Kwintsapho nganye, ukuzalwa komntwana kuyinto yokutshintsha, ubomi abuyi kufana. Iminyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana ithathelwe ingqalelo ngokufanelekileyo kubudlelwane bukaMama notata wakhe, namhlanje sagqiba kwelokuba siqokelele iimpazamo ezisisiseko kunye nokuthintela ukuba ugcine usapho.
Indoda ayinakukwazi ukuyifunda "
Uninzi lwezikhalazo zomyeni wakhe zomyeni wakhe bazalwe ikakhulu ngokuzala, kwaye hayi ukwasemzimbeni, kwaye kungaboni kangako: "Akaboni ukuba ndinokunceda, uyabona endifuna ukuba akukho lula. ". Hayi, ayiboni. Ingqondo yamadoda ilungiselelwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kwaye ke iingcebiso, ijonge ixesha elide ayiboni njengophawu ukunceda. Ukuba ufuna into, mxelele ngayo, ngoko ke uququzelela ubomi bakho kwaye uphephe enye ingxabano.
Sukuhlala ngokupheleleyo emntwaneni
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Uzibeka kwisikhundla sexhoba
Nokuba kuyenzeka kwisibini sakho: Indoda ibuyela emsebenzini, kwaye sele ukwazi ukuziqhelanisa nentetho elusizi yobuso, ixhaswe yinkangeleko ephelileyo. Kwaye kwakhona yonke into ukuze le ndoda ithathele ingqalelo kwindlela obandezeleka ngayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngendlela efanayo, kukho enye i-thabatha enye inqabile - indoda iqalisa ukungaziva unetyala, kodwa endaweni yoko, uTyran, ngenxa yokuba umbonise indlela azisinge ngayo. Ngokwemvelo, oku akuyi kuyithanda indoda eyodwa eqhelekileyo. Uqonda njani, ityala kwakhona liya kwingxabano. Ungayisombulula le ngxaki ngokuthatha uxanduva ngobomi bakho kunye nezenzo zakho, ewe, ulukhuni, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo le ndoda ayigqithisileyo kweli bali- uyakha usapho kumalungelo alinganayo.
Kwihlabathi lakho kukho kuphela umntwana
Mhlawumbi, sonke sivile ngamabinzana amabinzana amancinci anjengo: "Sahamba", "utata akazange ahambe nathi," "" Utata usiphosileyo. " Kumfazi, akukho nto imangalisayo kwimanyano enjalo kwaye kodwa, yendoda, "thina" kuvakala ngathi "mna nomntwana", noTata kwenye indawo ecaleni. Ke wena ungakuqondi, nyuse indoda ibe ngasemva, uyeka ukuba ulilungu lobomi bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde indlela yokuzahlula ngokwakho kunye nomntwana xa unxibelelana nendoda: yeyamntwana, unguyise, ngenxa yendoda endiyithandayo nayo ifuna ingqalelo.