NgoDisemba, uElizabeth, i-Ayarskaya okwesibini yaba ngumama. U-Andrusha oneminyaka emithandathu wavela uMzalwan 'uGrisha. Ngenyanga, umntwana oselula wabuyela endlebeni yakhe, waqala ukuziqhelanisa. Kodwa ke, ngalo lonke umsebenzi wobugcisa, uyavuma ukuba ungumati ungubani ongubani, kwaye namhlanje ekunye nokunxibelelana nabantwana babo, ukuba babone inyathelo ngalinye elibonisa ulonwabo lokwenyani. Iinkcukacha-kudliwanondlebe nephepha lephephabhuku "moya".
-Lisa, ngangolunye uthini uyaqonda ukuba abadlali abaphantse bangathethi ngawo. Kwaye yayihlala ibonakala kum ukuba wawunganyanisekanga kudliwanondlebe kwaye ufunda ngokupheleleyo kubo ...
-Iyinyani, ndinyanisekile. Andisebenzi ngokwahlukileyo. . Kodwa kwelinye icala, ukuba ngaba umlingisi uyakholisa, kufanele ukuba njalo. Ndihlala ndikuthanda xa ndiqala ukuthetha nentatheli, ukuba ngumnxibelelanisi onomdla. Mna ndiqala ukubonakalisa kwaye sizibonele kwinto ethile. Udliwanondlebe lukwaye nohlalutyo.
-Ngoku ke ukuvuya okwenzayo akuzange kube lula ukuzalwa komntwana wesibini?
-Umkhuthazile. Ndiyaqonda ukuba makabe ngumama kune-otporess. Nangona ndiyazi ukuba ixesha elide ngaphandle komsebenzi, andikwazi, kodwa andizukukwazi ukuzama ukuzama yonke into. Ingayinto efanelekileyo xa ilangazelelo. Ukutsho ukuba ngoku ndifuna umsebenzi omtsha, - hayi. Ndinoxanduva oluninzi kwindawo yethiyetha: Ukuziqhelanisa, kwaye ndonwabile ngayo. Ngelixa ndifuna ukuhlala ekhaya namakhwenkwe amakhwenkwe am, jonga ngathi bayakhula, baqhube kwiiklasi, bakhwela nabo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ukusuka koku ndiluyolo lokwenyani, ndiziva ndigcwele, ndiphumelele, ndiphunyezwe kwaye ndonwabile.
- Wenza ntoni u-Andrysha? Kutshanje, utshilo ukuba awufuni ukuyikhuphela kakhulu ...
"Ubandakanyekile ngesiNgesi, umculo, chess, uya kwizifundo zokufunda, stater state." Akayi kwi-Kindeergargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargan, ke yonke into ihanjiswa ngokulinganayo iveki, kwaye ayiphelelwanga kakhulu.
Nxiba, Maya; Amacici kunye ne-bracelet, yonke-thasi
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
- Ngaba wonke umntu wenza ulonwabo kunye nomculo?
-Andazi umntwana ongatshatanga ongonwabanga ukubalekela esixhobo, kuba ngumsebenzi omkhulu. Uyakuthanda ukukhetha iingoma, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kuye ukuba ayeke kwaye adlale i-gamma. Ndifunde udliwanondlebe olukhulu lwabaqhubi abadumileyo kunye neemvumi malunga nendlela abazali abakhathazwa ngayo kwaye banyanzelwa ukuba bawenze kwaye bawuthiyile umculo. Asinanjongo yokwenza ukusuka kwimculi ye-andrei, ke akukho mthetho-dlala ipiyano kangangeeyure yonke imihla, uyaphulukana neveki ngeveki ngeyure. Kwaye malunga nophuhliso lomculo ngokubanzi lwanele. Kwi-chess edlala ngolonwabo olukhulu kwaye wenza impumelelo. Kubonakala kum ukuba ilungile kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo. Kunye ne-andryshiether with yengqondo yengqondo. Ngendlela, kwaye uMax notata banomdlalo we-chess olungileyo. Unyana we-skeet ulawula nge-maxim. UGrisha uza kukhula kwaye sizibandakanya nabo. Ndizakufika kwi-rollers, ebuntwaneni bam ndakhwela kakuhle, ndenza amaqhinga.
