Rhoqo, abazali kwi-fustling bomsindo banokuxelela umntwana amagama amaninzi angathandekiyo abonakala engenabuchule, kodwa enyanisweni wajongana nomonakalo omkhulu kwi-psyche. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala abaqondi ukuba mangaphi amagama abo anokwenzakalisa amagama abo. Namhlanje siza kukuxelela malunga namabinzana anqabileyo esingamxeleli kakuhle umntwana, nokuba uye wahlaziya.
"Ukuba uqhubeka nokuziphatha oku, amapolisa oMalume uyakuthatha"
Owona mgaqo ubalulekileyo womzali: akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhuthaze uloyiko kunye nexhala ebantwaneni bakhe, nangakumbi, ukubasila. Kuba nguwe wedwa umntu wonke umntu onokubakhusela. "Ke ngoko umama uyasongela, ke ndingodwa?" -Umntwana ucinga. Thetha naye, chaza ukuba kutheni indlela yokuziphatha ayikwazi, kodwa ungamvumeli ukuba acinge ukuba uMama okanye uTata ulungele ukuyinika ipolisa elingaqondakaliyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko enzima.
Umntwana oncumayo - umba wabazali
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"Akufanele ulilile! Uyinkwenkwe "
Ukuncitshiswa kweemvakalelo zalo nawuphi na umntu, nokuba umntu omdala, unokuchaphazela kakubi imeko yakhe yengqondo, oko ukuthetha ngomntwana. Akudanile ukulila, kuba umntwana uyakhathazeka. Umsebenzi wakho kukufumana isizathu sokuphazamiseka, kwaye ungathululi ioyile emlilweni ngokukhanyela iimvakalelo zakhe.
"Senza yonke into kunye notata wakho ngenxa yakho!"
Eli binzana likhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba ulilo lwesazela, nto leyo eyakhulayo eyahlukileyo eya kukhula ibe yisbuntayo kunye nemvakalelo esisigxina kangangokuba ufanele ukuba athobele umntu. Umntwana akazange amcele ukuba azale-sesigqibo sakho, ngokumnika umntwana wakho ubomi obulungileyo - umsebenzi wakho, hayi whim.
"Sele ndineminyaka yobudala bakho ..."
Faka eli binzana unokufumana nantoni na. Uninzi lwabazali luyazi kakuhle ukuba la magama akhuthaza umntwana ukuba aphumelele kwaye enze izinto ezintsha. Ngapha koko, oku kukhokelela kwinto yokuba umntwana azive engafaneleke, kuba ayinakukwazi ukufezekisa okona kutsalwa ngabazali bakhe. Ke ubunzima bokuzalwa buzalwe.
"Kodwa i-DASHA ivela kwiyadi eselumelwaneni ..."
Ungaze uthelekise umntwana wakho nomntu, kuba yenye indlela eya kubunzima bokungaphantsi. Mhlawumbi i-DASHA ivela kwiyadi eselumelwaneni sele ihlamba izitya ngokwayo, kodwa ke umntwana wakho utsala kakuhle. Endaweni yokugculela ukungabikho kwezakhono, ukudumisa umntwana kwabo sele enayo.
Abazali bomntwana - umhlaba uphela
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"Unetyala kuba ungoyena mdala"
Umntwana usindile nje ukubonakala kolunye usana ekhayeni lakho, esele iluxinzelelo kuye, kuba ngaphambi kokuba abe yenye, kwaye lonke uthando lwamfumana. Ukukhokelela umlindi kuzo zonke izono, ukhula kuyo intiyo, lo dadewethu omncinci okanye umzalwana, nako kubo bonke abantwana ngokubanzi.
"Usemncinci kakhulu ukuba uyayazi le"
Musa ukubulala umdla womntwana kwingcambu. Ukuba uyakubuza ngento enzima, zama ukuyichaza kuye ngamagama alula. Nokuba akaqondi, umntwana uya kwazi into enokutsala umdla kubazali nakuphi na umbuzo.