Uninzi lwabafazi baphupha usapho olukhulu apho kuya kubakho abantwana abaninzi kunye neengxaki ezimnandi, nangona kunjalo, ngokufika komntwana wokuqala, umfazi uyaqonda ukuba kunye nomntwana omnye - feat. Isigqibo somntwana wesibini asinikwa lula, kodwa sagqiba kwelokuba sikuncede wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo.
"Kuya kubakho indawo enkulu, emva koko ..."
Mhlawumbi, uninzi lwamathandabuzo luvela ngqo kumhlaba wehlelo, kubantwana abaliqela abasakwazi ukukhula kwi-Odnushka, apho kufuneka baninzi khona nabazali babo. Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana ngamnye kufuneka abe negumbi elahlukileyo, ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye abantwana baya kuba sentlalweni, unokwenza ubuntwana obunye, kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu abanethamsanqa.
Uninzi lwazo, izibini ezitshatileyo zinokufumana isigqibo ngomntwana wesibini, kodwa amaphupha endlu enkulu eneefestile zePaygramic ishiye iingqondo kunye nesigqibo ekuzalweni komntwana wesibini kufuneka sihlehliselwe umntwana wesibini. Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba iphupha lehlabathi liza kuza kungekudala? Ukuba akunjalo, kunokwenzeka, isagqitywa ekubeni ngabazali okwesibini ukuba ubuphupha ixesha elide. Ngapha koko, ngubani onqabileyo oyithengayo, abantwana ababini ezandleni?
Nomyeni wakho kunye nosapho, uya kujongana nayo yonke into
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"Uza kufumana malini imali eninzi?"
Uninzi lwabazali ludidekile ngeli xesha. Akukho mntu ucebisayo ukuba abantwana baya kulamba kwaye bagcina izinto, kodwa imfundo elungileyo, zonke iintlobo zobhaliso kwicandelo lezemali, ngakumbi kwimiqathango enkulu. Asinguye wonke umntu onokukhupha iindleko ezinjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukusasazwa ngokufanelekileyo kwemali kunokunceda ekusombululeni le ngxaki: Izihlangu ezilandelayo kwiBrand yeHlabathi zinokubingelelwa. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, unokuhlala ubala inkxaso yeenkonzo zentlalo eziqhuba zonke iindlela zokuxhasa oomama abancinci kunye nabakhulu.
"Kuthekani ngomsebenzi?"
Izigidi zoomama kwihlabathi liphela zidibanisa kakuhle umsebenzi kunye nokuba ngumama, isibonelelo namhlanje sinethuba lokusebenza kude. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi loomama bantywiliselwa ngokupheleleyo kubantwana, kwaye xa "avela", bekukho iinguqu ezinkulu kwicandelo labo lomsebenzi, ukuze ziqhubeke nokuba zilula kakhulu. Kukho ukhetho oluthile apha, konke kuxhomekeke kwinto obona ngayo ubomi bakho obungaphezulu.
-Unokuzinikela ngokupheleleyo kubantwana.
-Ukuba inqaku lokuqala awulilinganiyo, sikhangela i-nanny yabantwana kwaye senza into enqabileyo.
-Ukutshintsha isizukulwana.
"Intoni? Kwakhona kwesihogo? Ungaze! "
Akukho sizathu sithandwayo. Amava okuzala umntwana anokusichaphazela kakubi isigqibo sakho. Ewe, kunye neenyanga zokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana, zinokuchaphazela kakhulu i-psyche yabani basemamazantsi kunye nabangenamava: ubusuku obungenamanzi, ishishini elisigidi endlini, njl njl.
Unokoyisa uloyiko kwi-ofisi yengcali, kunye nogqirha wezengqondo, uyichaza into yokuba yothukile kangangokuba ingcinga yomntwana wesibini yoyikiswa. Ukuba ityala likwiingxaki zasekhaya, emva koko ngenkxaso yeqabane kunye nosapho, uya kuba ungaphathi kakuhle ngomzuzwana, kodwa kunye nomntwana wesithathu.