Ngamnye kuthi wadibana nendoda enesiqingatha seyure emva kokuba ithandana neyabambana ngoluhlu: "Ingakanani imali onayo nawe?" Kwaye phantse kuphakama ebhegini ukuze ujonge. Ngelishwa, akulula ukujongana nale nto, kodwa kufuneka ukhusele imida yakho.
"Xa ufumana indoda?"
Ukuba uwedwa, ulungele umbuzo we-esile ebunzini. Kwaye kakhulu, yonke imeko yosapho yakho ikhathaza abahlobo, abantu abaziqhelileyo nezihlobo ezazikwazi ukufumana isiqingatha sesibini nakubantwana, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba unomdla komnye umntu, kwaye ke ulayishe Ngaba uyazicacisa iingcinga: "Kwaye yintoni endiphosakeleyo?" Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho mfuneko. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uqaphele le patheni emgangathweni, nayo, andidingi ngokuzithemba: "Nje ukuba into iguqukile, uya kufunda ngale nto yokuqala, ayinanto yakwenza nanto Yenza ngonxibelelwano olunembeko.
"Kutheni ufuna lo mdlalo, yiphi enye into yokunciphisa umzimba?"
Kubonakala ngathi indoda ayithuki ngokuthe ngqo, ngokuchaseneyo, igxininisa ubume bakho obufanelekileyo. Kodwa kuphela ekuqaleni. Uninzi lwabantu luqinisekile ukuba imidlalo iyadingeka kuphela ukuba i-jean iqalile ukutshaya embindini weziko lokuthenga, kwezinye iimeko, ukuhamba ngeenyawo kuthathwa njengengafunwanga. Ukuchaza ukuba ukugcina iifom ezilungileyo zomzimba-ukuxhasa impilo, ayinamsebenzi, zama ukuthoba: "Ndisendleleni eya emfezekweni" okanye into kulo moya. Kubalulekile ukuba ungahambi kulwaphulo mthetho.
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"Yanda i-elassoes? Okanye eyakho? "
Inkangeleko, mhlawumbi, ezona zibuhlungu umntu ongenabuchule. Kwabanye, umbuzo malunga nokuphuculwa kobuhle kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ababoni kwanto 'ababona "ukuba bachukumise ubuso bakho' ngokuqinisekileyo 'kwendalo". Okokuqala, asivumeli abantu abangaqhelekanga ukuba bazichukumise ngokomgaqo, nje ukuba uvakalelwe kukuba incoko ayihambi apho, iguqulele umxholo okanye iguqule umbuzo ophambeneyo, kodwa ayikho ubundlongondlongo kwaye alunangxaki.
"Kutheni ungayityi inyama?"
Umbuzo okufumana ukuthandwa kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, xa inani lezilwanyana kunye neVegans zaqala ukukhulisa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye inethiwekhi ephezulu ye-cafes kunye neendawo zokutyela zaqala ukuhlela imenyu. Phantse kuyo nayiphi na inkampani kukho ummelwane ononophele etafileni, oya kukujonga ixesha elide, emva koko abuze: "Ungayityi inyama? Kwaye ngoba? " Eyona nto iphosakeleyo onokuyenza kule meko injalo kukuqalisa ukuchaza ukuba kutheni ungayityi inyama. Khumbula, akukho mntu ufanele ukuchukumisa okutyayo ukuba unxibe okanye esidibana naye, uninzi luziva luphawu lwenzeka kulo mbuzo malunga nenyani yokuba hlazisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Njengakwimeko yangaphambili, siza kuyiphendula impendulo yokuhlekisa okanye siguqulele isihloko.