Kwangelo xesha, ebuntwaneni, sakha ubudlelwane nabazali. Ubudlelwane kunye nabo kamva kwaye buya kuchaza amandla ethu okudala ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Unxibelelwano neyona mifanekiso ibalulekileyo ebomini yiMatrix ethile yembono yethu yehlabathi kunye nabanye.
Kwaye ukuba asikhumbuli kakhulu malunga nobuntwana bakho, ngokufuthi ingqina ukuba imemori eluncedo icime ezinye zeenkumbulo ezinzima.
Umzekeliso weli liphupha elinje:
"Kutshanje ndiye ndayalela iphupha eliza kucacisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ebuntwaneni bam, esabuchaphazela ubomi bam. Kwaye ndaphupha ngephupha, apho abalinganiswa abaphambili bayinyama. Inkangeleko yakho-andikwazi ukuthi, kodwa iimvakalelo yimiphefumlo. Ndibhabha ecaleni komphefumlo okhulileyo. Kakhulu kum. UnguThixo yena. Ndiyathemba ukuba akanakwenzeka kakuhle. Kwaye ngequbuliso emzimbeni ephupheni, njengakwinyani, ndiqala ukuziva ndinesitayile emqaleni wam. Oko kukuthi, uyandigxeka. Kunye nokuhleka. Andinakwenza nto. Ndinokungazithembi, ndimangalisa, ubuthathaka kunye nemvakalelo yokuzikhathalela kwaye ibalusizi. Kwaye imvakalelo eqaqambileyo yoyika. Ke ndiphantse ndavuka ndaqhubeka nokulala kwisiqingatha, okanye ndaqhubeka nephupha ngento endiye ndaphila - ukuba andikhange ndicinge lo mphefumlo ixesha lokugqibela. Ndiqhubekile nokubhabha kunye naye emva kwethutyana, kuba andikhumbuli nto. Khange ukhumbule ukubandezeleka. Ihlala iyimvakalelo engacacanga yokungazithembi, ukungazithembi, ukungancedi. OLUNYE IXESHA LOKUGQIBELA KWABANYE. Ndiqalise ukubhabha kancinci kulo mphefumlo, kodwa nothando lwangaphambili. "
Ukulala kubonisa ukuba kukho uhlobo oluthile lwesiqhelo, umphefumlo ogunyazisiweyo ecaleni kwephupha lethu. Kwaye lo mphefumlo endaweni yothando kunye nenkxaso ijika isoyikiso sephupha ebomini. Amaphupha anjalo ahlala edutyulwe ngabo bakhuliswe kwaye bezohlwaywa ngokwasemzimbeni. Umntwana ubanjiwe. Ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwimeko yokuyijonga iya kubaleka okanye ivunyelwe. Kodwa ekubeni umntu owonileyo ngumntu omthandayo aze amfunayo, umntwana kufuneka athathele ingqalelo isohlwayo esinokwenzeka. Ijika ibe nexhala, mbnd, ukukrokrela, okonabileyo.
Nangona abazali abaninzi bekhulisa abantwana betsibela, kodwa akukho mntu unika eli xabiso. Ngapha koko, yenye yezona mpazamo zabazali zixhaphakileyo nezibulala. Ke, bakhuthaza ukucinga komntwana ukuba umzimba wakhe awuxabisekanga ukuba ingatshatyalaliswa kwaye inqumle kuye imvakalelo. Ukukhula, abantwana abanjalo abazi ukuzikhusela njani phambi kwabanye, ngakumbi phambi kwabasemagunyeni.
Kuyabonakala ukuba, iphupha lamaphupha ethu aqinisa ifom eqinisayo ibonisa oko kusenokwenzeka ukuba wayenolwalamano kunye nolwalamano kunye nabazithandayo - isisongelo akhumbule ngokungazi ngaphezu kwengqondo.
Kwaye kuphela ngokulala, kunokukwazi ukunxibelelana nomgama kunye noloyiko oluhlala lusebenza kubudlelwane.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin