"Ewe, ndikwisibhedlele sengqondo; Ndiva amabinzana anjalo kwabanye abantu, ingakumbi izalamane, ezilusizi kwaye ndiyothusa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba semthethweni kufana nesoyikiso, kwaye ngaba unokubethwa ukuba ahluthwe ebomini? Masizame ukuyifumana namhlanje.
Ityala lokuziqhelanisa
Kukho into enomdla kakhulu kwintshukumo yam. Umlingane wazama ukubeka umfazi wakhe emva kokuzala umntwana kwi-psychdispean, ngaloo ndlela ekhulula umhlaba wothando olutsha oluselula. Wamtshabalalisa ngokuziphatha lo mfazi kangangeminyaka eyi-1.5, esebenzisa ithuba lokuba ebengenandawo, ndinyanzele ukuba ndiguqukele kwingqondo (isaziso: Ngaphandle koqhawulo-mtshato), kungenjalo uqhawulo-mtshato. Kwaqhubeka de waguqukela kum njengegqwetha kwaye engazange ayazi iziko labasetyhini nabantwana abeza kwimeko enzima.
Umqondiso kweli bali yenye yeentshukumo zomntu (umyeni wakhe) owela phantsi kwezenzo zeKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho yeRussian Federation.
Natalia Khurchakova
Kuza kufaneleka njani ukulala esibhedlele kwingqondo
Ewe kunjalo, abantu abanengxaki yezifo zengqondo ezinzulu kufuneka bafumane unyango olufanelekileyo ukuze banciphise ukwenzakala ngokwabo nakwabanye.
Nceda uqaphele: Nokuba ubukho besifo sengqondo singarhoxisi amalungelo nenkululeko yabemi abakhuselweyo ngumGaqo-siseko kunye nemithetho yowiso-mthetho eyahlukeneyo.
Nangona kunjalo, igumbi elisisigxina kwi-psychdispean yomntu ophilayo kunye nokugcinwa kwakhe ngokungekho semthethweni. Izenzo ezifanayo ziwe phantsi kobugcisa. I-128 yeKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho.
Ukuthetha ngokungekho semthethweni, kufuneka uqale uqonde zonke izinto ezinqabileyo zegumbi esibhedlele elilawulwa ngumthetho we-Russian Federation Nombolo ye-Russian Federation Nombolo ye-Russian Federation Nombolo. 3185-16992
Ngokutsho kwakhe, isibongozo sobuso kwi-inshurensi yezonyango kufuneka ibe kukuzithandela (!) Kwaye sihamba kunye nokutyikitywa kwemvume kunyango.
Nceda uqaphele: ukungakwazi ukwenza isigulana akukhululwanga kwimfuno yokusayina imvume. Ngaye, olu xwebhu luphawula ummeli osemthethweni okanye umzali (kwimeko yonyango lomntwana ukuya kwiminyaka eli-15, kunye neziyobisi ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-16).
Ukongeza, umntu akakwazi ukuphembelela ukuba ufuna ukushiya ulwalamano, ngaphandle kwezi meko:
- isigulana siyingozi kuye nakwabanye;
-Aye akakwazi ukuzilungiselela ezimeleyo;
-Unyango luyimfuneko ukuze kuthintelwe ukuthathwa kwempilo ebalulekileyo.
Nceda uqaphele: Qinisekisa oku kungentla kufuneka iKhomishini yezoNyango zingadlulanga iintsuku ezi-2 ukusuka kumzuzu wokufika kukaguli. Idlulisela isigqibo kwinkundla, apho ithathelwa ingqalelo ukuya kwiintsuku ezi-5. Isiphumo sesifundo siya kuba sesigqibo malunga nokwamkelwa okanye ukungabi nangqiqo kunyango olunyanzelekileyo lomntu.
Izenzo zezalamane okanye abanye ababandakanyekayo, ezifikelela ngokuchasene nemigaqo echazwe apha ngasentla, ziyalingana, enyanisweni, entolongweni (iNqaku le-127 yeKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho yeRussian Federation). Kodwa imeko ekhethekileyo yomntu obe sengozini yomntu oqhutywa ngokungekho semthethweni kwiziko lezonyango lolu hlobo lwenze ukuba kube lula ukwenza olu tyala ngokwahlukileyo (inqaku elikhankanyiweyo 128).
Nangona kunjalo, ikhowudi yolwaphulo-mthetho ayichazi ukuba ubuso bubekwe njani esibhedlele ngezizathu zomthetho. Xa uziqhelanisa, iimeko ezinjalo ziwela phantsi kwenqaku:
-Ukutyikitywa komntu wemvume kufezekiswa zizisongelo kwaye ucela;
-endaweni yokuphathwa gadalala komntu oqhutywa ngenkani esibhedlele ngokwesigqibo somthetho;
-Kukho izinto eziyimfuneko zonyango lwangaphakathi.
Ijaji eyayikhuphe isigqibo esingekho mthethweni siwela phantsi kobugcisa. I-305 yeKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho.
Umntu, unetyala lokutsalwa kolwaphulo-mthetho, ngokungabikho kweemeko ezihlazo, uya kuba nembopheleleko phantsi kwenxalenye 1 yenqaku le-128. Inkululeko yakhe inokulinganiselwa kwithuba elingana kwi-ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu, kwaye umsebenzi onyanzelekileyo ufunyenwe ngeli xesha. Ingapheliswa yinkululeko ukuya kwiinyanga ezingama-36.
Inxalenye yesibini yeli nqaku ilindelwe ukuba abo banendawo ekhethekileyo kwaye besisebenzisa iinjongo zolwaphulo-mthetho. Soyikeka ke umsebenzi onyanzelekileyo ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-5 okanye ukupheliswa kwelungelo lokubamba izithuba zeminyaka emi-3. Inokupheliswa inkululeko yeminyaka emi-7.