Oosomashishini bangabantu abakwaziyo ukuva "hayi" amawaka amaxesha ngemini, ahlala emamela ukugxeka, imeko kaxakeka ukusombulula iingxaki, ukunyamezelana nokuqalisa ukusebenza kwakhona. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubabiza abantu abomeleleyo emoyeni? Ewe ewe! Ke zeziphi ezi zinto zikhethekileyo? Xelela iinkcukacha kweli nqaku.
Sukuchitha ixesha ngemfesane
Abantu abanamandla bayazi ukuba akukho ngqiqweni ukuphazaza ngokwabo, kuba eli nyathelo aliyi kubanika nasiphi na isiphumo. Kungcono ukuchitha ixesha ukusombulula ubunzima obukhokelela kunokulala kwisofa kwaye uxolile, akunjalo? Oosomashishini bathabatha uxanduva kwiintsapho zabo, kwiqela, leso sizathu le nto ngekhe siziphathe kakuhle. Bayazi ukuba kuphela isenzo esiya kubanceda kule meko. Oosomashishini bebulela ubomi ngamava afunyenweyo kwaye uqhubeke ukuqhubeka.
Bahluke ngantoni abanye oosomashishini kwabanye abantu?
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Balawule iimvakalelo zabo
Abantu bomoya abomeleleyo baqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba balawula ubomi babo, kwaye akukho mntu unokuwashukumisela ngamazwi okanye ngezenzo ukusuka endleleni. Balawula iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bangaze bavumele abantu ukuba baphembelele imeko yabo ngokungafanelekanga. Ungatsho ukuba aba ngabantu abanokuzithemba okunempilo.
Inene
Ewe, amaxesha amaninzi abantu boyika utshintsho, uloyiko luzama ukutshintsha ubomi kwaye ulahlekelwe yintoni esele isebenza, uloyiko lwento ebengayi kusebenza. Imimoya eyomeleleyo yabantu baya kongazi, bonwabele into yokuba ubomi babanika i-adventure. Uloyiko lwabo kukuhlala kwindawo enye. Ke abantu babalulekile ukuba bazame, baphosakele, vuka kwaye bafezekise iinjongo zabo, ngaphandle kokuba umphefumlo wabo "uyafa."
Sukuchitha amandla kwinto engaxhomekeki kubo
Imimoya eyomeleleyo ijolise kwinto abanokuyenza. Ukuba abanakuchaphazela nantoni na, abachithi amandla kuyo. Umzekelo, umntu unokuvula ivenkile kwaye aqalise ishishini. Kodwa akakwazi ukuphembelela iimeko zemozulu nomoya, ophelise uphahla kwivenkile yakhe. Endaweni yokuba acaphuke kwaye acinge, ukuba kutheni, umrhwebi uya kukhawulezisa afumane abantu abaya kumenzela uphahla olutsha.
Sukucinga malunga nexesha elidlulileyo
ASENCONIUROINIURONARS cinga kuphela malunga nezinto ezinokutshintsha ngoku. Idlulileyo ihleli kwixesha elidlulileyo. Imimoya eyomeleleyo igxile kuphela kwezo zinto zisenzeka nabo ngoku, kunye neenjongo zabo. Ewe, banokucingisisa ngexesha elidlulileyo kwaye bakhupha izifundo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo ukuze baqhubeke ukuthintela iimpazamo ezifanayo, kodwa hayi ngaphezulu.
Uloyiko lokuhlala kwindawo enye ngaphezu koloyiko lokuyibeka emngciphekweni kwaye uzame intsha
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Hlaziya iimpazamo ukuze uqhubeke ubathintela
Iimpazamo zonke. Umntu othile wenza izigqibo kwaye angasabuyeli kwiimpazamo ezigqibeleleyo ezigqibeleleyo, kunye nomntu othintela amagqabi kwakhona. Oosomashishini bakhetha ukhetho lokuqala. Ezinye zezenzo ezifanayo ezingasebenziyo aziyi kunika iziphumo ezitsha, kwaye ziya kuqondwa. Oosomashishini bafunda iimpazamo kwaye bahlala beqhubela phambili.
Ungaze unikezele
Oosomashishini bayazi ukuba yonke indawo yokusilela lithuba lokuqonda kubomi ukuba kufuneka bahambe ngenye indlela, tshintsha izenzo okanye indlela yezenzo zezenzo ezindala. Wonke umntu ujongene nokusilela okuninzi. Abanye baphakama kwaye baphinde baqale ukwenza, abanye baphose into oyithandayo. Umoya onamandla, abantu bahlala befezekisa ngokwabo. Badlula umlilo namanzi, kodwa ekugqibeleni fumana oko bakufunayo.
Ke wena, ngumntu wokomoya onamandla?