Nokuba ude uphuthelele ukugqiba ubudlelwane kunye nomyeni ongathandwayo kwaye wonwabile ngenkululeko, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngokwakho: Utshintsho olunzulu alunakudlula ngokulula. Iingcali zethu zengqondo zibonisa indlela yokugcina ulinganiso olulinganayo ngexesha elinzima.
Inkqubo yokwahlulahlulahlulahlulo idlula ngamanqanaba athile ngokwendalo alandelwa nganye nganye.
Inqanaba loku-1 - I-Shock (i-ukwala), okanye "ayinakuba". Ke umzimba womzimba usokola ngentlungu, ukwala isiganeko sele senzekile.
Inqanaba lesi-2-ingqumbo (ingqumbo). Umntu ujamelana nento engathandekiyo, ehlala enoburharha ngokunxulumene neqabane langaphambili. Kubalulekile apha ukufunda indlela yokusebenza ngokuchanekileyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uvumele ukuba nomsindo, emva kokuphosa iimvakalelo, ukubhala iileta ezinomsindo kwaye uzitshise, unokuxoxa ngale meko nabahlobo, yiya ePear yeBhokisi yokudlala. Ngokubanzi, apha umgaqo ophambili awuvalwanga ngokwakho, ungavali, kodwa ukuzama i-goonet yokuthulula, ngokukhethekileyo ayikho kwabanye!
Inqanaba lesithathu - Amathandabuzo (ukuxoxisana). Izibini zakhululwa, ixesha ladlula, kwaye qalisa ukuthandabuza: Uyakuthini ukuba, mhlawumbi ukuba bekungenguye ... le yingca yokugqibela phakathi kwexesha elidlulileyo nelangoku. Umntu uzama ukubuyisa le meko, uzithembile, ukuzithemba, kubonakala ngathi kuyenzeka ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ibuyisele yonke into, ifanelekile ukuba ithathe inyathelo lokuqala Inkohliso! Kweli nqanaba unokusebenza ngembono okanye kwixesha elizayo. Ungathatha iphepha kunye nepeyinti: Yayiyintoni elahlekileyo, eyimfesane ukuba ndingathanda ukubuya. Unokuyiya njani le meko, ungayenza njani, yintoni enokutshintshwa yile nto awuyi kubuyiselwa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ilahlekile ebomini?
Inqanaba le-4-uxinzelelo. Umntu ugqiba kwelokuba akukho nto ifunwayo, ukuze ingonakalisi. Ukuzithemba uphosa kabukhali, imveliso emsebenzini ilahlekile. Umntu unokujoyina iintlungu zotywala ukuze angabi nako ukuhlala enentlungu yakhe. Njengomthetho, emva kokuba umntu efikile ezantsi kwentlungu yakhe, unokuphosa kuye kwaye asele kwigumbi eliphezulu. Akwaba uyakwamkela into eyenzekileyo, kwaye uthi kuye: Ndihlale ndedwa, kodwa ndifuna ukuphila.
Inqanaba lesi-5 kukuthobeka (ukwamkelwa). Umntu onombulela ububi, ubomi, iqabane lakhe. Fumana ezona zizathu nakwinto eyenzekileyo, ayiziva inomsindo, ayigwetywa - kuphela kwesi sifundo sidlule.
Kwaye ukuba awuzange udlule onke amanqanaba ama-5, akazange agqibe ubudlelwane bangaphambili, kwaye ke, kunye nethuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuba iqabane lakho elilandelayo liza kuba nomnye umntu, kodwa, kwaye uphinda usebenze Kwisangqa, ukuba silahle ixesha kunye nethemba lokudibana "nomntu wakhe". Ukuze le nto le yenzekanga, fumana oko wabonakala ebomini bakho, kwaye umbulele ngesi sifundo. Kwaye kule meko kuphela onokuyitshintsha ngakumbi, kwinqanaba elingcono ubudlelwane. Umnqweno omhle!