"Ungowonke, kodwa unesiphiliso esinzulu se" Karafazov "kwithiyetha yakho ye-Nater kwaye sele iza kuqala kuma" Malume Van "kwindawo yemidlalo yeZizwe ...
-Ngokongeza, ukongeza, i-MOSCOW PROOREORE yomdlalo "Ngo-1926", esekwe kwimbalelwano ye-marina tsvetaeva ne-boris panterbak, ziya kubanjwa kungekudala. Kwaye ndidlala kakhulu i-MDT yam ye-MDT yam. Kwaye ekupheleni kukaMeyi, uMlawuli uStefan Braunschheeig uza, kwaye siqala ukuphinda siziqhelanisa "Malume Voya", iPrieorEre ngoSeptemba. Ndiza kudlala i-elena andreevna. Ndicwangcisa kuphela ekupheleni kwehlobo, kwaye ayiloxesha kakhulu.
-Unenye intlanganiso neChenokv. Sele ngumbhali ongumqondiso ...
Ewe, sele endikrexezayo. Ndiyayithanda i-chenokv kakhulu, kwaye ndidlale ulonwabo lwayo olukhulu. Akanamntu. Abantu abanxulumene nethiyetha bayazi ukuba zonke izinto ezidlala khona ziqala njani kwaye ngawaphi amagama aphelelayo, kodwa ihlale inomdla ukufumana eyakho isitshixo, kodwa ihlale inomdla wokufumana ulwazi lwe-chenokv kunye namaqabane alo .
Isinxibo, iBoutique 7; Amacici kunye nomsesane, yonke-tous
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
-Ndicinga ukuba ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali bakho, ngekhe ube nepali ngomthwalo wakho kwindawo yeqonga ...
- Ngokuqinisekileyo! Uncedo lwabo yi-100%, ngoku siphila kwi-St. Petersburg bonke, sisene-nanny, kwaye umakhulu wethu wesibini uhlala esisa kuthi. Emva kwexesha elithile siya kuya endlwini yethu, kodwa ukufuphi. Siyanxulumana nomntu ngamnye onxulumene nokudlula, asizukusasazeka.
-Ukulungiselela okanye umama?
"Kufuneka silungiselele ipopu kuphela kunye ne-andrei, mna kunye ne-maxim ndiyi-odola inyanga." Kuphela kunamandla amakhulu kuphela - ezemidlalo, kwaye ndinokutya komama ongumgcini. Kuyinto efanelekileyo, eyahlukileyo kwaye imbi. Umama utya yonke into ekhoyo emva koAndrei kunye noPopu. (Ukuhleka.) Ngenxa yoko, umama wayelungiselela utata, kwaye uAndreyi ulungiselela, ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni ngubani ekhaya.
Ngesizathu esithile, kubonakala ngathi kum ukuba ukuhlalisana okudibeneyo kuyakholiswa ngutata wakho ...
-Ngcwele, oku kuko lonke ulonwabo. Kucacile ukuba ngamanye amaxesha sinamava okuphambili, kuba asisoloko sidibana, asisoloko sinayo imbonakalo efanayo. Kodwa oku kuyindalo, singababantu abahlukeneyo, sizisa abantwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa asisiyo ngokusisiseko. Ndisaqonda ukuba ngenye imini, emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu kamva, ndiza kukhumbula la maxesha xa abantwana babemncinci kwaye sonke sasivuya. Ndicinga ukuba kwezinye iintsapho ubudlelwane obukhulu, ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bubandezeleka kwaye bafuna ukufudukela kubazali babo, kuyenzeka ukuba bashenxise abazali babo, kodwa thina, simbulela uThixo, oko akunjalo. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uxabise yonke imzuzu. Ndicinga ngayo, kwaye asingxami ukuba sibaleke naphi na.
- UMaxim wathi uza kuthatha "ikhefu lokuya kubeleka", ubuncinci ukusuka kwiFilmenti. Ke kwenzeka ntoni?
Ewe, kude kube sekupheleni kukaJanuwari, akazange adlale endaweni yemidlalo yeqonga, ngoDisemba noJanuwari kusekhaya nathi. Ekupheleni kukaMeyi, iya kuqala ukususa ngokuqinileyo, kwaye ilungile, lixesha lokuba abuyele ekwakheni.
-Ngaba ikhona into etshintshileyo kubudlelwane bakho kunye ne-maxim? Zombini zigxile kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha ngamaxesha anzima, ngakumbi kumadoda ...
-Um, akukho nto itshintshileyo. Singabazali abanenkathalo, umyeni nenkosikazi, abahlobo abapholileyo. Akukho nto iseleyo, mhlawumbi yanda, kuba inani lothando olufunyenweyo.
Nxiba, Maya; Iimbadada, stuart weitzman; Amacici kunye nomsesane, yonke-tous
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
-Ucinga njani, ngokuzalwa kuka-Andrei Maxim ngokwakhe watshintsha kwinto ethile?
-Bazali banyanzelekile ukuba babe ngoochwephesha beengqondo kunye neediplomats, ukuze bangamomeleze umntwana, bangakhubekisi. Kwaye i-maxim yaye yavetha nangakumbi. Ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwabantwana, sigxile kubo kwaye omnye komnye, kunye nokuba ngumama notata waphila ngokunxulumene nabantu ngokunxulumene nabanye. Uba nzima, ucinga ngaphambi kokuba utsho igama elibukhali, siyasebenza nasiphi na isigqibo. Nabantwana akunakwenzeka ukuba wenze into ngokuxolayo, ngokungacinginga. Kwaye ke luncedo kakhulu ebomini. Bahlo batshintsha abantu. Umntu othile ukwinqanaba elincinci, umntu-ngaphezulu. Kwabanye, kwanele ukuba batsho ukuba umntwana "ibhokhwe, ibhokhwe", uqhwabela iesile, elonakalisayo - enze imali. Kwaye i-maxim, umayendi yenye yeefowuni zakhe. Utata omangalisayo, unokuchitha iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine ngosuku nomntwana onoyolo, kwaye akambeka nje ukuba abukele iikhathuni. Hayi, uya kuthetha naye, ufaka imibala kunye into okanye umtsalane, abone, funda, uhambe naye, unokugula aze apheke. Ngokubanzi, ufana nomama, umhlobo nje, kunye nomcebisi. Ndiyithanda kakhulu le nto i-maxim kunye ne-Andryhasha ukunxibelelana njengamaqabane. Lo ngumhlaba ofanelekileyo wekamva lokuba nguyise. Ndicinga ukuba uza kuba njalo kwaye enenkathalo. Ngoku ndingcungcutheka, kodwa ke ndinayo yonke inyanga yokuqala, ndakuba ndivuke izihlandlo ezininzi ebusuku, andikaze ndiyibe nayo yonke into endalala ngayo nomntwana, walala. Ngexesha lonke landinceda ndothule, ndondla, ndinxibe ezingalweni zakhe, senze yonke into kunye. Ke kaloku inyanga yokuqala, ihlala inzima ngokwaneleyo, yadlula yovuyo kwaye ikhululekile ukuba inikele ulonwabo. Ngoku ayisoyiki ukuba nabantwana, kwaye nokuba uThixo unake.
- Ngaba ikhona inkqubo ephezulu?
Ewe kunjalo, asiyi kufikelela ntshatsheli, kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nontathu. Kwaye phaya ... masibone. Ndikunye nomntwana wesibini, ndaye ndabona ukuba ubuyama ngelinye igodi yam, ndiyityhila kule nto, ndisombulula umbala, kwaye ke ndiqonde ukuba ndisafuna ukusinda ngexesha apho abantwana bancinci. Ndiyakuthanda ukungcungcutheka nabantwana. Kodwa side sikhawuleze. Kubonakala kum ukuba umahluko phakathi kwabantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emine ukuya kwemithandathu.
