Wonke umzali uyayazi indlela ekunzima ngayo ukuluthala umntwana kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ngakumbi ukuba ivela ekuseni xa kufuneka udibane ngokukhawuleza kwaye uye kwishishini. Kwimeko enjalo, oomama abaninzi baphulukana nolawulo, ngenxa yoko - usuku olwenziweyo ukusuka ekuseni. Ewe, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa akunakwenzeka ukufundisa umntwana ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ahlole umlomo womlomo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye akukho nto inzima, eyona nto iphambili, unyamezelo kunye nokulandelelana kwakho.
Umonde, Umonde kunye nomonde kwakhona
Mhlawumbi oyena mgangatho umzali obalulekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kokunyamezela kunye nenkululeko, oko akuthethi ukuba ungayivumela imeko kwi-samonek, ivumela umntwana ukuba anyamekele amazinyo akho: Nokuba umntwana akanamali, nokuba umntwana akanamali. Ngexesha uza kuphumeza eyakho ukuba uqhubeka kwaye uzolile.
Fumana uthethathethwano lwengcali
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Akukho magazini
Uninzi lwabazali abasuka kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana zenza impazamo enye - ukucocwa nganye yamazinyo, umntwana ufumana oko akufunayo. Kuba umntwana akafanelanga ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ivele isiko lemihla ngemihla. Umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukucocwa kwamazinyo ayisiyonkqubo engathandekiyo onokuthi ufumane i-ice cream yakho oyithandayo, kunye nenkqubo eqhelekileyo, kubandakanya umntwana, ungadluli kakuhle ukucocwa kwamazinyo nokutsala umntwana kwigumbi lokuhlambela kunye nawe.
Fumana uthethathethwano lwengcali
Ukuba ebuntwaneni bethu iphulo lokufumana ugqirha wamazinyo yayiyinto efana nesohlwayo esibi, ke namhlanje i-ofisi yamazinyo ingakukhuthazi ukoyikeka okunjalo ngaphambili. Ngotyelelo olulandelayo logqirha wamazinyo, cela ugqirha ukuba akucebise kwaye umntwana wakho, indlela yokukhathalela amazinyo akho: Ungayicoca ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni kwaye kuya kwenzeka njani ukuba Ungayihoyi ibrashi ngepasta.
Ungalibali ukudumisa umntwana
Ungaza nasiphi na isiko emva kokuba umntwana ehambise amazinyo ayo njengoko kufanele. Eyona nto iphambili, akukho amabhaso, njengoko sitshilo, kodwa kusafuneka sidumise ukufumana umntwana. Masithi unokwenza into njengodonga lwekhaya, oya kubhiyozela ngalo lonke ixesha lokucoca amazinyo ekuqaleni: unokuqokelela umzobo wezincamatheki, ukongeza icandelo elitsha emva kokugqiba le nkqubo. Abantwana, njengomthetho, bavuyela inyathelo elinjalo kamama.