I-Blogger kaMaria i-Ariava, eyasebenza kumabonwakude ngaphambili, iphakamise ingxaki yobuchule yabantu. UMaria wamema ukuba nenxaxheba kwindalo yogqirha we-gyneologist kunye neendwendwe ezininzi ezixelelwe ngezizathu zokuba bangazali abantwana okanye ixesha elide ngekhe bafumane. Ividiyo yokubonisa ividiyo ifumene amanqaku angaphezu kwe-1.3 yezigidi-bambalwa abantu bahlala bengakhathali. U-Anthit wagqiba kwelokuba anikele ingqalelo kwesi simo ngemibuzo emininzi kwaye axele ukuba kutheni ungafuni ukuthoba impumlo yakho kwishishini lakho.
Misa imibuzo ikhona
Njengoko kungenjalo ngokwesiko ukubuza abantu malunga nengeniso yabo okanye iindleko zezindlu / zokuphumla / ezinye izinto, akukho mfuneko yokuba ungabi kubomi bomntu. KwisiNgesi kukho ibinzana elilungileyo "Akukho kwishishini lakho", eliguqulelwa ngokuthi "alikhathazeki." Zive ukhululekile ukukhusela imida yakho ukuba ubuza imibuzo ongafuniyo ukuphendula. Ngendlela efanayo, musa ukukhwela abanye ngemibuzo engaqhelekanga- yintoni eza kutshintsha ebomini bakho ukusuka kuloo nto, ngoku okanye emva kweminyaka emi-5, intombi okanye iqabane okanye umntu osebenza naye azala umntwana?
Musa ukoyika ukuxhasa amabhinqa
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Uloyiki
Nangona abantu abaninzi basadidanisa nobunqwazi ngomyeni womntu, waphinda wagxininisa ukuba ayinjalo. Abasetyhini bakwinyani yokuba le ndoda kunye nebhinqa ekugqibeleni zamkela ngokulinganayo nokutshatyalaliswa koluhlu oluthintelwe ngokweembango zoluntu malunga nendima yoluntu. Unelungelo lokwala ukuzala umntwana okanye ulikhulelwe ukhulelwe iminyaka emininzi njengoko ufuna bona. Amantombazana amaninzi aselula aseziphelweni esele ikwiminyaka engama-25 ubudala lixesha lokucinga ngabantwana - ngubani owenzi manani? Unokuba ngumzali obalaseleyo kwiminyaka engama-20, kwaye kunokwenzeka kwaye nge-40 ungakulungelanga ukuthatha uxanduva losana. Khetha indlela ofuna ngayo- kuphela wena ulungisa ukulawula ubomi bakho.
Ilizwe liphela
Akukho mfihlakalo yokuba abantu abaselula abaninzi bafuna ukufudukela kwelinye ilizwe okanye ubuncinci bokuzalwa komntwana. Umzekelo, xa wayezalwa umntwana e-USA, ufumana ubumi, nto, emva kwethuba elithile, inika abazali ilungelo lokufumana ubumi. Amanye amantombazana afuna ukutshata loo phesheya Guason - kutheni kungenjalo? Uchaza nabani na oya kuba nguyise womntwana apho uza kuzalwa khona. Kwaye oku akuyotyheli, kodwa inkxalabo ngekamva losana. Uzalelwe kwelinye ilizwe, ufumana ubumi bakho baseRussia kunye nokuba ngummi ovela kwicala likaBawo kunye nepasipoti yoMbuso apho kupasiswe khona umntwana ukuba umntu onjalo usemthethweni. Ngobumi baseYurophu okanye baseMelika, uvula amathuba ongezelelweyo kwimfundo kunye nokukhula komsebenzi. Yiba yindoda yehlabathi, kuba ukuthanda ilizwe kubonakaliswa ngumnqweno wokunika ilizwe lakhe, kwaye kungekuphela nje ukuhlala kwimfuno, apho kwenzeke khona ooyisileyo.
Umthetho wethu awunqandi ukuba ngummi wesibini nolunye ubumi
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Ukulungiswa kokukhulelwa
Iingcali ze-gynecologists zicebisa ukuba amantombazana ahamba ngophando olupheleleyo kanye ngonyaka, kwaye ukuba kukho uphawu lweenyanga ezintandathu okanye kwiinyanga ezintathu. Oku kuyasebenza nakumadoda afuna ukuthatha iimvavanyo kwaye aqhubeke nokuhlolwa kwengcali. Okukhona uxanduva olungasabekiyo wokukhulelwa, umngcipheko omncinci wokufumana iingxaki. Ukucetyiswa iinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba kungeniswe utywala, ukutshaya, hlengahlengisa rhoqo kwezenzo zesondo-i-gynecologists icebisa ukuba iwele intshayelelo yonke imihla, kwaye inciphise imeko yoxinzelelo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo siyayithanda imeko yokuqonda yokuzala umntwana. Abantwana kufuneka bavele kwezo ntsapho apho abazali bengokwengqondo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokufanelekileyo kubo. Emva koko unokunandipha ubumama, kwaye ungazenzi imisebenzi yekhulu ngesantyaso kwaye ulinde, xa unganika indlalifa kwindlala.