- Kwaye kwixesha elizayo, ungathanda intombazana?
- Ekuqaleni bendikufuna ngokwenene owesibini ukuba abe yintombi, ndiyavuma, ndide ndicaphuke emva kwe-ultrasound. Kwaye ke ndaye ndabona ukuba hayi, lo mfo umhle. Kwaye ngoku ndiyacinga, ukuba uThixo unika umntwana wesithathu, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba yayinguMntwana wesithathu. Kodwa umama waxelela ukuba, wayefunda ukuba uza kuba nentombazana, wayecaphukile ngenxa yokuba engayiqondi indlela yokuziphatha ngayo nabo. Kwaye ngoku uthi: "Andazi ukuba ubomi bam bekwenzeke njani ngaphandle kwakho." Ngelixa ndingayicingi ukuba inxibelelana njani namantombazana, kwaye namakhwenkwe ndiziva ndonwabile kwaye ndiyonwabisa.
- Kwaye iMaxim yathi kule nto? Kubonakala kum ukuba uvela kwi-Fides ethambileyo ...
-Uye wafuna nyhani inkwenkwe yesibini. Asisazi ukuba isini somntwana, kodwa wayeqinisekile ukuba kuya kubakho umntwana.
-Ungafuni ukugcina isondo somntwana ofihlakeleyo kukuzalwa kwakhe?
-Ngaba. Ndicinga ukuba kungcono ukwazi kwangaphambili, kuba ke upheka ngokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo, ayinamsebenzi, eyona nto iphambili kukuba abantwana basempilweni. Kwaye imigqaliselo yayizibuza ukuba ngubani apho. Unoyolo kakhulu ukuba unomzalwana. Ndisandul 'ukumbuza: "UAndryha, kwaye ukuba le ntombazana ibikhona?" "Wahlala phantsi, wathi:" Hayi, siya kuyitshintsha. " (Uhleka.)
Nxiba, Maya; Amacici kunye nomsesane, yonke-tous
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
-Uye wadibana njani noAdeyi Grisch?
"Wayemlindile, wabuza yonke imihla xa sifika." Kwaye kwafika lo mhla ulindelwe, wabaleka waya ezisokisi, wabaleka ekungeneni, wabaleka waya kuqalisa umntwana kwi-Lulell. Emva koko sayihlutha, u-Arryhasha wajonga waza wathi: "Yintoni" encinci ". Uthanda kakhulu, uhlala esiza ku-Griius, emchukumisa ngenxa yempanga, ngasemva kweebhare, wathi: "Ndiyakuthanda." Kwaye iyenza yonke into ngokwazo, ukuba ingabonakalisi into ayiyo umntakwabo. Hayi, uthando olunyanisekileyo olunjalo.
- Ngaba ayinaso ikhwele emntwaneni?
-Nganjalo, kuba ikhwele linokuthi lenzeke emntwaneni kuphela xa kukho ukunqongophala kwengqondo kuyo. Kwaye i-Andryhasha ngoku iyafana kuphela ngenkathalo nengqwalaselo kum, uPopu, uMakhulu, ootat'omkhulu, umakhulu wesibini, nanny. Ngaye lonke ixesha lokudlala, ukuhamba, hamba. Uyabona ke yena notata, behamba kunye, bebukele iifilimu, iikhabhathi, bedlala nam kwi-risha. Ayikho into enjalo yokuba umntwana avakalelwe kukuba ingqalelo iguqulwe kwelinye ilungu losapho. Uhlamba uthando, kodwa kusapho lwethu ngokwahlukileyo kwaye akakwazanga ukuba, sonke singabalandeli babantwana.
"Uthe uthando lwabazali alunakwenziwa, ukwenza i-egos, ngokuchasene noko, uyawondla, inika ukuzithemba ...
