Enye intombazana eselula yabelana ngeli phupha. Kwaye ndingxame ukubonakalisa ubunzulu bakhe kuwe, kubuhlungu ukuthunyelwa okubonakalayo nokusigxina.
"Ndiya emotweni, ndiqhuba. Ngesizathu esithile, yonke into iqala ukwenzeka, njengoko kwiimpawu ezintle zeHollywood. I-maniac iqala ukundingela, wankqonkqoza ngeempeni, ndide ndizive ezi mbambana ephupheni, kodwa le ayisiyonto imbi kakhulu. Ndikhetha emotweni, ndiqala ukubaleka, ukubaleka. Amadoda ahlukeneyo azama ukundinceda, nika izandla, tsala kwenye indawo. Ndibamba ngabo, zama ukubaleka. Kwaye ke yonke into iyatshintsha, kwaye ndihamba kwipaki ndedwa. Ngeenxa zonke, kubonakala ngathi, amagqabi amaninzi aphuzi. Kwaye ke ngoko ndiyandoyikisa nyani kum ukuba akazukundibamba. Ndindedwa - kwaye le yeyona nto imbi kakhulu enokwenzeka. "
Eli phupha linokuphelelwa ngokulula. Uyazazi ngobusuku bakhe obusuku, uziva ngathi unentlungu kwaye esoyikisa, efuna ukufihla isizungu sakhe (oko kukuthi, iManiac). Ukwenza oku, ubamba izandla zabo bonke abakumqolo wamadoda. Kutyholwa ukuba banokumnceda kule nto.
Ngendlela, abasetyhini bahlala benomdla wokubona usindiso lwabo kuzo zonke iingxaki ekufumaneni iqabane. Ngokungathi uyamenza ikamva lakhe kwaye aphiliswe kumava abuhlungu kunye nembonakalo yakhe kuloyiko olunye.
Iphupha liyibukele le nkqubo: Ukubamba amadoda, ukuzama ukususa amava. Ebomini kwalo mfazi ifana neyonzeka. Uqala inoveli emva kwenoveli, ihla ngelinge lamadoda ukuzama ukuba nesithukuthezi. Kodwa obu budlelwane bubuhlungu ngakumbi abanye.
Isebenzisa amadoda ukuba angabi lulwalamano lokwenene, kodwa agubungele ubulelo babo bengqondo. Kodwa inyani yile yokuba iyafana nokususwa kweentlungu zamazinyo ngoncedo lweetafile. Intlungu yenzeka okwethutyana, kodwa izinyo eligulayo lihleli. Okufanayo nemvakalelo yokuba lilolo. Ngendlela, ihlala ididekile ngemvakalelo yokushiywa, ukulahlwa kunye nokuzahlula.
Isizungu ngoyena ncedo unamandla xa umntu enokuba kunye naye, efumene iimvakalelo zakhe, wacela izinto ezinqabileyo, efuna le mibuzo inqabileyo, khetha ukuba ngubani na nawo athumela kuzo ikamva lakhe.
Kodwa ukuthembeka kunye nokushiywa yimeko xa umntu ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ukuba isizungu ngamandla, ke amava okuqhekeka kangabande kakhulu.
Ndicinga ukuba ephupheni i-heroine yethu kunokwenzeka ngakumbi malunga namava wesibini, malunga ne-vacuum yemvakalelo, malunga nokusondelana nokusondelelana kokwenyani kunokunganyanye.
Ukulala kubonakalisa kuye okwangoku, eyona ntlungu inamandla, ukungqubana okubangela ukothuka.
Ke kuba amaphupha ethu esona sipho sibalaseleyo. Ngoku, enolwazi ngento eyenzekayo emphefumlweni wayo, unokufunda ukubiza izinto ngamagama awo: owedwa afumana amandla kunye nokuhlukana nokuzila, ngaphandle kokuphepha. Ukulala kwakhona kuyamxelela ukuba akanakukuphepha oku. Iindlela azigcinayo azisebenzi.
Yintoni esebenzayo?
Iimvakalelo zethu kunye neemeko zenxalenye yamava. Ngapha koko, azikho ngonaphakade. Kunye nabo unokufunda ukuphila, baveze, babelane nabanye ngaphandle kokuzama ukuba ubalibale okanye balibale. Ke ukubaluleka nobushushu bala mava buya kuhlala ebomini bethu, kwaye ukukwazi ukudala ubudlelwane obukhulileyo nabanye buya kuvela.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin