Uqhelene nendoda emnandi, yonke into ibonakala ilungile- uchitha ixesha, ubusuku bumnandi, kodwa awuyiboni into engathandekiyo yokuba indoda ifihla into. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukrokrela akubangakho kwaphela, umntu onokuthi utshatile okanye ube nomtshato waseburhulumenteni. Ke indlela yokufumanisa ukuba umntu oqhelileyo uyaxoka? Masiyifumane.
Yintoni le track?
Nokuba injani na, indoda inokuthi inike umkhondo ovela kumtshato womtshato. Ewe kunjalo, naziphi na iinzuzo umntu asusa iringi ngaphambi kokuba ahlangane nebhinqa elicwangcisa ukuba lilifutshane (okanye alicwangcisi khona. Amadoda kunqabile ukunxiba eminye imihombiso, nangona kukho izinto eziphezulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kulo mzuzu: ehlotyeni, ekumnwe ngaphandle komnwe, kuya kuba nakho ukuqaphela ngokulinganayo kwelanga , ukuphumla kunye nenkosikazi yam, ukuba kwiyadi yeyadi yeli xesha lokubandayo, emnwe ungayibona imvimbo yombona okanye umtya obomvu.
Ubudlelwane obusemthethweni kuphela bubalulekile kumadoda.
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Okanye utshatile, okanye hayi
Kwimeko yomtshato waseburhulumenteni, yonke into inzima kakhulu - amaxesha amaninzi azizigqali ngokupheleleyo umntu obhinqileyo kwibhinqa elihlala ixesha elide, kodwa ayinguye, iqabane lakho lingatsho ngokupheleleyo ukuba "alikhululekile njengomoya." Kodwa wena, ngokwendalo, akufuneki ulungiselele iodolo. "Abemi" bayathanda ukubonisa incwadana yokundwendwela "ecocekileyo" kwithuba lokuqala, njengoko besazi ukuba ibalulekile into yokuba le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kumfazi, ke ungathethi ukuba akukho mntu ulinde indoda .
Ubaleka rhoqo ngokuhlwa
Indoda exakekileyo iphantsi kwindlela yosuku. Qiniseka ukuba yonke into yenzelwe yena: Xa inkosikazi ivela emsebenzini kwaye lingakanani ixesha abalichitha kwikhabhathi, lingakanani ixesha afuna ixesha lokufika ekhaya nayo yonke into esenomoya onjalo. Indoda engasathethiyo ngefowuni okanye iwotshi kufuneka ilumkise: Kunqabile ukuba uchithe iiyure ezimbalwa kunye nawe kwaye uya kujongwa kwikhitshi lakho okanye kwigumbi lokulala, ukuzama ukuya yiza nesizathu esibalulekileyo "ukubaleka" Ewe kunjalo, kukho izinto ezivela kubo bonke abantu, kodwa nganye kwintlanganiso yakho kwishedyuli sisisiganeko esolisayo kakhulu.
Unxamnye neefoto eziqhelekileyo
Kwixesha leenethiwekhi zentlalo, ulwazi malunga nomntu othile unokufunyanwa kwezinye iicofa kwifowuni. Nokuba ukufunga kanjani, ukuba ezi foto ziya kushiywa kuphela kwaye ziya kukufudumeza ebusuku xa kungekho, soze avume ukubeka esichengeni. Ufuna ukuqhayisa ngendoda yakho kunye nawo nawuphi na umntu obhinqileyo, kunzima ukuthintela - akukho ntombazana ithile kwiakhawunti, kodwa kuya kubonakala isandla kumntu wakho. Umgangatho owomeleleyo uyazi kakuhle ngayo, kwaye ke ngexesha lokuhambahamba kwentombazana "eyimfihlo" yendoda enento yonke yendoda eneza kuzama ukuphuma kwisakhelo. Okumangalisayo kumntu ongenanto unokufihla, ungafumani?