Umzali ngamnye ujongene nemeko xa umntwana kufuneka enqabile. Kwaye siyayenza ngokungagungqiyo, kuba asifuni kumcaphukisa umntwana wakho. Sazibuza ukuba inokwenzeka ukuba inokwenzeka ukuze ingavumi ukuze ingavumi imvakalelo yomntwana kwaye ke singazikhathazi, nokuba senze kakuhle. Okulandelayo, siza kuqwalasela iindlela ezininzi zokwala ngaphandle kwengozi kwi-psyfu yomzali nomntwana.
Chaza ukwala kwethu kubantwana
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Sukuthetha rhoqo
Ngaba ubusazi ukuba ngenguqulelo engapheliyo, amazwi ethu aneliswe ngumntwana? Abantwana baqhelekile kwinto abayala ukuba baqalise ukungazihoyi iintshaba zakho. Zama ukwenza indalo esingqongileyo ukuze umntwana akweva ukusilela kangangoko kunokwenzeka, umzekelo, asuse izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe, kwaye awuzange ubambe kuyo yonke indawo. Enye indlela elungileyo kukutshintsha imilo engalunganga. Endaweni yokuthetha: "Musa ukujija ikati yomsila!" Kungcono undixelele: "Phosa ikati, uya kuyithanda."
Yima ngokuqinileyo
Ukuba uyala ukuthenga umatshini wosana, kwaye ngengomso inikelwe phantsi koxinzelelo lwayo kwaye wathenga - indlela elungileyo eya kuba umntwana uya kuphinda aziphathe zonke izithintelo zakho.
Yenza ukuba usapho lwakho lube nemithetho ethile engakwazi ukuphazamiseka okanye abantwana okanye abantu abadala: Ke ukufundisa umntwana kwinto yokuba izithintelo zifuna ukugcina ucwangco, hayi kuba ufuna kakhulu. Umzekelo, unokuseta iodolo: Kukho kuphela ekhitshini etafileni, kwaye hayi kwigumbi lokuhlala phambi kweTV. Qaphela ukuba wena kufuneka uthobele yonke imigaqo ebekiweyo.
Misela imigaqo yosapho lonke iya kulandela
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Thetha ukuze umntwana aqonde
"Hayi" kumntwana akathethi nto. Kuya kufuneka uchaze ukuba kutheni ungenakwenzeni into oyithandayo, kwaye ungayilibali ithoni - ufanelekile ukuba uyathandabuza ukuba uthethe.
Rhoqo badumisa abantwana
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Mdumise umntwana rhoqo
Xa umntwana ezahlulahlula kwicala elifanelekileyo, onke amdumise, akaphulukani nethuba elinjalo. Kufuneka aqonde ukuba indlela yokuziphatha elungileyo ivuselela abazali bakhe. Kukwabalulekile ukuba yonke intsapho ithobele izithintelo ezisetyenzisiweyo, ezizezile uMama, kwaye uTata kufuneka abe mnye. Akufuneki kubekho nto injalo umama, kwaye ukudumisa, umntwana uyakuqonda okukhawuleza, kwaye uya kuqala ukuba ngabaxhasi abazali.
Ngokubanzi, zama okungakumbi ukudumisa kunokuba uye kuthintele, kwaye oku kuphephe iimeko zengxabano kwaye ucacisele umntwana kwangoko ukuba kungabikho nto ifunekayo ubudlelwane nehlabathi elingaphandle.