Isiphene, oko kukuthi, ukuphambuka kwisiqhelo sokuziphatha kubonakaliswa, ukuqala kweminyaka. Ngelixa abanye abantwana bayeka abazali ukuba babe ne-kitten okanye intsholongwane, abanye batshutshiswa zezilwanyana esele behlala endlwini. Kubalulekile ukufumana ingxaki ngexesha kwaye unxibelelane nengcali. Kukho iintshukumo ezininzi, emva kokuba izezoli zengqondo zicela abazali ukuba baye kubonisana nabantwana.
Ukuchasana nabanye abantwana
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubi kakhulu, ebiza i-ablergar enye kwi-Kindergarten, ethatha iithoyi zendawo evela kwabanye abantwana okanye ingenanto ingonakalisi ezinye izinto, lixesha lokubetha i-alamu. Ngokwesiqhelo esona sizathu sokuba le ndlela yokuziphatha lubudlelwane phakathi kosapho. Ukuba kuyathuka ekhaya, bohlwaywe emzimbeni okanye bangakhathalelwanga, ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana uya kuthulula iimvakalelo ezingalunganga koontanga okanye abantwana abancinci. Uziva ngathi abazali abanamcimbi phambi kwakhe, kodwa kwinqanaba elingenakuphantsi, indlela engaphantsi yokuziphatha isezame ukutsala ingqalelo kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha indlela yokuziphatha embi ichazwa kukubonakala komntwana omncinci kusapho, apho abazali banyanzelwa ukuba bahlawule ingqalelo enkulu. Kubalulekile ukuzisa umntwana ukuba anyamekele ukuzalwa, esebenzisa imisebenzi engenamsebenzi. Umzekelo, khetha iithoyi okanye impahla yokunxiba kunye, yiza neempawu zomama okanye iingono. Zama ngelixa ulele abancinci ukuba adlale kwaye athethe nomntwana omkhulu ukuze angazi alahliwe.
I-Avress ichazwa ziingxaki ngaphakathi kosapho.
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Ukungakwazi ukuthobela abadala
Khumbula ubuntwana bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwiklasi yakho okanye efanayo yayingumntwana onokuqalisa ngokulula ukucula kwisifundo okanye ehlala eshiya iklasi ngaphandle kwesilumkiso. Xa ndandineminyaka esi-7, abantwana benzeka kwingxaki yesibini yokukhula xa beqonda i-Ego 'ye-EGO' kwaye bahlule kuluntu. Asingabo bonke abantwana abakhula ngokulula, ke kubalulekile ukufumana iingxaki ezifanayo ngexesha kwaye uqhagamshelane nengcali yoncedo. Uya kumcacisela umntwana ukuba kutheni kufuneka uthobele abadala kwaye uza kuzizalisa izicelo zabo. Emva konyango, abantwana bahlala bephazamisa kwaye bevelisa uqeqesho.
Unyana ongaphumliyo.
Ngelixa abanye abantwana babonisa ngokucacileyo ukungaphakathi kwabo, abanye baya kuzingena, kuba kuya kuba nzima ukubona ukwaphulwa kwesimilo esiqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu nabantwana abanjalo babonakalisa imiqondiso elumkileyo ngalo mzuzu xa bengazibambi, ephupheni. Umntwana unokuphelisa amazinyo, ethetha ephupheni, epeyinta rhoqo kwaye avuke. Ukuba oku kwenzeke kube kanye, kubetha kwintsimbi kwangoko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphindaphinda okungapheliyo kweempawu ngokuchanekileyo kubonisa ukuba ubukho beengxaki.
Gcina umntwana wakho
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Ukucukumeza kwezilwanyana
Xa umntwana engaphezulu kweminyaka emi-3 ubudala ukhathazwa zizilwanyana, itsho malunga nolwalutsha. Zama ukuchaza ukuba izilwanyana zingabahlobo bethu kwaye azinantlungu zingenazintlungu zincinci xa zijija uboya okanye ukukhaba. Ungaze uvumele umntwana aphose amatye okanye isanti kwizilwanyana zasezitratweni, oyikisayo okanye ukutya. Umntu osabantwana ubonakalisa ukhuseleko kwizidalwa ezingakhuselekanga, kwixesha elizayo ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nobundlobongela ebantwini. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kufuneka kugcinwe ngokungqongqo ngokuxelela umntwana itoni eqinileyo yesenzo soMthetho ophosakeleyo.
Ukungakwazi ukulawula iimfuno
Abanye abantwana abaneengxaki zengqondo ebudeni bobuthathaka banokuziphatha njengabantwana. Umzekelo, ndilibale ukuya kwindlu yangasese okanye i-capricious kwitrafi. Ukubonakaliswa okunjalo kubonisa uloyiko kunye namava. Kumntwana kufuneka aphathwe njengomntu ozimeleyo, amnika inkululeko yokuzikhethela kwaye ayixhase kuyo yonke into. Ukuba kusapho kukho indalo engonwabisiyo, i-psyche yomntwana izama ukuyikhusela kulwaphulo-mthetho lwangaphandle, ngenxa yokubuya kwemvelaphi - indlela yokuziphatha yobudala. Thetha nomntwana, ufunda ukuba uyamkhathaza.