Akukho mntu uthandayo xa ubuchule bakhe kunye nembonakalo buthelekiswa nangabasemzini. Ngesi sizathu, iingxabano zihlala zenzeka kwiintsapho: Amadoda agqiba kwelokuba umfazi wabo ufanele ukuba mbi kakhulu, kodwa nangakumbi nakumama obhetele. Ichaza ukuba kutheni le nto amaqabane enjenjalo.
Umnqweno wokunikela ingqalelo kuwe
Umama ngumntu wokuqala esizaziyo, ozelwe. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luzama ukuhlawula abantwana ukuya kuthi ga kwixesha lasimahla, lihlala libaleka ngokwabo. Ngokukodwa, oomama abakhulisa abantwana bodwa bathambekele ekuzincama. Ukuqhela ukuba umama ubonelela ngayo yonke into - ukusuka ekutyeni kwaye ngaphambi kwendleko zepokotho-umntu unomdla wokulindela indlela yokuziphatha kwesiqingatha sesibini. Ewe, ukuba uthelekisa uzama ukutsala ingqalelo yakho kwaye ufuna ngokunyaniseka ukunika iingcebiso ukuba udale njani iimeko ezikhululekileyo kuyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokufuthi ekuthelekisa i-insentantatism, ebanzi iphazamisa ekwakheni ubudlelwane bexesha elide.
Umama uhlala kwindoda yendoda
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Iinkumbulo zobuntwana
I-Psychologlogy yenzelwe ukwenzela ukuba umfanekiso womntu othile unxulunyaniswa neempawu ezi-3-4. Ke ingqondo kulula ukuyichonga izinto ezisondela kumgama ongakhuselekanga kwaye inike uphawu lwengozi. Umama kwinkoliso ekhoyo inxulunyaniswa nothando, ukhathalelo, ulwazelelelo kunye nokusebenza nzima. Ngokwenyani, umntu ngamnye akazange enze kuphela, kodwa neempawu ezimbi. Amadoda akafane athelekise uMama kwimiphefumlo, ngenxa yoko kwinkumbulo yabo kwiminyaka edlulileyo, umfanekiso ogqibeleleyo kamama uxhaswa. Rhoqo iba yingxaki xa umntu omtsha ebandakanyiwe kusapho, ebona abalinganiswa bamalungu ayo-ukusuka apha kuqalisa ukungqubana.
Uxinzelelo lokuziphatha
Asingabo bonke abazali abakhulisa umntwana njengomntu amalungelo alinganayo kunye namathuba. Ukuba le ntsapho ilawula iMatriaarchate kwaye umama ilawula yonke imicimbi- ukuba iyokuthenga ngaphambi kokwenza imali, emva koko umntwana uqhela ukuyithatha igunya. Xa kuthelekiswa nenqanaba likamama, indawo yayo iyayeka ukuba nzima. Xa umntu onjalo esiba mdala kwaye eqala ubudlelwane nabantu besini esahlukileyo, iingcinga zakhe azisasazwanga kuphela ukuba zezothando kuphela, kodwa zikwavavanya ukuvumelana kwentanda kanina.
Umama kamama
Kwimeko ejongene netyala, ukuthelekisa kunye nonina kuchazwa kukuphakama kwenjongo yayo. Umzekelo, uMama wakwazi ukwakha umsebenzi, ukufundisa abantwana, dlala imidlalo kwaye ulungiselele ngokugqibeleleyo. Kwangelo xesha, gcina indlela yokuphila yabathengi kwaye ungafuni ukukhula. Kule meko, sinamabhunga amabini - Zama ukuthatha ezona zinto zibalaseleyo zomthetho kamama okanye ucacisele umyeni wakhe ukuba ungumntu owahlukileyo kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba ufane nabanye.
Ungafungi, kwaye uthathe umzekelo kunye nomkhwekazi wam
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