Njengoko usazi, umfazi uthanda iindlebe, kodwa umntu akanakuhlala engenamdla koko ithandwa ngulo. Kwaye rhoqo kunxibelelwano, asiwulawuli ukuhamba kwamazwi konke konke, ngamanye amaxesha unokwenzakalisa umntu kangangokuba ikhefu liya kuhluka. Namhlanje sagqiba kwelokuba size namabinzana ambalwa esiya kubaleka nangona kunjalo, sinikezele ingqalelo kule nto uza kuyithetha iqabane elixabisekileyo.
"Ndinike, ndiza kujamelana nam"
Sonke siyazifunda izikhalazo zabafazi kwinethiwekhi: "Im ayifuni kwenza nantoni na!", "Amantombazana, angamenza angamenza anyuke kwisofa?" njl. Kwakunjalo? Ukuba impendulo yakho ilungile, akufanele umangaliswe kukuziphatha kwendoda ngokomxholo, "Unamandla, kutheni le nto ndifanele ndizame?"
Amadoda anomdla kakhulu kumazwi akho
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"Uphi ixesha elide?"
Indoda enothando iya kuhlala isabelana nebhinqa lakhe ukuba kwenzeke ntoni ngemini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uvuka kumda kwi-turesmere kwaye ubuze umbuzo: "Ungaphila njani, usuku olusebenzayo luphelile kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ndibaliwe." Uthanda njani? Indoda leyo, ikwindawo entle kakhulu yoMoya, yagqabhuka ngokukhawuleza, nokuba uceba ukukholisa ngokuhlwa, ngamazwi akhe okuzithemba uya kubulala nawuphi na umnqweno. Akukho mfuneko. Kulumkele ulawulo luphela.
"Kulungile, bendithe"
Ibinzana elinje lifanelekile kwintombazana ekwishumi elivisayo kuphela, umfazi okwishumi elivisayo osebenza ngamabinzana, kwaye ngokubhekisele kwindoda yakhe ethandekayo, akukho mntu ungxamayo xa ethatyathwa ngesidenge, Uyasasazwa kwiqabane lakho, ngaloo ndlela isithi: "Ngexesha elizayo, ndimamele ondiqolileyo, kusekho ingcinga kuwe." Ke ngoko baweva amadoda.
"Kulungile, ungqengqeleka njani / hug, ungazi ukuba"
Amadoda akanakuhlala ebonisa iimvakalelo zabo njengoko sifuna, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, baqhele ukugcina yonke into ukusuka ebuntwaneni ngokwabo, kwaye kuphela iqabane elinamava elinokutshintsha indlela yendoda ukuba lithande ubudlelwane. Ukugxekwa rhoqo kobuchule bendoda ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo kuwe kunokubulala umnqweno wokwenza into ngokomgaqo. Nokuba ucinga njalo, ayikufanelekeli ukuyithetha, nokuba yeyiphi na intombi eyayiza kuthi. Ukuba kukho into engakulungelanga, bonisa kwaye ufundise, ngenye indoda ingaya kufunda komnye umntu.