Nawuphi na umzali ufuna umntwana afumane intuthuzelo, ngakumbi ngokomoya. Nangona kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu omdala onokutyhileka ngokufanelekileyo kwimbonakalo yawo ngokufanelekileyo: emva koko kubonakala ngathi ukuba apha kunyanzelekile ukuba kutsala ulusu apha, emva koko iimpahla zihleli kuba ndifuna, kwaye i-jikelele, ungaxoki kufuneke i. Kwangelo xesha, kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba umntwana emanyuke ngokumalunga nokumanyana, umzali eqala: "Yima!", "Uzongeza ntoni apho". Ezo ngcinga azikulindelekanga ukunceda umntwana ukuba atshintshe izimvo ngokwabo kunye nomzimba wabo, ke ngoko masenze ukuba ungaziphathe ngokuchanekileyo, ukuze angabi nazintloni kwaye afundise lo mntwana.
Ulutsha lusabela kwizinto ezingafezekiyo zibukhali
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Sukwenza ihlelo ekufumaneni ukutya, yenza indlela elungileyo yokutya
Xa ubamba umntwana kwenye ipakethi ye-chips, awuyonto imbi kwimveliso, kodwa endaweni yoko, inomdla. Ukongeza, ukuba uhlala uthetha emntwaneni ukuba uya kuyeka ukubeka emnyango emva kokutya okuncinci, uya kuqonda kuphela into esiyifumanayo, esenza umkhwa wokutya, ukuze ube ngumkhwa wokutya ngokuchanekileyo. Cinga ngendlela ukoyikisa amanqatha azokuphendula umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo? Njengabo bonke abantwana ngeli xesha, uthatha isigqibo ngokwakhe yingxaki, kodwa ukusombulula iziphumo zakhe kuya kufuneka nawe.
Endaweni yamagama, yiya kwishishini: Qalisa ukuthenga imifuno ngakumbi kwitafile, yenza iijusi zendalo, sela amanzi amanerali kunye nokuphelisa ukutya okunzima. Kwaye, ukuba ufuna ukuya ngenyanga ngokutya okukhawulezayo - kutheni kungenjalo?
Sukuxoxa (kwaye ungagwetywa!) Eyakhe inkangeleko yakhe phambi komntwana
Khumbula xa ugcina ukhwaza kakhulu kunye neekhilogramu zakho ezongezelelweyo. Peel, kutsha nje? Kwaye ukuba umntwana weva, musa ukumangaliswa sisizathu sokuba aqalise ukutshintsha ubunzima. Endaweni yencoko malunga nokuba ukhamile kangakanani emva kokundwendwela ichibi, ndixelele: "Ndiziva ndimkhulu emva kokuzivocavoca! Ngoku ndingaqhuba imini yonke kwaye ndingadinwa. " Uqaphele umahluko? Awuthethi ngobunzima, kwaye endaweni yoko ukhuthaze imikhwa esempilweni.
Kanye ngenyanga ungaziphambuka isidlo esiyingozi
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Umzimba wakho ngumncedisi wakho ongabonakaliyo.
Ayingabo bonke abadala abadala bayazi ukuba isebenza njani okanye enye inkqubo yomzimba, kunye nabantwana kunye nokungafikeleli. Ukuba nje "i-face" idla ngokuxoxwa kwintsapho yakho, oko kukuthi, inxalenye yangaphandle, zama ukubuza i-Intanethi kwi-Intanethi, eyokufunda kunye nendlela ebaluleke ngayo izihlunu ezithile kunye ne-organs ezibaluleke ngayo Ubukho bethu, kwaye ukuba umzimba ufanele ukuba ube yimfuneko kwizenzo ezithile, kwaye kungekuko ukuhonjiswa.
Yeka ukulinganisa
Jonga rhoqo kusasa ukuba zingaphi igrams zingaphi igram ebusuku? Suku. Konke oku kubona umntwana wakho kwaye uthatha isiseko. Ngale ndlela, yonke into eza kukhathazeka ngumthwalo, kodwa sonke sahlukile kwaye sonke sixhaphazwe umgaqo-siseko esiqhelekileyo kubunzima obuqhelekileyo, nto, ngokwemvelo asimcacisi umntwana.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba intombi yakho yeshumi elivisayo ixoxa nomhlobo, okwimeko yayo encinci, iiparamitha ezifanelekileyo. Kwaye amanani abo akasayi koyithi, kuba imilo yabo kunye nomzimba wazo zahlukile ngomahluko omncinci, kodwa kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo sele eyintlekele, endaweni yokuba usebenze, qatha abantwana bakho.
Vumela imikhwa eluncedo ikhokelela kusapho lwakho
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Abantwana abayi kuqalisa ukuba baphile ubomi obunempilo de ube wenze
Umntwana uthatha umzekelo kunye nawe, kwaye ukuba awukwenzi nto, ukuze utolo kwizikali ubaleka kwelinye icala, ufuna ntoni emntwaneni? Injengomzabalazo wanaphakade waba mzali, umntwana nekhompyuter, apho umama, abhaptize kwiforum yokufunda, exelela uNyana okanye intombi kwaye enzakalisa ehleli kwi-Intanethi. Lixesha lokuba ndizitshintshe ukuba ufuna utshintsho olwenzayo ebomini bomntwana. Vumela uMkhwa wakho ukuba ube nenxaxheba echibini okanye i-jag ekuseni ngeempelaveki. Ungahamba nje ipaki phambi kwebhedi - ukugcoba ngokugqwesileyo kunye neemvakalelo emva kosuku olunzima. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba umnqweno wokuphila onempilo awudlulanga amandla, wena nomntwana wakho kufuneka bonwabise inkqubo.