Isifundo esiqhutywa kwiDyunivesithi yasePittsburgh sityhila ubudlelwane phakathi kwexesha elichithwe kwi-screulk yetheyiphu yenethiwekhi yentlalo kunye nokusabela kakubi kwimifanekiso yomzimba. Abo bachitha ixesha elininzi kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, amaxesha ama-22 ngaphezulu rhoqo malunga neengxaki ngesondlo kunye nefom yomzimba kubantu ababanikele kubo oontanga babo ochithe ixesha elincinci kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Oku kungqina ukuba "ingene" kuthi kwindalo esingqongileyo ichaphazela indlela esicinga ngayo kunye nesimo sengqondo saYe. Sicacisa ukuba kutheni kunokuba yingozi.
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zisichaphazela
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Ukuziqhelanisa nomzimba
Ukuba abahlobo bakho abasondeleyo babambe rhoqo emsebenzini, kwaye uyathanda ukuchitha ixesha ekhaya kwiTV, akukho nto imbi. Nangona kunjalo, imvakalelo yokuba nexhala lwangaphakathi lisenokubangela ngaphezulu kwengqondo - amantombazana athenga ubhaliso, abasebenza nzima, ngaphandle kokufumana ulonwabo kuqeqesho. Izixhobo zibuyekezwa ziifoto kwi-Instagram, eziqhutywa ngumqondiso ongengomlomo kubabhalisile: "Ndidumise!" Ekuphela komntu onelungelo lokuvavanya inkangele yakho kwaye ugxeke - wena. Enoba uhamba ngokugqibeleleyo okanye uqina kakhulu, uya kuzigxeka ngokulinganayo ukuba awufundi ukwamkela kwaye uthanda umzimba wakho.
Hamba ngamandla
Kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka? Emva koko kwavela njani ilizwi labantu ukuba "emva kweholide kufuneka iholide yesibini"? Uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ukuba ngexesha lohambo luyimfuneko ukutyelela ubuninzi bendawo, irenti yemoto kwaye uhlole izixeko ezingabamelwane, zama zonke izitya ze-cuisine yesizwe ... Yima! Iphinde iphile njengoko uthanda. I-susl elwandle okanye inyuke iintaba eziphakamileyo, ngegama, yenza into oyifunayo. Oku kuncedwa kukuhamba-hamba olunye xa ungafanele thethane neeplani zosuku, yiya apho, apho ungafuni ukuba yiyo, kwaye ube kwi-voltage eqhubekayo ukuze uziqhelanise nemfuno.
Ubudlelwane obugqibeleleyo
Ukuba kubonakala ngathi zonke izibini ezijikeleze iminyaka emi-5 ayiyeki ixesha le-boeuquet, ke, kubonakala ngathi kubonakala. Kubudlelwane apho abantu bakwicala ngalinye, akunakwenzeka ukuthintela ukungaqondani kunye neengxabano. Sukuzama ukubonisa ukonwaba kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nencoko kunye neentombi, ukuba ngenene ulila ubusuku bonke emqameleni. Zithembe izithandwa zakho, thetha nabo kwimiphefumlo kwaye ubashiye abo bangakukhumbuli. Ukwahlula noqhawulo-mtshato asisisihlolisiso sobomi bakho bobuqu. Kodwa uxinzelelo olusisigxina lunokuba sisivakalisi ngokwenene: impilo kunzima ukubuyisela oko kubonakala ngathi. Nyaniseka nawe kunye neqabane, amava amaninzi axabisekileyo kuphela kwaye ungajongi abanye.
Uthando, musa ukwenza ngathi luthando
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Ubutyebi obucinga
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zenza ukuba abantu bacinge ukuba wonke umntu uneshishini elingcono. Kuphela kukuyiqonda into yokuba xa usenza i-gloss engaphandle ulahlekelwa ngakumbi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uzabalazele ngcono, ungacingi ukuba imoto yelinye ilizwe okanye ibhegi edityanisiweyo eyenziwe kwimali mboleko iya kukwenza ube sisityebi. Imeko yomntu ifundwe ngokulula ngeenkcukacha ezincinci, ke kuphela onokuthi ukhohlisa, wena. Phuhlisa ngokuthe ngcembe, nika imfundo engakumbi kwaye ungalibali malunga nesenzo, emva koko inqwelo-mafutha inqwenelekayo iya kuba ekhayeni lakho, hlawula wena.