Kumama-filogist, wayenembono entle yolwimi nokuqonda kwabantu, kodwa amagcisa kunye nemvakalelo yokuhlekisa-ngokucacileyo, isipho esivela kuThixo. Kwimeko ehlangatyezwa, yonke into ikhokelele kwinto yokuba intombazana yaseKazan, eyayiza kuba ngugqirha wamazinyo, ngoku ikhonkce abaphulaphuli kunye nokudlala kwakhe kumdlalo ohlekisayo. Amahlaya akhe ngephanyazo aya kuthandwa aze angene ebantwini. Kodwa incoko yethu yajika yacinga: Sithethe ngobudlelwane bomgangatho, imigaqo "ye" into "nendlela ekunzima ngayo ukwenza ukhetho lobomi.
KaKANYA, Ngokomxholo wakho, imvakalelo yokuhlekisa - umgangatho wokuzalwa okanye ungayiphakamisa?
UCatherine Bulkina: "Ekuqaleni bendicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ndizalwe naye, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha ndiqinisekile ukuba le inokufundwa. Umzekelo, ukubukela ababhali bomfazi obhinqileyo, ndaphawula ukuba ekuqaleni amahlaya abo ayengakhange aqaqambile ngokuhlekisa, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha yonke into imnandi. Ngayiphi na imeko, ezinye izinto eziphambili zomntu kufuneka zibekho. "
Kwaye ngubani okuxelele ukuba ungumntu ohlekisayo?
UCatherine: "Ngaba ucinga ukuba ndinoHer? (Ukuhleka.) Ndaqalisa ukuyiqonda xa ndandizifumana ngokungalindelekanga ukuba, ndingumfundi weyunivesithi yaseKazan, ndidlala amaqela amathathu e-KVN ngaxeshanye. Nangona ndisacinga ukuba yayilixesha elifanelekileyo kwindawo efanelekileyo. "
Olona vavanyo lomntu wokuqala ngamandla sisikolo apho abo ufunda nabo ngamanye amaxesha babona babuhlungu kakhulu. Bekunjani na ngale nto?
I-Catherine: "Andinanto injalo, ubuninzi bendiyikhupha ukumkanikazi wekhephu. Hayi ngenxa yokuba ndingelilo (ndihleka), endaweni yokuba ndingafikeleleki kwaye ndingafikeleleki. Amakhwenkwe afuna ukuba ngumhlobo, kodwa bendingayithandi, ndaba nomdla ngakumbi ngenxa yendlu, nosapho lwam. Andizukuthetha ukuba esikolweni ndiziphathe ngandlel 'ithile, hayi, sasinenkampani yethu, uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi. "
Kodwa kwakungekho thando lwesikolo?
UCatherine: "Hayi, bendimthanda uDima Malikova. (Ukuhleka.) Ewe kunjalo, ndibathandile uhlobo oluthile lwenkwenkwe kwiklasi yethu, mhlawumbi ndibandezeleka, ngoku andikhumbuli. Ngokubanzi, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ebuntwaneni akuyomfuneko ukuba uphazanyiswe bubuntwana. "
Kwaye kutheni ekuqaleni ukhethe umsebenzi onzulu njengogqirha wamazinyo?
I-Catherine: "Ndiye ndafuna ukuba ngugqirha ogqirha, emva kokuba isikolo ndingenelele kwisikolo sezonyango e-Yoshkar-o, apho, ndinenoveli yokuqala enzulu. Ndikhumbula uMama wathi: "Uya kuba naye uVacasya noPetros kwikhulu elinamakhulu amahlanu anamakhulu amahlanu!". Kubonakala ngathi akaqondanga nantoni na endingenakuyi nako ngaphandle kwakhe. Ngoku ndinomsindo ndikhumbula igama lakhe ... hayi, ndiyakhumbula, kunjalo! (Ihleka.) Sele kubonakala ngathi ayibalulekanga. Emva kokuphumelela esikolweni, bendiphumelele kakhulu kwicandelo lokusebenza kwesibhedlele seRiphabhlikhi, elalivuya kakhulu, laligqalwa njenge-LIte yabasebenzi bezonyango abaphakathi. Ndikuthanda kakhulu ukusebenza, ngoko ndangenzanga ngakumbi kwisigqibo sam sokuba ngugqirha kwaye ndingenele iYunivesithi yaseKazan. "
Ngokuhambelana nokufunda kwiyunivesithi yezonyango, iqhawe lethu lithathe inxaxheba e-KVN. Ifoto: Indawo yogcino lwe-Calline Bulkina.
