Siqokelele iindlela ezisisiseko abanandiphayo, kwaye sixelele indlela yokuphendula.
Unxibelelwano luthetha ukuba aluyi kuthatha indawo yonxibelelwano oluhlala
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Abazali baqala ukuvalwa
"Ngeendawo zokutyela kutheni? Sichitha imali eninzi, kuya kuba ngcono ukuthatha umntwana elwandle okanye ungathatha imali mboleko! " Ekuqaleni kubonakala ngathi abazali bazama ukukufumana ukuba uphile ngokwemigaqo yakho, ngenxa yento oyiwela kwiirabi.
Tholisa, thatha umphefumlo onzulu kwaye uzijonge ecaleni. Ngubani obonakala ngathi ucinga ntoni ngeli xesha? Kulungile, kwintombazana encinci ekhuthazayo. Iminqweno yakho, njengakusebuntwaneni, ungangqinelani nabazali, ke ngoko umntwana wakho ongaphakathi akakulungelanga ukunyamezelana nayo. Nangona kunjalo, abazali abalandeli enye injongo, ngaphandle kokukukhusela.
Ungasabela njani kuyo?
Ukuba abazali bakholelwa ukuba ufuna icebiso labo kuyo yonke into, ubaxelele ngakumbi ngabantu abaqhelileyo, malunga nokufezekisa okufundileyo kunye nezona ngxaki okwangoku. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba awukwenzi yonke into ebizwa ngokuba ngabazali, kodwa uyazi ngokwakho.
Abazali baphazamise ubomi bakho
"Kutheni ungayithathi le khadi kwiBhanki? Hayi indlela ekwakufika ngayo i-sms, kwaye ifana neSebe! "
Kwaye abazali abayiqondi ukuba utsala emva kokuba abalali inani elivela kwikhadi apho baya kuhlala bekukulahla "emntwaneni", kuba uchitha kakhulu phezu kwakho. " Endaweni yoko, banokulungisa imoto katata okanye baya ePuerto Rico ngeveki.
Ungasabela njani?
Thatha isigqibo sokuba awufuni ukuba uza kunxibelelana nabazali bakho. Ukuba kukho intsapho, yabelana ngemisebenzi, umzekelo, unika abazali unyaka nje ukuba uhambe phesheya, kwaye umntakwenu okanye udadewenu ubanceda basombulule imicimbi yasekhaya njalo njalo.
Kwakhona, ukuba ufumana imali kubazali, awunakuphepha imibuzo oyichithileyo, kuba bakuthumele 'ngokwahlukileyo. " Ukuze unganikezeli ekuxhomekeni, ungathathi nantoni na kwaye unganyanzelekanga.
Sixelele malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye neengcinga zakho
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Abazali bahlala bekhalaza
"Masiye kweli lizwe, ngaba uyazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukusebenza apho kwabo badla umhlala phantsi? Oko bekuya kuhamba nathi, siya kugqiba usuku! "
Ewe kunjalo, abazali abathethi ngezinto ezinjalo ukuze bakuchukumise. Akwanelanga nje ingqalelo yakho, ukusuka apha kwaye "ukuzalwa". Musa ukuba nomsindo kwaye ungathengisi mthethweni: Mhlawumbi uqhekekile, kwaye abazali abazi nje nazi ukuba batsaleleka njani ingqalelo yakho. Cinga ngendlela yokwenza unxibelelwano kunye neentlanganiso zihlala zihleli ukuze abazali bangaziva zilahliwe.
Thumela abazali kwikhefu
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Ungasabela njani ngokuchanekileyo?
Xelela abazali bakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho, kungcono ukulungiselela amabinzana akho, umzekelo: "Mama, undicaphukisile xa uqala ukungcikiva, masifumane indlela yokusombulula ukungaqondani ngaphandle kwezityholo." Akukho mntu wathi kuya kuba lula. Chaza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile kwinkxaso yabo. Abantu abadala bacombulula iimeko ezinzima ngonxibelelwano, ke bonisa abazali ukuba ungumdala, wangena kwincoko, endaweni yokubukwa kwetyala.
Sukuxela ngokwakho ngokupheleleyo
Umama akakuqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba axabane nge-quararel yakho kunye nendoda yakhe: Uya kuyiphumela, kwaye umama uya kukhathazeka ixesha elide, kwaye mhlawumbi aqalise intiyo yomyeni. I-Green bazali kwaye ishiye ezinye zeengxaki zakho kuwe.
Njengoko ubona, akunzima kangako ukugcina umfowunelwa ekunene, eyona nto iphambili kukuziphatha njengomntu omdala, hayi "umntwana otyhafileyo.