Namhlanje kuyinto engathethekiyo ukuba uthethe ngokuzikhulisa, malunga nokuphucula ubuntu, njl njl. Ukukhula komntu. Ewe, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba ngumntu ophumeleleyo, ishishini lokwenyani leshishini lakhe. Kodwa indlela yokufezekisa oku? Kwaye apha uninzi lwethu lujamelana nemiqobo engathandekiyo, kubandakanya uhlobo lweenkolelo, i-stereotypes, isokola.
Sonke sivela ebuntwaneni ... Ukufakelwa kwexabiso lethu, iimodeli zokuziphatha, i-phobias yenziwa kusapho, phantsi kwempembelelo yendalo esingqongileyo - abazali, izihlobo, nezikolo. Ewe, ekuhambeni kobomi, baphantsi kohlengahlengiso oluthile, batshintshe okanye baguquke kakhulu, kodwa eyona nto iphambili ayinamava obuqu kuphela njengokutolikwa kwento eyenzekayo.
Oku kutoliko kusibuza ukuba sihlolisiso lokuqonda kunye nezigqibo eziphambili, izigqibo malunga nabo, malunga nehlabathi, malunga nolwalamano nehlabathi namalungu alo. Sonke siyinkolelo kunye neenkumbulo. Kwaye Rhoqo samkela iinkolelo zabazali, izalamane nezizukulwana zaziphila ixesha elide phambi kwethu. Umzekelo, sihlala sijamelana nezigqibo ezinjalo: imali = ingozi, kunye nemali enkulu = ingozi enkulu; Amadoda abuthathaka kwaye athembela ukuba akakufanele; Isondo imbi kwaye iyingozi.
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Ezo zifungo kunye nezigqibo malunga nehlabathi elibengqongileyo lisisiseko esiphambili sokusebenza ngokwabo. Kwaye ngelishwa, iinkolelo ezininzi ezifanayo ziqalisa ukusiphazamisa, yiba ngumqobo nje apho kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuba uhambe kwezi nkolelo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, usicinezele kwizenzo ezingalunganga. Umntu, ukuzama ukulwa i-stereotypes ebonakalayo, uqala ukulandela ezinye izithuba ezinokuba mandundu ngakumbi, tyhala ngendlela etshabalalisayo, ekhokelela kwilahleko kuphela kunye nokuzingca kancinci.
Ukongeza, abantu abasingqongileyo badlala indima enkulu kakhulu kulwakhiwo lwethu. NgoLwesithathu IFOMU LOMNQOPHISO, Isigama, imvakalelo yokuqonda kwehlabathi. Ngelishwa, ayingabo bonke abanye bethu ngumcebisi-umntu onokuthi anike ingxelo ephezulu, asizise eyona nto silwela kuyo.
Unokusinceda Njani Umcebisi? Iya kusivumela ukuba sikhulise isicwangciso sakho, injongo kunye nenjongo; ifom kwaye wamkele isigqibo sangaphakathi kunye nesenzo; Phuhlisa amandla okuzingca kwaye uqwalasele amaxabiso angaphakathi. Eyona njongo iphambili ingenziwa ngumcebisi. Kodwa unokuba ngumcebisi kwaye ngokwakho, ukuba uyazi ukuba ungakwazi ukubeka imisebenzi, uphucule ulwazi, phuhlisa yonke imihla kwaye ufumane ulwazi olutsha.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulinganisa inqanaba lophuhliso lwayo, oluboniswe kukonyuka kolwazi, imali, ukuvela kwe-dation entsha. Ukuba eli nqanaba liyakhula-yonke into ihamba njengoko kufuneka, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, esi sisizathu sokucinga ngayo kunye nento yakho kunye nokuziphatha kwakho ukuze uhlengahlengise. Ungacebisa ukuba wenze isicwangciso semisebenzi yakho kwaye uqaphele ukuba yintoni efunyenweyo, kodwa into engeyo, apho kufuneka khona, kwaye ungenzi buthathaka i-lunk ".
Ndingakongeza ukunyaniseka nam njengento ebaluleke kakhulu kwimpumelelo yam kunye neemfuno zolwazi oluthile. Sukuzikhohlisa, uziqwalasele ngaphezulu okanye ezantsi kwicala elinye okanye elinye. Umsebenzi onyanisekileyo nocacileyo ngokwabo uya kuphucula inqanaba labo, uyandisa kwaye afezekise iinjongo zabo.