Ukupheka sisipho sokuzalwa?
Khumbula i-cartoon "Ratatuus"? Elinye lamagorha apho athi: "Wonke umntu unokupheka."
Kukho abantu ukutya oko kufunwa yintsapho. Kwaye kukho iigorimitha zokutya kungokutya. Kule meko, ndicinga ukuba singathetha ngesipho esithile - culinary, iGassomic. Ukuthandana nokutya, kufuneka ubenako, ukuba ungayibeka, iflethi. Kunye ne-receptors eyahlukileyo evela kwindalo. Ungazoba i-anagy, utsho, ngemveliso ye-Perfumery. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba uyakude kwaye ngabom ukuze ufunde, uya kuba yingcali eyomeleleyo nedumileyo. Kodwa ukuze ube ngumbuzo kwaye udala iincasa ezizodwa, isipho sokuzalwa kunye neempumlo ezizodwa ziyimfuneko. Okufanayo ngokulungiselela ukutya. Ukufumana umbhalo wakho wesandla ekuphekisweni kwenza italente yokuzalwa kukupheka.
Kubaluleke kangakanani ukufundisa umntwana kwasebuntwaneni?
Ewe kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubethelela inkcubeko yokutya.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuhlakulela ukutya ngengqondo yokuba ukusetyenziswa kokutya akunakuba yinkqubo yokufumana izitya, kwaye ukuze entlungwini yetreyitha, xa usapho lonke luhlala etafileni Ewe, wonke umntu uyaxoxa izitya ezitya ngoku, funda iimpembelelo zakho, funda ukuzimela, funda ukhetho lwabo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzama ukusuka kubudala obuqale ukutsala abantwana ekuphekeni. Iluncedo kwaye isuka kwicala lomzimba: Xa abantwana, umzekelo, svaar intlama, sebenza ngomgubo, umnqamlezo kunye ne-quiths ezinzulu zikhula.
Ukongeza, ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuphekeni, abantwana baqala ukuqonda ukuba loluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi oluphekayo. Kutheni ufuna ukuhlonitshwa kukutya. Kwaye abasebenzi bedibeneyo bayamanywa, kwaye umsebenzi opheleleyo ekhitshini womeleza ubudlelwane babantwana nabazali.
Lungiselela kunye nabantwana
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Ngaphambi kokuba ufundise, umntwana kufuneka abe nomdla. Ungayenza njani?
Ewe kunjalo, ukuba umntwana akananto yokupheka, kuya kuba nzima ukuyifundisa. Kodwa ukutya yinto esijongana nayo yonke imihla, ubuncinci kathathu. Kunye namaxesha amahlanu. Umzekelo, amaxesha asixhenxe ngemini. Abantwana, ngokwemvelo, baziva beziva yindlala. Kwaye ungabondla nje, kwaye unokwenza umdla ngandlel 'ithile. Umzekelo, ukuqokelela kunye kwaye wenze ikuki enomdla. Akukho sidingo sokuthi: "Ngoku siza kulungisa into kwaye." Kumntwana, ukutya okupheka akufuneki kube sisifundo. Ukutya asisiyo isifundo, ukutya kungulonwabo.
Yintoni intsingiselo yomzali kule nto?
Ewe kunjalo, ngokugqibeleleyo, ukuba kukho amasiko ahambelana nokutya kusapho. Umzekelo, izidlo zangeCawa eziqokelelweyo zezizukulwana ezininzi. Xa umama echaza ngokucacileyo ukuba izidlo ezinjalo zilungiselela uhlobo oluthile lwesitya esikhethekileyo kwaye siyilungiselela ngokwesiko, ngokwesiko, ekhaya.
