Ukukhuthaza nokuvumela impembelelo yeehomoni ezidubulayo, kubonakala ngathi ukuba eli xesha lokuthandana liya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Sidla ngokubona kwi-arboding kaMnumzana Event, endaweni yokuvavanya amazwi kunye nezenzo zakhe ngokukuko. Kuyinyani, ekuhambeni kwexesha, iipellets ziwe ngamehlo-uqala ukuvavanya ubudlelwane kwaye uzame ukuqonda ukuba leliphi iqabane elinayo. Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba imiqondiso yokuqaphela ukuba uyinketho nje yethutyana?
Amagama awahambelani netyala
Ukuba kwenzeke ukuba emva kwengxabano, intanda inika isiqinisekiso sokuqina, emva koko yanyhasha, yazi: Ukhokela impumlo. Ngokuqinisekileyo akayikhathaleli into yokuba unokucaphuka ngenxa yoku, kuba ukwisiseko sayo kwaye ucinga kuphela ukuba umshiye wedwa. Abantu abaninzi, ngelishwa, abaziboni nanye isaphuli-mthetho ngenkohliso, ukuze banike isithembiso kubo ngokulinganayo ukuze basuse kumda weqabane. Okufanayo nakwizithembiso zobutyebi obungenasiphelo nobomi obude kunye. Yakha ubudlelwane nomntu ongenakuthembeka ngamazwi akhe, engenantsingiselo. Awusoze wazi ukuba uza kuthatha indawo, kutheni ufuna iingxaki ezingeyomfuneko?
Vumela amagama abethembekile musa ukuziphikisana
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Ukunyamalala okungalindelekanga
Iingcali zengqondo ezivela kwi-Instagram zinokuqina iintsuku nobusuku obufuna ukusonjululwa kulwalamano olunzulu, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ufihle "noNore" ukucinga ngayo yonke into. Kutyholwa ngenzonzobila ngeentsuku ezi-2-3 ngaphandle kokuchaza izizathu-indlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo echazwe ziimodeli zokuziphatha. Kanye ngaphambi kokuba sithethe iNtaba yeNtaba-u-Uchagre, khumbula ukuba kwiyadi yenkulungwane yama-21, xa umntu ekwazi ukulwa neemvakalelo ze-illoss. Ukunyamalala okwethutyana kwaye emva koko kwabhengezwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo xa sele uphume intloko yam, ucinga ukuba kwenzeka kuye - lo luphawu lwengqondo engalunganga yendoda. Umntu oqhelekileyo ocinga ukuba iqabane liya kuhlala lilumkisa ngemfuneko yokuhamba okanye ukulahleka okwethutyana.
Indlela ye-infort
Amanye amantombazana ajongana namadoda aziphathe ngokufihlakeleyo - baxelele ngokwabo nakwindawo abahlala kuyo, abafuni ukufumana intanda kunye nosapho, khetha iindlela ezingaqhelekanga. Kwimanyano eyahlulayo kuphela, lo ngumgangatho- kutheni ukunikezela umntu ebomini bakhe, apho ungaqinisekanga? Nangona kunjalo, ukuba imeko enjalo ayitshintshi emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa, okanye unyaka, sikucebisa ukuba ubethe i-alamu. Kungenzeka ukuba awupheleli "kuphela" uthando lwalo lonke ubomi bakhe. " Ukuvuleleka kunye neqabane- isiseko sobudlelwane obuqinileyo.
Isoyikiso
Xa umntu ngexesha le-quarrel encinci ekumema ukuba yenze inxenye okanye ubeke indawo yolwalamano, sikucebisa ukuba uvume ngoko nangoko iimeko zayo kwaye ubaleke ukuze izithende zikhazimla. Incoko ngeetoni eziphakamileyo ihamba kunye ne-splash yesaqhwithi ye-adrenaline, yonke into iphuma into yokuba umntu ucinga. Indoda ethanda umfazi wayo kwaye imxabise, ayiyi kuthetha nje okunene kuba oko kuyiyoyika ukulahlekisa. Ngesi sizathu, isoyikiso kwiqabane akufuneki sivale amehlo, kuba endaweni yokusombulula iingxaki, ngoko nangoko aya kumchasi-ngokucacileyo uphawu olubi.
Sukubambelela kulowo ucacisa ngokulula malunga nokwahlula
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Uphuhliso olukhawulezileyo
Ewe, kukho isibini esifaka isicelo kwi-ofisi yerejista ngosuku olulandelayo emva kwentlanganiso kwaye siphila ngolonwabo lonke ubomi kunye. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, ngokukhawuleza ukoyisa amanqanaba ophuhliso lobudlelwane akuthethi nto elungileyo. Nokuba phantsi komgangatho, umntu ngamnye uyalixabisa iqabane ngaphambi kokuba akwazi ukuvumela ukuba sisondele kuye. Inkqubo enobutsha kunye nemvume kuyo yonke into ayiyi kusongelwa ngaphandle kokuphoxeka. Ukuba umntu uyakumema ukuba uqhubeke nonxibelelwano kwimeko esondeleyo emva komhla wokuqala okanye uye kuye ngokukhawuleza emva kokuthandana, akukho nto ilungileyo. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, unokukhetha okwethutyana kumntu omnye onomgcini wendlu.
Sinethemba lokuba awukayifumani imiqondiso yeqabane lakho apha. Sixelele ukuba ziziphi ezinye iimpawu owongeza kuzo kuluhlu?