I-Medians inembono ekhethekileyo yokuhlekisa.I-Catherine:
"Ekhethekileyo, i-cynical, i-sarcastic - mhlawumbi kuba simazi umntu ophakathi. (Uhleka.) Ewe, kwiiklasi ezisebenzayo esaya kwi-morgue, kodwa akukho mntu wahlanjwa. Uziva nje ngale nto njengento yophando, izixhobo zemfundo, ngaphandle kwelona chiza lingenakwenzeka. "Ngokuhambelana nawe odlalile e-kvn?
UCatherine: "Xa ndingena nje eyunivesithi, kukho umthendeleko we-Autumn. Umntu othile uxelele abantu bethu: unentombazana enomdla evela kwi-yoshkar-o, qiniseka ukuba uyayimema kwiqela lakho. Ijaji ye-sat captain yokwakhiwa kokuqala kwezitayile "ezine", ezazibiza ngokukhawuleza kwiqela, kodwa ndala, ndigqiba kwelokuba kufuneka ndifunde. Nangona lo mthendeleko ukrokrela. Kwindawo ethile kunyaka wesine-wesine, i-kvn yaqalisa, kwaye emva kokuphumelela eyunivesithi, ukwenziwa kwesibini kweqela "i-titar yesine" yavela.
Ngaba ubugcisa obufundileyo, buzinza kakuhle ezemali, kutheni ukhetha enye indlela?
UCatherine: "Andizange ndivuke imali ngemali. Hayi ngenxa yokuba indlu yam igcinwe bubuncwane be-scrojee, apho ndiqala khona. Ndinelona ntsapho iqhelekileyo, kwaye abazali abazizigidi, kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu kum ukuba umsebenzi unomdla. Kwakunzima kakhulu ukushiya iyeza kungekuphela ngenxa yothando lwalo msebenzi, kodwa emva konyaka odlulileyo ochithwe kufundwe, iminyaka emihlanu yeZiko, unyaka we-quarchtise. Kwisikolo esiphumeleleyo kuphela andiyi, ngenxa yesayensi kagqirha? Ndandingowokuqala kwiqela lethu ndibeka itywina lomntu ophilayo, kwaye watshintsha kunyaka ophelileyo, cinga? Kwaye kuphela ukusuka kuhlobo lobuhle. Ndisaziva imvakalelo emangalisayo ye-nostalgia xa ndisiya kwiofisi yamazinyo ngayo yonke ivumba lakhe lokuncamathisela, ulwelo kunye namatywina. Nje ukuba ndiqaphele ukuba lixesha lokuba ube ngugqirha wamazinyo, uNatalia Andreevna abize ngesicelo sokuthatha inxaxheba kwiprojekthi entsha enomdla. Kwaye kwaqala: ukusukela ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesihlanu, ndathatha izigulana, kwaye ngokuhlwa ndaya kufuna ukuqeqesha ndaya eMoscow. Iminyaka emibini kwiiklabhu ezahlukeneyo senze umboniso wethu, emva koko wabizwa ngokuba "yi-Gollectual-Goumictual Barllel". Ixesha elingaphezulu, kwenzekile ukuba soze siguqukele kwimveliso kamabonwakude. Kwaye sele sele lidala, lixesha lokuba ucinge ngokubuyiselwa kwakhona kosapho. Kwaye nje ukuba ndihlangane nje ukuba ndizale, ibali lethu likamabonwakude lijijekile. Ndabekwa yindlala ekukhunjweni okokuqala 'komfazi wesithoba, "kwinyanga yesithoba yokukhulelwa," ukudubula kwenzeke emhlabeni, ngo-Agasti 30 ukuya kwengama-30 ukuya kwengama-31, kwaye sele ndilibele. "
Ngaba unayo ikhefu lokuya kubeleka?
UCatherine: "Hayi, kutheni, andikwenzi nto inokazan, ndenza usapho lwam kuphela. Kwaye ndifudukela eMoscow kuphela ngeli xesha lokudubula kwaye xa kukho ezinye iiprojekthi. Ndingumsebenzi ofudukayo. " (Uhleka.)
UCatherine wazama amandla akhe kunye neemovie. Isakhelo esivela kwizingcelele "ubuhlobo babantu".
Kutheni le nto ungayithuthisi usapho eMoscow?I-Catherine:
Msgstr "Msukene kungekabikho. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu, bendingayi kucinga ukuba ndibuyele kabini, kodwa ke ndingonyaka uzayo, kwaye okwangoku yintuthuzelo yabantu obathandayo. Ewe, ndinomsebenzi eMoscow, kodwa usapho aluyi kukwazi ukuhlala kwisigqi. Ngaphambili, bendiyithiya iMoscow, kwabonakala kum kakhulu, kodwa yayinjalo kanye ndade ndoyisa le nqanaba. Xa kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo yeza "izihlobo zabantu", ndiyakhumbula, ndaya kwintlanganiso ethile nasemva kwekhilomitha nganye ndibone ubuso bam kwiibhodi zebhodi. Ndaye ndaqonda ukuba le ayisisixeko sibi. (Uhleka.)Kodwa kufanelekile ukuhlala kwiKazan?
UCatherine: "Ewe, yonke into isunguliwe apho: Kukho igumbi, igumbi, i-kindergarten kunye nee-mugs zomntwana. Kwaye, ukuze ukhuphele kwaye uhambise kwenye isixeko-ayiqinisekanga. Ukuthuthuzelwa koNyana kubaluleke kakhulu kum. Ngapha koko, ndizama ukwandisa ulwazi olusondeleyo kwingcaciso engathembekanga ngamanye amaxesha ibhala ngam kumaphephandaba nakwimagazini. "
Ngaba uyazamkela yonke into ngawe, usondele kwintliziyo?
UCatherine: "Ndikhathazeke kakhulu ngabathandekayo bam kwaye ndifuna ukukhusela kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngenye imini, unyana wam nonyana wam babekudubula kokudluliselwa, emva koko wayegula kakhulu, emva koko ndazixelela - yeka! Kwaye nangona yayingamenywanga ukuba isebenze kwintengiso- yinkwenkwe yefoto enesifo nesfown, - ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyikhusele kule meuo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ingakumbi emva kokufunda inqaku malunga nobomi babantwana, ababedla ngokususwa "kwi-Elash." Ubuqaqawuli obungalindelekanga, ukuba bawele kwi-psyche yabantwana, banokudlala ihlaya kunye naye, kwaye ngekhe ndinqwenele umntwana wam onjalo. "
Ngaba usondele kangakanani kwi "Gordy Girdy"? Ngaba ungababiza ngokuba ziintombi?
UCatherine: "Sikunye kangangesixa esithoba. Kuyatshiwo ukuba iqela labasetyhini li inyoka, kodwa ngethamsanqa, ayisigcini kuthi. Umntu ngamnye unendawo yayo eqinisekileyo kumdlalo, umfanekiso obekelwe iinkcukacha ezincinci, kwaye ke akukho khuphiswano phakathi kwethu. Andizukuthi sonke siyintombazana enothuli engakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle komnye, asinalo uthotho lwabahlobo. Kodwa ukuba umntu othile ukhubekise elinye lamantombazana okanye athethe into embi ngayo, abanye baya kukulungela ngoko nangoko baphumele. "
Wena kwizilwanyana zakho zihlala zenza amadoda ukuba akwenzele amadoda ...
UCatherine: "Ewe, asiyeki kwala madoda, kwaye sinqula kwaye siyabancoma. Ndinesimo sengqondo esiqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kumadoda aqhelekileyo, kodwa ngelixa ndingadibananga nabo! (Ukuhleka.) Hayi, ndadibana, kunjalo, kodwa kwakungekho mncinci ebomini bam! Nangona, mhlawumbi, ndineemfuneko eziphezulu. Ngamanye amaxesha uyayazi enye indoda emsebenzini kwaye cinga: Apha kubonakala ngathi ichukumisa into eqhelekileyo. Kwandula ke omnye komnye uphume, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba kubi nakuwo onke amadoda anamadoda. Kodwa kwenye indawo iiyunithi eziqhelekileyo zihleli kwaye zimangalisiwe: Ziphi na oomakazi obuqhelekileyo? "
Ithini into yakho eqhelekileyo?