Ewe kunjalo, akusoloko umama unokukwazi ukulungiselela isidlo esikhulu esinjalo. Okanye nokuba isidlo sangokuhlwa nje semihla ngemihla asinakuhlala sipheka. Kwaye kufuneka uthenge ukutya okuthathwayo okanye uye kwindawo yokutyela. Kodwa kule meko, etya kwindawo yokutyela, unokuthetha nabantwana malunga nokutya. Xoxa ngengcambuso yezitya ezifayiliweyo, bhiyozela amanqaku abo. Kwaye ngelo nasiphi na isidlo sasemini, ekhaya okanye hayi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sihlehlise iinombolo zefowuni kwaye anikele ngexesha kunxibelelwano losapho.
Basabela njani abazali xa nxamnye neentsilelo zabantwana?
Umbuzo onomdla kakhulu. Ungasabela njani ekuqiniseni? Ndiyakholelwa ukuba akukho nto injalo kwaphela-ukusilela. Oku sinika into. Yintoni ukusilela kwabantwana? Akukho nto inokubizwa engaphumeleli. Kuba yonke into eyenzekayo emntwaneni kwaye nathi kukohlin 'njengokuba sifumana. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha esikubiza ngokuba yimfihlakalo ngayo kukukhuthaza okungaphezulu ukuze uziphathe ngandlela thile, yenza into enomdla.
Xa umntwana ewa, uyavuka aze aqhubeke, unendawo yendalo. Ukuba umntwana uxinezelekile kukusilela kwakhe, kufuneka uthethe lo mzuzu. Cacisa ukuba oku asikokusilela, ngamava anomdla. Akukho mpumelelo ngaphandle kokusilela, kwaye umbuzo kuphela ekuboneni kwethu ukuqonda kwethu, entlokweni yethu inamathele, kwaye yintoni.
Ukupheka kuphuhlisa intsusa emncinci emntwaneni
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Yintoni eyalelwa ukuba yenze ukuba umntwana aqale ukubonisa inyathelo lokuqala ukuze angafumani mdla wakhe?
Eyona nto inokwenzeka ukuba umzali awenze luthando umntwana wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uthando ngokuqinisekileyo. Musa ukuthelekisa ngaphambili, kungaphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko nomntwana omnye. Kuba wonke umntu wahlukile, wonke umntwana ozelwe enobuchule bakhe, ngekamva, kunye nemisebenzi yabo yeKarmic, kwaye, ngokoluvo lwam, eyona nto iphambili kukuhlala ukholelwa emntwaneni wakho. Nokuba kubonakala ngathi akakwazi kwento, akukho mfuneko yokuba ikhuthaze kwinto elungileyo kwaye iluncedo kwimbono yakho. Luhlobo lwakho 'olunqwenelekayo ", kwaye abanalo kwanto yakwenza nobomi bakhe. Obu bubomi bakho obuphila. Kwaye umntwana kufuneka aphile okwakhe. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukubakho ke, ubekho, umntwana uthembele kuwe. Wayesazi ukuba ubuya kuhlala ecaleni kwakhe. Ke ngekamva uya kukhula ngomntu ozithembayo nobuqonda.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuqala ukufundisa umntwana ngezitya ezintsonkothileyo okanye ungazenzela ulwazi olusisiseko?
Ndicinga ukuba andidingi. Ukutya, enyanisweni, ukuba umntwana uyayithanda nje inkqubo yokupheka. Ke ukuba uyithanda imveliso. Wayiqonda indlela abazifumana ngayo izithako zabo. Ukuze akoyiki ukuzama. Ukwenza umama noTata, nabo, babekoyika ukwenza inkqubo yokupheka. Ke ngoko, abazali banomsebenzi ongatshatanga wokufundisa inkcubeko yokutya kwaye bathandana nomntwana kwaye nawo.
Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba umntwana uyala ukupheka? Mhlawumbi "ayinguye"?
Ukuba uyala, makungalungisi. Mhlawumbi uya kukhulisa ngobuhlakani, kwaye siya kuyilungisa. Uyala? Makenze. Vumela nje ukutya okusemgangathweni okuphezulu, kwaye kunjalo.