"Ewe, ndikhumbula ukuba bendisoloko nditsho ukuba yeyona nto ilungileyo: eyona nto imbi, idlala, edlamkileyo, entle kakhulu ... ndikhumbula zonke izinto ezazithethwa ngazo. "Kwaye silungile kabani? Ngubani omhle kakhulu? " Kwakukho ukuncancisa okungapheliyo, ukudumisa, ukugona.
- kwaye yonke into yayifana neSergey, ikwayinkwenkwe?
"Hayi, akukho mntu wenza umahluko: inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, yonke into ethambileyo nothando bathululela thina sonke. Ke kaloku, e-Andrryha noGrisk. Kubantwana, ulonwabo olunjalo xa luthanda abantu abaninzi.
-Ngaba akukho mntu uxelele umama ukuba naye ukhulule?
-Ngaba. Umama wam unazo zonke iintombi ziyafana, ziqondwe kwiintsana zabo. Kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kuyo yonke indawo esihlala kuyo, abantwana abatshatileyo nabalindelwe ixesha elide. Kubonakala kum ukuba kulo naliphi na intsapho ephumelele kakhulu isondele. Kwaye ukutsho ukuba ungawela okanye ungayibamba ... kubonakala ngathi ipellering yimkhathalo nje kumntwana xa wonke umntu amvumela ukuba i-thedys, kodwa ayinamntu, . Kuyimfuneko ukunyathela, kwaye kungabi zizibonelelo zezinto ezibonakalayo kunye nesiphumo. Unokufuna ukufuna, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uthanda, kuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho abe neentloni ukuba abe nento yokwenza. Ubungqingqwa bothando abuphazamisi, yinkqubo yonke yokukhuliswa.
Nxiba, iblumarine; Muli, stuartart weitzman; Amacici kunye nomsesane, yonke-tous
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
- Kwaye ukhumbula uhlobo oluthile lwabantwana, ukungaziphathi kakuhle, kuba ngaba abazali babembiwe kakhulu, bohlwaywa?
-Yiqinisekile. Kusapho lwethu, uPopu wayesoloko lipolisa elilungileyo, kwaye umama ungqongqo. (Uncumo.) Wayengakwazi ukukhulisa izwi lam kum. Iklasi ukuya kweyesibhozo, andifundanga kakuhle, ndahamba nezifundo, kwezinye izifundo ndaye ndafumana intsebenzo emdaka. Kwaye ngaxa lithile, uMamu wabizwa esikolweni, wathi ayinakuqhubeka, kuyafuneka ukulungisa imeko ethile, kwaye bacebisa ukuba bacinge njani. Wayengathethi kuye ixesha elide, onesibindi, ngokucacileyo, kwakungekho ngqiqweni ukuba afowune wathi: "Ke, intombi yakho imbi ifunda kakubi," ezimbini "apha, zisihluthi" Kwaye bagqiba kwelokuba, kuphela xa kwakungekho nto kuwo onke amanqaku, kwaye umama weza kunkwantya, kuba nephupha elingazange lawazi umoya oko kwenzekayo.
-Kuthini, idayari yomama ayizange ibukele?
