Eyona nto imbi kukuba umntu obhinqileyo angenza emva kokukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa komntwana - ukulibala ukuba ngumfazi. Oomama abaninzi baqala ukukholelwa ukuba inkangeleko yokuhamba kwayo akukho ndawo ngoku, kuba lo mfazi ubonakala enezinto ezininzi ezixhalabisayo ngoku, nokuba avela kwinkxalabo entsha, nokuba ayathandeka ekuseni, avele umntwana, kwaye ngexesha lomfazi ngokupheleleyo kuxhomekeka kwimeko yomntwana. Buza, Ungawugcina njani ubufazi kwiimeko ezinjalo? Ngapha koko, iyinyani, kufanelekile ukufuna kwaye inamathela kuyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukongeza kwisimo somfazi wabasetyhini ngokwakhe, ngelixa sigcina ubufazi, i-Mammia eselula yenza indalo, ezama ukweyisela umfazi ukuba ubomi bayo bonke bumele bunikezwe emntwaneni, ngaba Okwesibini.
Ke manyathelo mani?
Ndixelele "hayi"
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Akukho gwenxa
Wonke umntu, akakaziwali abafazi, uyayazi imeko yabasetyhini engazinzanga ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye okokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Iintsomi sele zimkho. Kucacile: Ilizwe litsha kwaye lingaqondakali, emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kuya kufuneka ulibale ngephupha elinamandla kangangeminyaka eliqela, yonke le nto ayinakuba negalelo kwimvisiswano nangayiphi na indlela. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuvumela amandla amabi ukuze uphume kwaye atyhafise izalamane. Fumana indlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, umzekelo, bhalisa umdaniso, ukuqina okanye i-yoga ubuncinci amaxesha ngamaxesha ngeveki.
Yeka ukuhamba kumyeni wakho
Ewe, kwintsapho yakho yongeza, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba umyeni ngoku ufakelwe ukuba yindoda yakho kwaye abe ngumama wesibini wokupakisha. Ulinde inkathalo yakho kunye nengqondo yakho njengendoda. Ayinyanzelekanga ukuba imamele i-hysteria yakho kwaye inyamezele imbonakalo yakho. Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba izibalo, emva kokuzalwa komntwana, inani elikhulu loqhawulo-mtshato lenzeka, njengommiselo, isiphoso somfazi ongakwaziyo ukudibanisa indima kamama nenkosikazi. Cinga ngalo mzuzu. Nceda uthathe indoda rhoqo, kwaye oku kufuneka ulandele, kwaye ubuninzi bokubonisa umnyani wedwa nendoda yam.
Musa ukuhlala wedwa ngeengcinga zakho, yiya ebantwini
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Ndixelele "ewe" ngeminqweno yakhe
Kubalulekile ukuba ungafani nendoda yakhe kuphela, kodwa nawe, njengoko uzithemba kwakho buxhomekeke, ke, abanye abantu baqala ukukuqonda ngokwahlukileyo.
Fumana iiyure ezimbalwa ngeveki ukuya kwivenkile enentombi okanye ibhalile kwi-salon malunga nokuphumla kokuphumla okanye ngenkqubo yokushiya.
Ilibale malunga ne-t-shirts yoluliweyo kunye neendawo zokuhlambela ezimbi! Hlala umfazi kuyo nayiphi na imeko.
Isondo emva kokuzalwa komntwana ikhona
Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka kubekho ixesha ngaphambi kokuba ubuye kwiimpuku, kodwa ungaqiniseki, kungenjalo umyeni uya kuqala "ukhathazeke." Eyona nto iphambili ekuqaleni.
Kuwo onke amaxesha, awukwenzi mkhulu kakhulu kwindoda yakho, kuba akukho nto imbi kunomfazi ongonelisekanga ochitha abanye.
Chitha ixesha nomyeni wakho
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Sukuhlala ekhaya
Ummiselo awusosigwebo. Nje ukuba silale njengoMama, musa ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye siqale ukuba singene kubantu abanomntwana, masiqale ukuba sibe ziindawo zokudlala, apho kukho iindawo zokudlala, apho kukhona nani.
Ukongeza, ngelixa uhleli nomntwana, unokwenza izinto eziphambili ngokuba ziphambili, umzekelo, ukufumana ilungelo lokufunda iilwimi zasemzini, yenza ibhlog. Ungaphoswa lithuba lokufunda into entsha, kuba umntu obhinqileyo onobuchule ungumfazi onomdla.