I-Dysmorphophophophophophophong yengqondo xa umntu engamkeli inkangeleko yakhe kwaye uhlala ezama ukuyitshintsha. Umzekelo, ufuna ukufaka i-veneers ukuba uncumo olufanelekileyo lwekhephu, nangona une-enamel eqaqambileyo, okanye ulungele ukuya kutyando lweplastiki ukuze atshintshe imilo yempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bezempilo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bempumlo ngaphandle kobungqina bemnyango. Iingcali zengqondo zichaza ukuba kutheni umnqweno wotshintsho unokuzisa ukophula umthetho.
Zonke iingxaki zivela ebuntwaneni
Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba yonke imisindo yabantwana iqokelele kwi-engazi nto kwaye ibonakaliswe kwi-psyche yomntu omdala. Ukuba uhlala ugxotha iimpazamo zenkangeleko, kodwa abazali khange bazame ukuxhasa kwaye banikele ingqalelo kwiingenelo zakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngexesha, wawunobunzima bokungaphantsi. Ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nokungakhathali ngokwazo kuyaphazamisa ukuphambuka kwengqondo. Umzekelo, kusenokubonakala ngathi abo bakujikelezile kwaye bakuhleke, badlula ngendlela bejonga ukugwetywa, kwaye bavale ukuba baxoke ngobuqhetseba. Kule meko, kufanelekile ukuyiqonda ukuba ingxaki ilele ngokunzulu-ayisonjululwa ngeplastiki kunye neenkqubo, kufuneka usebenze ne-psychologist.
Ukucaphuka kwabantwana akudlulanga
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Ukwaluphala ayisiyo Yovuyo
Enye ingozi isibonisi, ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, kukwandisa ukwamkela inyani yokwaluphala. Jonga ngeenxa zonke: Iinkwenkwezi azishiyi kwikhabhathi ye-Ontle, abafazi bazama ukufihla ubudala, kunye nabantu abancinci bacinga ukuba baya kuhlala bemncinci. Imithombo yeendaba kunye nemveliso ivuselela uloyiko. Cinga ukuba ulibonile ukuba ulibonile intengiso malunga nesixhobo esenzelwe ukubuyela ulutsha? Ewe, umnqweno wokubonakala ulungile. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka udibane noluvo lokuba kungekudala utshintsho olubonakalayo luya kuvela ebusweni bakho kunye nomzimba. Sukucinga ukuba ungowokubi kwaye umntu othandana nomntu ongenguye! Phila kwaye unandiphe ubomi nokubadala.
Ukusilela kubomi bomntu
Ukuba, ngexesha lokuxabana, iqabane likuxelela: "Zikhethe, ngubani na ofuna wena?" Siyakucebisa ukuba ubaleke kwaoko. Impikiswano yokugqibela kuyo nayiphi na imbambano yinguqu emntwini. Okubi nangakumbi xa esazi malunga nezinto zakho kwaye kuzama ukumisela isigulana. Ziyonwabele nabantu abathi kuqala umphefumlo wakho kunye nomgangatho womlinganiswa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayinamsebenzi ukuba umntu ofanelekileyo onayo, ukuba "dummy" ngaphakathi. Iingcali zengqondo zibiza ngokungapheliyo xa ubudlelwane ayongezi, kodwa ukuhlawula ixesha lokuzibonakalisa. Sebenzisa ukwamkelwa kwesipili Oku kucacisiwe ngolu hlobo: Yonke into engahambelaniyo kwabanye, luphawu loloyiko olufihliweyo. Xa ungalishiyi iqabane elingakuhloniphi, ke awuzihloniphi. Ndikholelwe, ubomi bakho buza kutshintsha bhetele, nje ukuba niyibone le nto kwaye nisebenzele ngokwakho.
Zitshintshe ulonwabo, kwaye ungaphumi uloyiko
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I-Prosociage-i-dysmophilics efanayo
Xa ufunda amabali abantu abangayithobeliyo, uninzi lwabo bathi bonke ubomi babo bazama ukonakalisa abanye - ukubiza, basebenzise amandla omzimba, banike ingcebiso emzimbeni. Into yokugqibela ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba iBhunga elingathandekiyo yindlela efihlakeleyo yobundlongondlongo. Emva komnqweno obonakalayo wokunceda, ukuba ubangele intombi eyayise emva kokuzalwa kwentombi yentombazana, ufihla ugxininiso kumzobo wakho. Enye into ukuba i-DASHA ngokwayo iya kubuza icebiso lakho - ngenkalipho yabelana ngolwazi lokusondlo noqeqesho olufanelekileyo. Qonda ukuba onke amazwi akho anamandla-musa ukubabaphanga ngokungacingi ngokungacingi.