Vumelani, ukuhamba kugqirha wamazinyo kwaneminyaka yobudala, nto leyo, ukuba uthethe abantwana abatyelele kwiKhabhinethi ngeBramachina baguqukela kumlenze wobusuku bokwenyani. Kule nto kubalulekile ukulungiselela umzali kunye nomntwana, nangona abaninzi bekuphepha ngalo mzuzu, ngaloo ndlela baphule impikiswano. Ungayenza njani le mini ukuba ayingaqhelekanga, ubuncinci ke ungaphantsi komntwana wengqondo emtshatweni? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Khetha ingcali
Nje ukuba ucinga malunga novavanyo olucwangcisiweyo losana, sifikelela kulo mbandela ngokukhawuleza: yikhuphe ngekliniki, kodwa yingcali. Buza, mhlawumbi umntu obaziyo uya kuba nakho ukwenzela ukuba abe nengcali oza kuchitha zonke iinkqubo ziphantse zazisongelelwa ukuba umntwana wakho. Ukuba akukho zindululo zinjalo, jonga uphononongo kumnatha, kodwa yibani inqaku-ugqirha uhlala ebhala uphononongo ngokwabo.
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Nika umntwana ukuba aphumle
Akukho nto imbi kunokwamkela ukwamkelwa kwangoko emva kwesikolo okanye kwiiklasi ezongezelelweyo: Qinisa usuku olunye xa umntwana enomthwalo ophantsi, kwaye ebhetele ukuba alale. Umntwana odiniweyo ngokukhawuleza ubambekile, okuthetha ukuba naluphi na uxinzelelo lunokukhula lube yi-hysteria. Ngaba uyayifuna "i-adventure"?
Sukukhwela unyango ngentloko yakho
Ukuba umntwana akakaze afune ugqirha wamazinyo ngaphambili, yiya kwisihlomelo sokuthintela, ngokukhethekileyo ukuba angayifezekisi nayiphi na inkqubo ebuhlungu ngalo mhla. Ukuba unyango luyimfuneko, oko akufanelanga ukuqinisa-cwangcisa utyelelo olulandelayo malunga neentsuku ezimbalwa xa umntwana eza "ukuyeka" ukuyeka "iimpazamo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuqinisekisa ukuba utyelelo lokuqala luhamba luthando kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Sukujonga ukulinda
Zikhumbule ngokwakho kwiminyaka yobudala bakho: Uza nabazali bam kwagqirha kwaye wahlala emgceni (ukutyikitya kwi-Intanethi emva koko akunakwenzeka, okunengqondo). Ngelixa uhleli, izikhalazo ezimbi zabantwana abavela eofisini zaziviwe emva komnyango, ngenxa yeminyaka nje ukuba ungakuqondi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni, kwaye ngequbuliso kwakuza kwenzeka kum? Iingcinga ezinjalo ngokuqinisekileyo azincedi loo nto. Namhlanje, le ngxaki isonjululwa- ubhala nje ngesicelo kwaye uza ngexesha elithile ekliniki, apho ungafikeleli khona. Zama ukutyelela ugqirha ngokufutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba unempembelelo kwimeko yakho.