Xa abazali benyanzela indlela yabo emntwaneni, bezama ukubanika amaphupha angafakwanga okanye bakhusele kwiimpazamo, benza inkonzo yebhere. Ndikholelwe, ndide ndineminyaka eli-16 ukuya kweli-16 ubudala, umntwana wakho sele enento eyaneleyo enokuthatha uxanduva ngezigqibo ezenziweyo. Indima yomzali ekukhetheni umsebenzi kukunika ingcebiso nenkxaso engathandekiyo kuyo nayiphi na into eyenziweyo. Sindixelela ukuba kuya kukunceda unike izindululo.
Thatha ingqalelo i-hobby
Jonga kunokuba umntwana uthanda ukuyenza. Mhlawumbi wapeyinta bonke ebuntwaneni okanye waya kwisangqa segcisa? Umgangatho womlinganiswa kunye nemikhwa yenziwa kwasebuntwaneni, ke yona i-hobby ichaphazela ngokuthe ngqo umntu. I-chess iphuhlisa indlela yokucinga esengqiqweni kunye nokunyamezela, ukudanisa - izakhono zokunxibelelana kunye nokukwazi ukuba nethemba kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukucula-ukuhambisa ngokwakho. Hlala kunye nomntwana kwaye ubhale phantsi onke amacala afanelekileyo nawongangabi kubuntu bakhe ephepheni, aze emva koko acinge ukuba baningqinelani.
Izinto zokuzonwabisa ziya kuthi ngaphezu kweminqweno engenangqondo
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Ukuhlakulela iimvavanyo zesikhokelo soMsebenzi
Ukunceda abantwana benze isigqibo malunga nobuchule bexesha elizayo, oochwephesha basengqondweni yesikolo bachitha iimvavanyo ezikhethekileyo. Ngexesha labo, kukho izigqibo malunga nohlobo lomlinganiswa, inqanaba lobukrelekrele, ikakhulu liphuhliswe yi-hemisphere yengqondo kunye nokuthanda umntu. Ngokweziphumo zovavanyo, ugqirha wezengqondo wenza izindululo kwisidanga malunga nokuba yeyiphi na imisebenzi enokuthi yenziwe njengengcali. Ukuba izifundo eziqeqeshiweyo zesikhokelo azibanjwanga esikolweni, kufuneka zibhaliswe uvavanyo eyunivesithi okanye kwiziko loqeqesho oluqhuhlisayo-kukho ootitshala ukuba bahlalutye i-psyche yomntwana.
Nika ingqalelo kwinkqubo
Ukulandela ukwakhiwa okuqinisekileyo kwenzululwazi yezopolitiko okanye ugqirha, awunakubona ngokucacileyo. Umzekelo, lingakanani ixesha umntwana wakho echitha kwimidlalo yekhompyuter okanye indlela yokulungiselela iqela elikhulu labahlobo. Ngeli xesha, oochwephesha bezengqondo baqinisekile ukuba owona msebenzi ubalaseleyo ngulowo uhambelana nendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi. Nikela ingqalelo kwimisebenzi yanamhlanje-Ingcali ye-SMM, uMququzeleli, umququzeleli womsitho, umqeqeshi kunye nabanye. Rhoqo banokuzisa umvuzo oninzi kunomsebenzi osemgangathweni wezoqoqosho okanye i-Akhawuntingi. Thetha nabahlobo bomntwana, ootitshala bakhe kunye nezihlobo zabo ezisondeleyo: Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye kubo wambona ezinye zeempawu ezaziza kudibanisa nesigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Qaphela ukuba uyayenza yonke imihla
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Umxube owodwa wobugcisa
Ukuba indlalifa yakho iyahlanya kumgubo wokukhetha phakathi kwendawo ezimbini, zibonisa ukuba ziqalise zombini. Zimbini iindlela zokhetho apha: Ukuqeshwa kwimfundo nganye okhethekileyo kunye nokukhetha kuphela ukhetho, okanye ukudibanisa umqadi. Umzekelo, umntwana ufuna ukuba yintatheli kunye nenkqubo ngexesha elinye. Kuyavakala ukuba uye kufunda ukuba le nkqubo ixhase ilungu lobuchwephesha, kodwa ngokuhambelana nokuziqhelanisa nokubhala amanqaku. Ukudibanisa ubugcisa obubini, umntu uba yingcali yeprofayili emxinwa kwaye uhamba ecaleni kwendlela ethe tyaba yokuphuhliswa komsebenzi. Le yinto engathethekiyo yekamva, eya kusebenza esandleni sakho.