Ipesenti ebonakalayo yabasetyhini ihlazo ukuba kukho umntu owahlukileyo xa wayesondela kwindoda yakhe emthandayo. Ngokutsho koochwephesha bezengqondo, uninzi lwemeko alunakubizwa ngokuba yingxaki, ubuncinci kude kube kubonakalisiwe kubudlelwane bakho kunye neqabane.
Awuwedwa kwi-fantashies yakho
Ngokutsho kwe-Polls, bobabini abasetyhini kunye namadoda bamelwe endaweni yesiqingatha sabo sesibini, banobudlelwane bezinto ezinokubakho kwiminyaka embalwa, omnye umntu, kwaye lo mntu akanyanzelekanga ukuba abekho kwinyani. Nangona abafazi bathanda kakhulu. Yintoni enomdla, malunga ne-20% yavuma ngokunyaniseka ukuba endaweni yomthandi wangoku umele umntu wangaphambili okanye ngaphambili.
Kutheni ukwazi kwethu kufuna 'abantu abatsha'?
Ilungu lesini eliphambili yingqondo. Kulapha ukuba zonke iinkqubo ezinoxanduva lokuvuselela ziyenzeka, kwaye zonke iintlobo zezilwanyana ziyazalwa, xa iindlela eziqhelekileyo zomsebenzi zokuvuselela azisekho zilungile. Njengomthetho, iingcinga ezinjalo azinazo izinto eziphambili zokusetyenziswa: ukwazi kwethu kudala iimeko ezikhululekileyo ezingathwali ziingozi. Iingcali zesondo kwilizwi elinye Qinisekisa ukuba akukho nzuzo yokwenene kwiimbono zesondo, kodwa kuphela kude kube lixesha lokuba baphembelele.
Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, malunga nesiqingatha sabo bonke abantu basetyhini abakhathazeki
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Kukuphi na ukuqala ukuba nexhala?
Njengoko besitshilo, izihlobo malunga nelinye iqabane amaxesha ngamaxesha onyaka awanakuchaphazela nabani na okanye kwiqabane lakho. Ukuba uzibamba cinga ukuba indoda yakho yokwenyani iba sisithathu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo phakathi kwakho kunye neqabane lokucinga, kukho isizathu sokubuyela kwingcali, kuba i-vem yelo xesha ithe yafumana lelona xesha lilungileyo, Kubalulekile ukufumana ixesha elithile isizathu sokuba i-gap ayikude. Lumka kwinto eyenzekayo phakathi kwakho.
Ngaba ikhona indlela yokusohlwayiswa ngokupheleleyo?
Ngaphambi kokuba uye kwikhabhathi yengcali, zama ukuhlalutya iingcinga zakho: Yintoni kanye kanye ekutsaleni kwiqabane lakho kwaye zithini iimpawu ezinothando lokwenyani? Mhlawumbi ufuna unyamezelo ngakumbi, krwada okanye ngequbuliso? Kutheni ungaceli oku endaweni yokubandezeleka kwimvakalelo yokuba unetyala ngaphambi kokuba umntu amthandayo?