Umntwana wokuqala uhlala eluvavanyo lwabazali abancinci: Ayicacanga indlela yokukhathalela, kwaye imvakalelo yokungaqiniseki ayishiyi, nokuba izihlobo ziyakunceda. Ngomntwana wesibini, kulula kakhulu (ukuxhomekeka ekubeni umahluko phakathi kwabantwana ubuncinci unyaka). Umama omncinci sele edlulile "umlilo namanzi", kwaye ke, kwaye ke, malunga nelungu losapho elitsha, sele liye lesibini, hayi kakhulu ngokwengqondo.
Sigqibe kwelokuba sihlanganise iimpazamo eziphambili zoomama abancinci abawenzayo ngomntwana wokuqala, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo aziphindi okwesibini. Masiqalise.
Sele xa ukhulelwe, ibhinqa liqala "indlwane"
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Ukuba kwaye uthenga izinto, emva koko uphela
Njengommiselo, umfazi kwanaxa ukhulelwe ngokuqatha "vile indlwane": Ziphanga abantwana, ukuthenga izinto zabantwana, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uqiniseke. Kuyavela le nto ngexesha lokuzalwa, umntwana sele eneseti ezintlanu ukuya kwezintandathu izinto ezivela kwivenkile yabantwana abagqibeleleyo-kakuhle, nangona kunjalo, musa ukuthatha isiseko semmus!
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iigusha zithenga ezona zilungileyo kwaye zintsha kumntwana ziphawulwa ngunina kunye namazibulo. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwesibini, eli bhinqa liqala ukuqondeka ngokucacileyo ukuba uninzi lwakhe lwafunyanwa ngaphambili kwakungekho luncedo, kwaye inxalenye yezinto inokuthathwa kwintombazana kunye nomntwana.
Bonke abantwana bahlukile
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Ukugqwetha okungapheliyo kwabanye abazali
Abo bantu bangabakho nje, nangona kunjalo, oomama "babuyile" ngokudelela abanye abazali abakhalaza malunga nokunqongophala komntwana ongenantlonelo. Abazali abangenamava ngokukhawuleza basasela umama onjalo ngesihloko esithi "Oyena mntu ubi kakhulu unyaka", ke, umntwana akazange abekho ngaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, kwakamsinya nje xa uvele uvele umntwana wesibini, ongayi kuzola, njengamazibulo akho, uyaqonda ukuba baphosakele kakhulu.
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I-Maxifalism ayikho kuphela kubazali abakwishumi elivisayo, kodwa nakubazali abancinci nomntu kuphela. Khumbula indlela owawungumzali okokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo izalamane zakho zihlala ziva amabinzana akhoyo: Ngendingaze ndinike umntwana iilekese, andizange ndifunge ndibukele umabonwakude, ngekhe nditshintshe ngayo yonke into esemoyeni enjalo. Uqhelekile? Siqinisekile ukuba ewe.
Ungaze ugxeke abanye abazali, kuba awuyazi izinto ezithile zobomi babo
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Cinga ngomntwana wakho okhethekileyo
Ngokutsho kwezakhono, umama ubonakala ngathi ukuba umntwana wakhe uye kwiiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kweVasi ebaleni, yonke into iyathetha ngeempawu zomntwana wakhe. Kodwa akufuneki ukuba ubaleke uye kwisiza ukuya kwabanye oomama kwaye uzame ukuba liziko lokunikela ingqalelo, ekutsala umdla kumsitho obalulekileyo kuwe. Khumbula ukuba kamsinya nje ukuba ube nomntwana ongaphezulu kwesinye, uyakuqonda ukuba nganye yazo inendlela yalo yophuhliso, kwaye umntwana wakho wesibini okanye wesibini unokuya kamva kwintendelezo, kodwa ayizukuthetha malunga nenye Abantwana bahlukile.
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Iitekhnoloji zale mihla ziququzelele ubomi beemazi zee-mammies ezincinci: ngoku ayisafuneki ukuba isebenze kwikhemisi ukuba ifunde ngobukho bamayeza-kungakwazi ukubaleka. Oku kuyasebenza nakwizinto ozinika nje endlwini. Nangona kunjalo, abazali abaninzi bakhula ngokoqobo injini yokukhangela, kubonakala ngathi ukuba le yindawo abaya kuyifumana kuyo yonke imibuzo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, kungekudala uyakuqonda ukuba i-Intanethi ayisiyondawo ibalaseleyo yokufumana iimpendulo ezinzulu kwimibuzo, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kwimpilo yomntwana.
Ngayiphi na imeko, akukho mntu uzalwe ngumzali ofanelekileyo: Oomama bethu kunye noTata nabo baqala ngento, kwaye ufumana amava, ke kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba uhlangabezane nomntwana ngamnye olandelayo.