Siqinisekile ukuba uhlala ucinga malunga nokuba unayo, kwaye kutheni uyeza kweli lizwe. Awundedwanga kumnqweno wokufumana impendulo kule mibuzo, kodwa ingxaki kukuba akukho mvumelwano kwalo mbandela. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi iindlela zokufumana impendulo kwindawo oqhelwa ngayo. Ukwenza oku, jika uye kwindlela yelogo yonyango.
Ishishini eliyithandayo linokuveza iitalente zakho
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Ithini le ndlela?
Ngokungafaniyo ne-sigmund freaud, awayekholelwa kuye kukuphela kokuzonwabisa emhlabeni, i-Austchiatrist Vikchiton i-vikchiton yayinengxaki yokuba ngamnye kuthi, kwaye ngenxa yoko kukhona Ukukhetha ngokukhululekileyo noxanduva lobomi bakho. Iflank yayingumsunguli welogophico-indlela yengqondo yengqondo. Ngokutsho kwakhe, umntu kufuneka aphile ngokungathi uphila okwesibini, kwaye ngoku unethuba lokulungisa iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo, uphila ubomi obutsha ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
YINTONI INDLELA YAKHE?
Owona msebenzi ophambili we-loutherapy, ngokoMdali wayo, kukubonisa umhlaba ukuba unguye, ukuze isigulana sikwazisile ukuqonda kwakhe.
Ngokwale ndlela, zintathu iindlela zokufumana intsingiselo yobomi bakho:
-Ukubandakanyeka kubuchule bokudala, into oyithandayo kakhulu.
-Umntu omkhulu omntu.
-Kwazi injongo yobomi ngokuva ubunzima.
Kwimeko yokuqala, yonke into icacile kakhulu: Xa umntu esenza into ayithandayo, kwimigaqo engafuneki malunga nentsingiselo yobukho bakhe, kuba yonke into imnandi. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uthanda wena, uya kufumana umba wokuba uya kuba ulungele ukwenza lonke uphila ebomini bakho ugqityiwe, ubuncinci kweli nqanaba.
sukwakha ubomi ojikeleze umntu omnye
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Kwicala lesibini, sithetha ngokuncamathisela ngokweemvakalelo kumntu okanye kwinto. Umntu unokumfumanela amava amnandi, ngakumbi xa omnye umntu ehlawula. Rhoqo, kwimeko enjalo, abantu banikezelwe ngokupheleleyo kubomi bokukhathalela into yokwamkelwa, ukufumana intsingiselo yobukho bayo. Ingxaki kuphela kukuba omnye umntu 'anokuthi omnye' agqithise "kwaye ke ihlabathi lakho linokuwa nokuhamba kweqabane, kwaye kunye naye uyaphulukana nentsingiselo yobomi bam, ubukho bezinto ezingaguqukiyo.
Indlela yesithathu, mhlawumbi eyona nto ingathandekiyo, kuba sithetha malunga nokubandezeleka okungenakufanelekile. Kodwa kule meko kukho izibonelelo, ezinje ngotshintsho lwangaphakathi lwangaphakathi.
Abahlobo abaninzi kunye nabantu obaziyo banokungakuxabisi umnqweno wakho wokufumana
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Asingabo bonke abahlobo bethu kunye nezihlobo zabo banokuwuqonda umnqweno wethu wokufumana intsingiselo yobomi, ngakumbi xa uxelisa iingcinga zabo kule nto. Khumbula, ukukhangela intsingiselo ayisiyo-pathology, kodwa indlela yokuziphuhlisa.