-Ungalizidenge, idayari yam yayilungile, ngokwemibono yam. Yonke into efunwayo ichazwe, engafuneki-icinyiwe. (Ukuhleka.) Kwaye umama wacaphuka kakhulu kwaye wandikhwaza kakhulu, kodwa akazange akhwaze nje, wazama ukufikelela kwingqondo yam. Ndamcacisela ukuba kufuneka ugqibezele esikolweni, kungenjalo ndiza kuba sisidenge, ungafundanga kwaye ungabi ngumsebenzi olungileyo wokukhusela ubomi obucekeceke. Yathi: "Kubonakala ngathi ukuba ndiphikisane nezinto ezingaqhelekanga, kodwa eneneni kunjalo! Ekugqibeleni, cinga ukuba luhlobo luni lweendle- uyintombazana evela kuhlonitshwayo kwiSixeko sosapho, kodwa uziphatha njengomntwana ongakhathaliyo owabetha izandla. Siyakuthanda kakhulu, sibeka kakhulu kuwe. Masizame ukukuqonda ukuba yintoni enzima kuwe, andithandi, singabatsalela umnxeba, kodwa kufuneka usikhuphele, hayi kuthi, kodwa ngokwakho. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ingqondo kwaye ucinge ngekamva lakho. " Ndisebenze kakhulu kum, ndiyakhumbula ukuba ndakhwaza nditsho: "Owu, Thixo! Ndiyahlazisa usapho lwam! Kwaye uTata wandikhusela ndathi: "Akukho nto imbiyo, intombazana inokuba sisidenge, ngokubalulekileyo, ukuba ilungile," kwaye uMisha, uthetha ngantoni ?! Ngubani odingayo uya kuba sisidenge? " Ukususela ngoku, wandithatha ngenxa yokuba ndingavumi konke kwaphela kude kube sekupheleni kwebanga leshumi elinanye. Ndanikwa umsebenzi onjalo wokuba emva kwesikolo ndaba nomqeqeshi, ndatya, ndatya, ndeza elesithathu, ndaye ndalala phantsi. Ngokubanzi, ukhuselwe ukuze iiklasi ezintathu ndiphumelele esikolweni ngaphandle kweTurk neJamani zifundile phantse iminyaka emine imfezeko, nangona yayingowona mxholo uphakamileyo. Ndaqesha umfundisi opholileyo kakhulu, kwaye ngoku ndicela nje olu lwimi. Kwaye utitshala esikolweni sam wayemangalisa - Liubov Alexandrovna Ravikovich, sixhasa ubudlelwane kude kube ngoku. Ukuba ndibuzwa ngoku ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto yayiyintanda esikolweni, ndingatsho ukuba isiJamani. Ndaya eJamani ngokutshintshiselana kabini, eMunich, ndithetha ngokupheleleyo ngesiJamani. Xa ndaziva ngathi, bendingenaso esoziyatha, ke oko kwakuvuyela, ukuba wakuva umbono wokufunda waza waqala ukufunda kakuhle. Kuba umama unombulelo ongazenzisiyo.
- kwaye ngo-Andrews akazange afake i-rigor?
-Ndingayicingi imeko endiya kuyiqokelela kuyo yonke i-fist (ndizolile kakhulu, kwaye ndiziphathe kakhulu nzima) kwaye ndiqale kakhulu ngomntwana Thetha. Kodwa ukuba iyimfuneko, kuya kufuneka, kuba ikwayimpawu lothando, eyayishukuma umama. Ngapha koko, wayenokuthi: "Phila, njengoko ufuna, ezi ziingxaki zakho."
- Kunzima ukucinga ukuba uqhekezwe, izifundo ezihambayo ...
Ewe, yayiyinto nje enjalo. Yile nto ngoku ndiyinto eyoyikisayo emfezekweni, ndinesifo sobuvulindlela, ndilinqaku elinje ebomini. Kodwa kwiZiko lemidlalo yeqonga, zonke ezo ndlela zaye zahamba, ezazinzima kum, kwaye ndisele ndibandakanyeke kwento endiyithanda ngayo. Iziko liphumelele ngediploma ebomvu, yaziva ikhulu leepesenti zokufunda. Kwaye ngoku ndishiyekile, ndiyakuthanda ukuphulaphula ezinye iintetho, into ekufuneka uyifunde, fumana ...
-Ungazithandi iingxabano. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye kwizinto ezininzi ongabasebenzi. Idityaniswa njani?