I-Catherine: "Okokuqala, le yindoda enxibelelana nam kwi-foonting elingalingani, ayigungqi kwaye ayiziphakamisa. Kholwa ukuba akukho nzima. Okwesibini, kufanele ukuba ibe ngumntu onemvakalelo yokuhlekisa, ingqondo kunye nesisa, evumela umfazi ukuba abe ngumfazi kwaye angakhathali kubuhlungu kuye. Mhlawumbi andikabuyelizile ngokupheleleyo lo mfanelo, kwi-ogoago abasebenza naye, i-Buddies, izihlobo zikho into endiyithandayo, kwaye zithini iiperinta. "
"Ndinesimo sengqondo esiqhelekileyo kumadoda aqhelekileyo. Ngelixa ndingadibana nabo ebomini bam. Ngokufanelekileyo, bambalwa kakhulu! " -Umntu otyholwa uyamkelwa. Ifoto: Indawo yogcino lwe-Calline Bulkina.
Kwaye bungakanani ubomi bosapho obugwebayo?I-Catherine:
"Ukuba ndimzale umntwana kulo mntu, le pesenti iphakamile, sinobudlelwane obufudumeleyo nobuhlobo."Uchukumisa umfazi owomeleleyo ...
UCatherine: "Ewe, yindlela yokwenza? (Ukuhleka.) Abafazi abanamandla bazalwa, baba. Nawuphi na kuthi ufuna ukuba yintaka, abakhathalelayo. Amadoda ahlala enoyika abafazi abanamandla, nangona kwinqaku elinye endilifundileyo ndiluxhalabisa nje ngamadoda angakhuselekanga. Kubonakala kum ukuba ubudlelwane obulungileyo bunokuba phakathi kwabantu ababini abangafuneki bathembele kwi-akhawunti yomnye umntu eyokuqala, kwaye ungazami ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani omele, ngoba.
Ngaba uyakwazi ukuguqula ubomi bakho, udibene nefanelekileyo?
I-Catherine: "Eyona nto iphambili kukuba nentembelo yokuba kukho imfuneko yoku, kuba uneminyaka ubudala uqala ukuvavanya umngcipheko onokubakho. Uninzi lwabasetyhini abakusukelayo isixhobo sobomi bomntu siphulukana nokuqondana nomntwana, abazali, zihlobo. Ukuba uyayixhoma isikali, andidingi nkosana! Ke iindlela zikaYehova azinobuthathaka, akukho namnye umrwanti nxamnye nantoni na.
Ucinga ukuba kufuneka ungenise njani amakhwenkwe? Ngaba amantombazana eemfesane kubo okanye ufunde ukuphendula kwingqumbo nge-cists?
UCatherine: "Umama, ngoku ophathelele ekukhuliseni unyana wam, ngutitshala onamava amakhulu. Ungugqirha wezengqondo ovela kuThixo, uziva ngathi abantu kwaye uyabaqonda, kwaye ndonwabile ukuba umntwana wam unethuba lokuba kufutshane, funda kuye. Ndikulungele ukucula ngokwahluka kwakhe ngokupheleleyo kubo bonke ubomi, okufanayo nonyana wam. Ngaphandle koko, ayinakwenzeka nje, kwaye kungenjalo kuba ngumama wam. Abantu abohlukileyo abahlukileyo bathi unamanxeba ngengelosi, kwaye ndiyakholelwa kuyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiveli kwiplanethi yethu. Ndiqinisekile ukuba umntwana wam ukhula engaqhelekanga kuphela kuba ikufuphi nogonyamelo lothando. Uyazi, kuba abantwana banikwa abazali abakhulayo, kwaye nditshintshe ndatshintsha ndatshintsha ndaya kunyana wam kunye nengcebiso kamama. Ukunyaniseka, andizazi iimfihlo zokukhuliswa ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa ndiziva ngathi umntwana wam akhuliswa ngokuchanekileyo. (Kuhleke.) Kutshanje kwi-Kindergarten yayikukuphumelela, kwaye sanikwa idiploma kunye notata, kwaye nditsho: "Kwakufuneka ndimnike i-gonikh '