Kubonakala ngathi uya kuba ulungile ukwazi ukunxibelelana nabahlobo bakho abadala, kodwa sele ungaziva uziva uyonwabisa kunye nemvakalelo yokuba ungathetha naye nasiphi na isihloko. Kungumntu oza kutshintsha, kwaye kunye nendoda ngokwakhe itshintsha kunye nendawo okuhlala kuyo, akukho nto imbi. Nokuba ngamaxesha esikolo, umntu wayeliqabane lakho elithembekileyo, akukho mfuneko yokuba oyike ukoyikeka ukuba ngoku ungoyena mntu ukhwazayo kwizilangazelelo zabo ezingashukumiyo.
Senze ukhetho lweempawu eziphambili ekufuneka ulutshintshe isangqa sonxibelelwano.
Nditsho nomhlobo wobuntwana unokuzisa
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Unxibelelwano lwenzeka kwinyathelo lakho
Kwinkampani nganye kukho umntu okwiPubup, kwaye, ukuba unjalo, ucinga ngokuqinileyo, nokuba ukulungele ukunyamezela "ukulungiselela amandla". Umhlobo onihloniphayo ngokwenene kwaye uyayixabisa ayisayi kuze ikubeke kwimeko oya kuhlala wedwa ngengxaki yakho.
Akufuneki kubekho into enjalo ukuba wonke umntu onwabe, kwaye ujongene nemiphumo. Ekugqibeleni, olo nxibelelwano luza kukhokelela kwisiphoso esifihliweyo, esiya kujika sibe sesikweni. Ngaba kufuneka ndizise oku?
Awunakho ukuxhomekeka kumhlobo
Masithi uvumile ukudibana kwaye uye kwiimuvi. Uza kwindawo emiselweyo, kude kube seshoni imizuzu engama-20, kwaye yonke into ayikho. Uqala ukukhathazeka, ukubiza, kwaye akaphenduli. Ewe kunjalo, ifilimu oya kuyidlulisela ngokukhuselekileyo, uyagoduka ngomsindo kumhlobo, kwaye kuyavela ukuba usemotweni omnye umhlobo, okulilela ngokupheleleyo. Ewe kunjalo, asithathela ingqalelo iimeko ezinzulu xa umntu engakwazanga ukuza kwisizathu esihle, kodwa kwezinye iimeko kuya kuba ngcono ukuba wena nomhlobo wakho uza kuchitha ixesha elahlukileyo nakwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Ndikunye nabahlobo onokuthetha nantoni na
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Umdla wakho awungqinelani
Umntu ngamnye uneemfuno zakhe kangangokuba watyalela ixesha, nangona kunjalo abantu beza ngapha, abachasene nezinto zakho zokuzonwabisa, ngokugqogqa amabali akho malunga nommiselo wakho wexesha elizayo ukuba,
Akufuneki uncame izinto onomdla kuzo ukuba omnye umntu akafuni kubukhali. Kutheni usebenzisa ixesha lomntu ongakuhloniphi nina.
Umhlobo wakho akanamdla ebomini bakho
Ubuhlobo busekwe kwelona candelo lokonwaba ngokweemvakalelo, ngoko abahlobo bahlulelehlulwa ngamava abo, ngethemba lokufumana inkxaso evela kumhlobo. Vumelani, ngelishwa xa ukhawuleza uye entlanganisweni ukuze uxelele imangalisayo (yenu) iindaba ezilungileyo, kwaye umhlobo wakho ujonga ukhangele xa ugqiba kwentetho yakho.
Ukuba awukwazi ukwabelana ngamava akho kunye novuyo kunye nalo mntu, mhlawumbi akanguye wonke umntu wakho?
Ukuba uhlala usenza inkampani, ekuhambeni kwexesha uya kuqala ukuba yingqumbo
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Umhlobo uyala ukukuxhasa
Nasiphi na isithembiso sethu sisekumanqanaba eengcinga ezifuna ukuxhasa abantu ababalulekileyo kuthi. Usenokuba uxhaka imibono ngokubanzi kunye nomhlobo wakho esikolweni kunye nomhlobo wakho, bakha izicwangciso, kodwa ngoku, baba ngabantu abadala, iingcinga zakho azifumani mpendulo kumntu othe wakuthembisa ukuba uza kukugcina kuyo yonke into. Kunzima ukuzitshintsha, kwaye omnye umntu kwaye uzame ukungazami. Ukuba umntu ubiza kakhulu kuwe, chaza isangqa kwezihloko ozithandayo sobabini oya kuba nokulungele ukunxibelelana, kungenjalo uya kwaphula ubudlelwane.
Ewe kona, akukho sidingo sokwenza ubuhlobo bamaqhinga, eyona nto iphambili kuwe, kwaye umhlobo wakho ukhululekile kwinkampani eqhelekileyo.