Kwimeko nganye, yonke into iyenzeka. Ukuba ukhubekiwe ndim, ndisisandla phezu kwaso. Andithandi xa bethuka abanye, bekhubekisa abantwana okanye abantu abadala. Ndingaqala ukungqubana nomntu esitratweni. Ndikhumbula indlela endizizisela ngayo i-rustle kwisikhululo xa umntu onxilayo waqala ukuphatha rhabaxa kwintombazana. I-Polvokyelaya yaphakamisa iindlebe zakhe, yaya emapoliseni, eyayimi ecaleni, kodwa kwanaliso alikhange lijonge apho. Ngokubanzi, kwakungekho kwanele, uyagula. Xa ndibona ukungabikho kokusesikweni kwabanye, kuyandicaphukisa, nditsho nokutsha. Kwaye andikho kakhulu kwaye ndicaphukisiwe ndim.
-Ngaba umama wakho ebengatsho krwade ebusweni?
-UMama-oku kunjalo, nayo. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, ndiza kuphakamisa okuthile kolu ngcelele lwamanqaku athi: "Yithabathe ngembeko ukunyanga ...", kuba umsindo wam uhlala uthe cwaka. Nangona ndingazi, kwaye mhlawumbi ngendikrwitshiwe kwamehlo ...
-Uphatha njani na kwabanye?
- yile nto ndiyithiyileyo. Xa bandibuza: "Yintoni eyona nto uyithandayo?" -Ndiphendula nje ukuba ukungaphenduli, ukungakhathali, ukungena kwi-akhawunti kunye nesimo sengqondo sokungakhathali sisebenze. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba unguJenatito, ongendawo, okanye umlindi osula iiglasi, okanye umntu ohlala kwizikhundla eziphezulu, andikwazi ukuyinyamezela.
Isuti, iBolorois; umnqwazi, i-migenscene; Muli, stuartart weitzman; Amacici kunye nentamo, yonke - i-tus
Ifoto: UAlina Pigeon; Umncedisi wokukhanya: Anna Kaganovich
-Ukuba umntu osondeleyo uhlala emva kwexesha, akazifezekisi izithembiso?
"Ndinomsindo nje - kwaye bonke, kodwa, ndiyabulela kuThixo, kwintsapho yethu sonke sinayo yonke into enoxanduva." Ngokubhekisele kubahlobo abancinci ... Bakho abantu abasemva kwexesha, kundikhupha, kodwa mandenze ntoni? Ndiza kubiza kancinci kwaye ndithole. (Uncumo.) Xa ndisisizathu sokufumana, ngokwam, ndingonwabanga, ndineentloni, ndiyakhala, ndiyaxolisa.
-Ngoko, ngokomgaqo, ukukhululeka kakhulu kunye nokuzikhethela kubudlelwane babantu, kubandakanya nendoda kunye nebhinqa ...
- Ngokubanzi, "ukukhanya" kunye "nenkululeko" - amagama amahle kakhulu. Akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi kunobudlelwane obulula apho kukho inkululeko ethile. Kodwa ndikwixabiso lentsapho lemveli. Kwaye ngokubanzi, kulo naluphi na ulwalamano olusondeleyo, kufuneka ukwazi ukulinda, ukunyamekelela, ukuxolela, yibani nobubele, ukuphendula, zikhathalele oko sinako. Kuyimfuneko ukuba banxibelelane ngokunzulu kwaye bathande ngakumbi, kuba kulula kakhulu ukulahleka kwaye kutshabalalise, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuyigcina.
-Uziva njani ngomtshato waseburhulumenteni?
Ndiyavuya ukuqonda ukuba siyintsapho yonke le nto, ndingumfazi, ukuba ndinomyeni, sinabantwana. Kwaye emnye umntu ayisosiseko, kodwa kwangaxeshanye abantu bahlala kunye ixesha elide kwaye bethanda, kwenzeka, kwaye ubomi babo bonke. Kuyimfuneko ukwenza into entle zombini.
"Kubonakala kum ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni iimvakalelo zokuncoma kwaye uziqhayise ngothando, kwaye ndiyayiva ngawo onke amaMaxim ...
Ewe kunjalo, le nto ibalulekile! Ngokoluvo lwam, awungomfazi onesilumko okanye hayi indoda enobulumko, ukuba awuyithandi isiqingatha sakho sesibini. (Uncumo.)